Xalimo explain struggle of marrying out

[Aegon]

Interracial marriage still new in Somali community

When Idil Mohamed walks down the street with her husband, they often attract stares, and sometimes rude comments, because she is Somali and he is white. Somalis who marry non-Somalis are breaking the social norms of marriage and cultural traditions in their community.

www.mprnews.org

The article is from 2011, it is way worse now lol

 

[Angelina]

It isn’t worse now. The world has become globalized and soon mixed marriages will be even more normalized. Also, in the real world the average Somali man unless unhinged wouldn’t dare make a rude comment to a Somali girl married to a Muslim ajnabi. I personally know people that took their ajnabi husbands back home and they were welcomed by family back home.

You need to understand that you can’t control people or force families to ostracize girls that marry out because in the real world, many of these girls are welcomed or at least welcomed back by family and there is nothing you can do about.

 

[Aegon]

It isn’t worse now. The world has become globalized and soon mixed marriages will be even more normalized. Also, in the real world the average Somali man unless unhinged wouldn’t dare make a rude comment to a Somali girl married to a Muslim ajnabi. I personally know people that took their ajnabi husbands back home and they were welcomed by family back home.

You need to understand that you can’t control people or force families to ostracize girls that marry out because in the real world, many of these girls are welcomed or at least welcomed back by family and there is nothing you can do about.

Lmao good joke, i knox a girl in my city who married a madow and made the weeding in his city because no somali wanted to came, and where do you see girl takingn back their ajnabi husband back home ? we should refuse them the enter first of all, and you are absolutely lying.

Even with your propaganda Interracial marriage is not common in somalia and it is not the norm within Somali culture to accept interracial marriage.

Ladies who marry outside shouldn't expect society to treat their kids as somalis, cause they are not by any social standard. Legally and by document they can get citizenship as is the case with many countries, but by culture and tradition of the somalis, they will have difficult time gaining acceptance outside their immidaite families.

If you want to promote this garbage. I suggest you go back to the Umamh forum because this forum is only for identitarian Somalis. Let's not forget the fact that most interracial marriages fail miserably.



That’s funny but a common trait in ajnabi lovers like you is a need for vilifying their own people. This along with all of her other arguments makes her feel comfortable in her choices. It's so transparent really.

 

[Kramer]

I cant go out with someone of another race, looks odd, and embarrassing.
i feel more comfortable with MY people. so does 95% of our people.

with that being said stop digging up articles from 2011, Is this what you do with your spare time ?

 

[Angelina]

Lmao good joke, i knox a girl in my city who married a madow and made the weeding in his city because no somali wanted to came, and where do you see girl takingn back their ajnabi husband back home ? we should refuse them the enter first of all, and you are absolutely lying.

Are you okay? I literally have older aunts raised in Somalia in the 60s, 70s and 80s with Yemeni fathers.

Another person I know married to an Arab went to Somalia with him and he was welcomed. You’re a child and behaving like one. What YOU think should happen isn’t actually happening and the world doesn’t operate based on your whimps.

on the hand, non Horn African madows are a different story. They’re heavily discriminated against and a woman who marries a Somali bantu let alone a non Somali madow is looked down upon.

Even with your propaganda Interracial marriage is not common in somalia and it is not the norm within Somali culture to accept interracial marriage.

It isn’t common, but it happens and in the past in big cities like Xamar having an Omani and Yemeni father wasn’t seen as unusual. In fact reer Xamaris are usually found to be 40% Somali from the maternal line.

Ladies who marry outside shouldn't expect society to treat their kids as somalis, cause they are not by any social standard. Legally and by document they can get citizenship as is the case with many countries, but by culture and tradition of the somalis, they will have difficult time gaining acceptance outside their immidaite families.

Well yes, Somali society is tribal and in a tribal culture, you are what your father is. That doesn’t mean families are going to disown their daughters, sisters, cousins ect.

If you want to promote this garbage. I suggest you go back to the Umamh forum because this forum is only for identitarian Somalis. Let's not forget the fact that most interracial marriages fail miserably.

I’m not. I’m a realist whilst you’re behaving like an emotional little boy. I prefer Somali/Somali marriages, but unlike you I believe people have free will and also understand that the vast majority of people aren’t going to disown their kin and nor should they.

