Chaseyourdreamzz
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what do you guys think about this situation ?
Xalimo in MN wonders why Somali guys don’t approach
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what do you guys think about this situation ?
mohamedismail
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Maybe this is the reason why?
Some of these requirements are a oxymoron. "Never talked to a girl before" but "5'10 + and Handsome"
Chaseyourdreamzz
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25 and never talked to a girl before something is definitely wrong if you haven’t talked to girls by that age
Lol at never spoken to a girl before. A good looking guy would have spoken to girls before for marriage or whatever for the most part, past a certain age.
Apart from that, I don’t think her requirements are unrealistic, especially if she’s pretty and has other qualities. But unfortunately, women asking for the male equivalent of themselves is rather controversial these days amongst men.
Apart from that, I don’t think her requirements are unrealistic, especially if she’s pretty and has other qualities. But unfortunately, women asking for the male equivalent of themselves is rather controversial these days amongst men.
mohamedismail
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That's true. Her standards arent bad if she is the equivalent.
On the other her post gives the energy that she is entitled. She feels like just because she is a pretty female she deserves men have to approach her.
Not saying thats her intention but that's the vibe she's giving off in this post. It's the equivalent of men demanding they gain women's numbers even when rejected. At the end of the day if a man wants to approach you he will if not then he wont.
Maybe she should try to go down the traditional route of asking her father to find a potential suitor in the community instead of waiting to be approached by random men.
Why do these fat cunts always mention height. She wants way to much and i bet she is proberly not even goodlooking
GaradShabeel
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Why do these fat cunts always mention height. She wants way to much and i bet she is proberly not even goodlooking
5'10'' is shorter than the average Somali of her age group anyways. She's just excluding maybe 10% of the dating scene. Not much difference
She also want a financial stable guy bassicly a wealthy guy. Wallahi she is reaching i want to know how she looks like for her to have such a high standard she better looks like a brown megan fox5'10'' is shorter than the average Somali anyways. She's just excluding maybe 10% of the dating scene. Not much difference
That’s not the real point as we both know that men in this day and age don’t approach women in real life as much anymore. Especially due to the metoo movement, women feeling that men who approach randomly as being creepy and due to low confidence amongst modern men and introversion now being at an all time high. A drop dead gorgeous Xalimo can easily have that issue if she isn’t going to events and isn’t meeting people via friends or online.
What a time to be alive. So wanting financially stability means you have to be very pretty? Years ago that would be the standard for any woman marrying because marriage = responsibility. Stability doesn’t mean wealthy, it means being able to pay the bills and look after a woman and children.She also want a financial stable guy bassicly a wealthy guy. Wallahi she is reaching i want to know how she looks like for her to have such a high standard she better looks like a brown megan fox
Sthap the cap, 5'10 is not the average height for a Somali of her age group.5'10'' is shorter than the average Somali of her age group anyways. She's just excluding maybe 10% of the dating scene. Not much difference
Went through her comments, she sound insufferable
Somali guys are rarely shorter than 5’9. Somali girls can afford to discriminate height wise as Somali men tend to be tall. Asking for a tall Somali guy is basic. Most of them are anyways.
GaradShabeel
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Based on my observation of diaspora Faaraxs in their mid 20s, the overwhelming majority of them are 5'10+
Women don't realise that western women aren't all that approachable. I mean we can appreciate beauty from afar, but we don't want to be seen as creeps/ harassers for going after women. But if you go to Latin America or Asia, its less frowned upon to chat to a woman in a flirtatious manner. This is a cultural discrepancy, it's a positive and negative. Less women get harassed in the west( not saying it doesn't happen)
Oh yeah on average i can confirm that somali men are taller than most other ethnicities
Girl that comment they made makes no sense what does being provided for have to do with looks it's the man's responsibility lol
Somali women go to weddings to stake out a potential male prospect, then through an associate or a relative get the guy’s number, and take it from there, and vice-versa with men looking for a woman. This direct approach she is talking about on random streets doesn’t exist, unless the male already has a point of reference, like a mutual friend and they have been in the same spaces before so they’re not exact strangers.
A girl moving to a different country or state, with no friends or relatives is a big red flag though
. That’s what White girls do when they want to hide their pasts and press ‘restart the game’.
A girl moving to a different country or state, with no friends or relatives is a big red flag though
. That’s what White girls do when they want to hide their pasts and press ‘restart the game’.
mohamedismail
Reewin. Lixda Gobol ee Maayland unii leh!
I totally agree with this point. Approaching on the street usually leads to short term dating or relationship but isn't a viable means to marriage.Somali women go to weddings to stake out a potential male prospect, then through an associate or a relative get the guy’s number, and take it from there, and vice-versa with men looking for a woman. This direct approach she is talking about on random streets doesn’t exist, unless the male already has a point of reference, like a mutual friend and they have been in the same spaces before so they’re not exact strangers.
A girl moving to a different country or state, with no friends or relatives is a big red flag though
Imagine that girl going to her father and being like " I found a potential husband. He approached me in the street" no respectable father will take that seriously.
mohamedismail
Reewin. Lixda Gobol ee Maayland unii leh!
But let's be honest how many people actually get married through being approached in the middle of the street. Heck it could probably work for a short term relationship. But no father will take serious a guy who his daughter met on the street. If it was a event or something similar that's understandable.
I just think women like this are just seeking free attention from men on the street. They want to be feel desirable and noticed by men to boost their ego. Even if a guy approached her and seriously wanted marriage she probably wouldn't take him serious due to the means he approached her in.