That’s funny but a common trait in ajnabi lovers like you is a need for vilifying their own people. This along with all of her other arguments makes her feel comfortable in her choices. It's so transparent really.

Having common sense doesn’t make you can ajnabi lover. I’m merely informing you of the reality of life. I have half Yemeni aunts and a cousin who has married an Arab, believe me no one has disowned them and they actually grew up in Somalia being mixed with no issues at school ect.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Whoever people are meant to marry is qadr allah everything is already pre written plus we live in the west it’s only natural that some of us will marry other cultures it is what it is tbh

 

[Abdi sensei]

I will never support a female marrying ajnabi.

I wish them no Ill will as Muslim but the father is always the head of household.

And they must follow the fathers culture & language.

 

[Aurelian]

I will never support a female marrying ajnabi.

I wish them no Ill will as Muslim but the father is always the head of household.

And they must follow the fathers culture & language.

Every xalimo should cross mountains, kill dragons, seal through the seven seas and kingdoms and wonder deep into you mother's basement to find you and ask you permission to marry out.

 

[NinWero]

It isn’t worse now. The world has become globalized and soon mixed marriages will be even more normalized. Also, in the real world the average Somali man unless unhinged wouldn’t dare make a rude comment to a Somali girl married to a Muslim ajnabi. I personally know people that took their ajnabi husbands back home and they were welcomed by family back home.

You need to understand that you can’t control people or force families to ostracize girls that marry out because in the real world, many of these girls are welcomed or at least welcomed back by family and there is nothing you can do about.

That's the biggest lie I have heard. The world is becoming more fragmented and tribal. Nations are becoming more nationalistic, including Somalis.

Today, Somalis are way more nationalistic than they were 10 years ago, you will see young Somalis repping their flag, culture, and music, something that never use to happen 10 years ago.

I think interracial marriages will be more frowned upon, especially as the world becomes more tribals. Yes, interracial marriage was in like 5 years ago, but things are completely changing now.

 

[Riya.]

This is a normal outcome for different ethnicities living in the west together. It’s not a common thing for Somalis to marry out anyways. Why this is a matter of concern for you I’ll never know.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

That's the biggest lie I have heard. The world is becoming more fragmented and tribal. Nations are becoming more nationalistic, including Somalis.

Today, Somalis are way more nationalistic than they were 10 years ago, you will see young Somalis repping their flag, culture, and music, something that never use to happen 10 years ago.

I think interracial marriages will be more frowned upon, especially as the world becomes more tribals. Yes, interracial marriage was in like 5 years ago, but things are completely changing now.

Your right people are a lot more nationalistic then 10 years ago however keep in mind a sizeable amount of Somalis kids are raised mainly around ajanabis there friends are mainly ajanabis and they live in areas with a small Somali population who do you think they will marry those around them it’s only gonna increase more as time goes on tbh

 

[CanoGeel]

Interracial marriage still new in Somali community

When Idil Mohamed walks down the street with her husband, they often attract stares, and sometimes rude comments, because she is Somali and he is white. Somalis who marry non-Somalis are breaking the social norms of marriage and cultural traditions in their community.

www.mprnews.org

The article is from 2011, it is way worse now lol

Wudnt be a thing without the based Adeer,

"I had one case that the father said, 'I don't care who is the groom. I don't want my daughter to marry any non-Somali person,'" Mohamud recalled. "We asked why?

He said, 'I want to communicate to the husband of my daughter, and I don't speak the language, I don't know the culture.'"

And probably right after that the good natured natured Adeer had the White guy beyond shook, Puffing and muttering curses at all directions in a foreign language .
*U low Life Norvagian race mixer, can u pay 100 camels as a dowry? Or chase a lion with a mere Dagger

 

[Aegon]

Wudnt be a thing without the based Adeer,

"I had one case that the father said, 'I don't care who is the groom. I don't want my daughter to marry any non-Somali person,'" Mohamud recalled. "We asked why?

He said, 'I want to communicate to the husband of my daughter, and I don't speak the language, I don't know the culture.'"

And probably right after that the good natured natured Adeer had the White guy beyond shook, Puffing and muttering curses at all directions in a foreign language .
*U low Life Norvagian race mixer, can u pay 100 camels as a dowry? Or chase a lion with a mere Dagger

BASED

 

[Kreeper]

Interracial marriage still new in Somali community

When Idil Mohamed walks down the street with her husband, they often attract stares, and sometimes rude comments, because she is Somali and he is white. Somalis who marry non-Somalis are breaking the social norms of marriage and cultural traditions in their community.

www.mprnews.org

The article is from 2011, it is way worse now lol

Stop thinking you own women from the same ethnicity; your life will get x100 better. Couldn’t care less who a xalimo marries

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

Interracial marriage still new in Somali community

When Idil Mohamed walks down the street with her husband, they often attract stares, and sometimes rude comments, because she is Somali and he is white. Somalis who marry non-Somalis are breaking the social norms of marriage and cultural traditions in their community.

www.mprnews.org

The article is from 2011, it is way worse now lol

Fam, a 2011 article? The well dry on Somali drama today? Digging up archives? Do you feel like a big man fam?

 

[Blackpool]

Are you okay? I literally have older aunts raised in Somalia in the 60s, 70s and 80s with Yemeni fathers.

Another person I know married to an Arab went to Somalia with him and he was welcomed. You’re a child and behaving like one. What YOU think should happen isn’t actually happening and the world doesn’t operate based on your whimps.

on the hand, non Horn African madows are a different story. They’re heavily discriminated against and a woman who marries a Somali bantu let alone a non Somali madow is looked down upon.

It isn’t common, but it happens and in the past in big cities like Xamar having an Omani and Yemeni father wasn’t seen as unusual. In fact reer Xamaris are usually found to be 40% Somali from the maternal line.

Well yes, Somali society is tribal and in a tribal culture, you are what your father is. That doesn’t mean families are going to disown their daughters, sisters, cousins ect.


I’m not. I’m a realist whilst you’re behaving like an emotional little boy. I prefer Somali/Somali marriages, but unlike you I believe people have free will and also understand that the vast majority of people aren’t going to disown their kin and nor should they.



Having common sense doesn’t make you can ajnabi lover. I’m merely informing you of the reality of life. I have half Yemeni aunts and a cousin who has married an Arab, believe me no one has disowned them and they actually grew up in Somalia being mixed with no issues at school ect.

Yemenis are close to us and so are Omanis so this is not a problem, we have been marrying for years and have a history together there are also tribes who live on the coast who marry Yemenis and Omanis so there is no problem
Also Darood think they are arab so if your aunty was Darood it probably explains this
Yemenis got similar culture to us and many Somalis get this DNA they aren't as shisheeye

 

[Dima&Damo]

Reer magaal won't exist within 20 years then our plans will be executed

Hail reer tuulo

 

[Gafgin]

Bro wtf is this CUCK shit

Despite these big responsibilities for grooms, Julian Chippendale said about 30 of his Caucasian friends are married to Somali women, and he often gets teased by his male Somali friends.

"Often times, it's with friends of mine and brothers who are just joking with me, but often times it's just like: 'You all cadaan, all you white guys, you are just stealing our women, what is wrong with you.' They do in a joking fashion," said Chippendale.

 

[Aegon]

Bro wtf is this CUCK shitView attachment 235081


Despite these big responsibilities for grooms, Julian Chippendale said about 30 of his Caucasian friends are married to Somali women, and he often gets teased by his male Somali friends.

"Often times, it's with friends of mine and brothers who are just joking with me, but often times it's just like: 'You all cadaan, all you white guys, you are just stealing our women, what is wrong with you.' They do in a joking fashion," said Chippendale.

30 white guy married to Xalimo ? lmao

 

[GuanYu]

Are you okay? I literally have older aunts raised in Somalia in the 60s, 70s and 80s with Yemeni fathers.

Another person I know married to an Arab went to Somalia with him and he was welcomed. You’re a child and behaving like one. What YOU think should happen isn’t actually happening and the world doesn’t operate based on your whimps.

Does people in your family marrying out and other people you know marrying out. make it the norm? Even though you haven't said its the norm, however that is what you're exactly implying with this post