Xalimo divorced on wedding night after husband found out shes not a...
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No, someone who enters marriage with a big lie deserves divorce 
If he was a virgin himself he has the right to also want a virgin partner, I don’t blame him would’ve done the same
Men lie too and the reverse situation can occur.
I would have done the same damn thang, imagine paying for expensive wedding and meher only to find out the goods are preowned. GET THE f*ck OUTNo, someone who enters marriage with a big lie deserves divorce
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Men don't lie tbh .Men lie too and the reverse situation can occur.
Women don't care about a guys virginity at all .
Women prefer experienced men, thats why married men are so popular, she wants a man that can take control not a timid virgin.
They do. And not all women are willing to excuse a 'sordid' past giving him a clean start. Its hard to trust a man who might not take marriage seriously particularly when it comes to absolute monogamy.
They have a lot more to prove in the way of fidelity than an unsullied miskeen with less baggage. If you are thinking of the long game you choose wisely and ideally your match with respect to experience.
Arent you still unmarried? Are you gonna pull a Safiyo Tusmo at 50?They do. And not all women are willing to excuse a 'sordid' past giving him a clean start. Its hard to trust a man who might not take marriage seriously particularly when it comes to absolute monogamy.
How did he know for certain though? Did he admit it on her wedding night? Or is he one of those jaahil people who think a woman has to bleed.
If he had no real proof and is just merely accusing her, then he is an evil human being. According to the Sharia she would have the legal right to sue him and he would be whipped for accusing her without proof in front of her friends and family.
Also, Islamically both parties are not allowed to reveal their past sins. Anyone dumb Farax who tries attack me on this and I know there will be some is a dumb jahil who does not know his deen and puts his own nafs and emotions first. Talking about your 'pasts' and wretched sins and Allah has covered up is such a Western concept.
If he had no real proof and is just merely accusing her, then he is an evil human being. According to the Sharia she would have the legal right to sue him and he would be whipped for accusing her without proof in front of her friends and family.
Also, Islamically both parties are not allowed to reveal their past sins. Anyone dumb Farax who tries attack me on this and I know there will be some is a dumb jahil who does not know his deen and puts his own nafs and emotions first. Talking about your 'pasts' and wretched sins and Allah has covered up is such a Western concept.
Men need to start keeping that to themselves. Talking about your wretched 'sins' and pasts is haram. The only reason why men do not lie is because they're not judged for it and a lot of Muslim men have fallen for the sick concept of getting women to sleep with makes you more of a man.
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Yeah I agree with you 100%They do. And not all women are willing to excuse a 'sordid' past giving him a clean start. Its hard to trust a man who might not take marriage seriously particularly when it comes to absolute monogamy.
That's why zina is the same sin for men & women . But we cant deny that a man's past isnt the first concern of a women.
Yall think about wealth,looks,height more than his past .
Men on the other think only about a womens past. Sometimes even before looks. A womens past can destroy every attraction from a men to her .
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You're a jahil to disagree with this. There is literally no differences of opinion within our deen when it comes to this. So, my question is, what religion are you following?
You're a jahil to disagree with this. There is literally no differences of opinion within our deen when it comes to this. So, my question is, what religion are you following?
Umm you didnt listen to the video? The brother she was as wide as a well in af Somali and that he was scammed and wants his money back. He literally tried her out on the wedding night what more proof do you need?
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Everytime @Angelina crawls out of her cave it's bad vibes.
Go back to your cave & take your bad vibes with you
Everytime @Angelina crawls out of her cave it's bad vibes.
Go back to your cave & take your bad vibes with you
Bad vibes? What is my Islamically backed point bad vibes? Who would have thought?
Baax learn your religion instead of getting emotional uff.
Arent you still unmarried? Are you gonna pull a Safiyo Tusmo at 50?
Nah. I'm good. I was recently betrayed when a suitor lied about his vaccine status for a week (or should I say omitted).
Suffice it to say, I'm going through somethings.He was the only person I was able to successfully bully into staying a pureblood for so long. That was until his Hospital job mandated it. I fear for his health and the viability of his future spawn. Will they be blackeyed or developmentally distinct from what we're used to seeing?
It's a lot to process at this time.
Not all women bleed on their wedding night for flip sake. What concrete proof is there? Some women aren't born with a proper hymen wth?!
Are we Iranian villagers for us to be behaving this way? Wallahi, any man that counts that as 'proof' and then proceeds to shame a girl deserves to get lashed and publically humiliated and that was the Sharia advocates. Alhamdulliah.
Also, the guy wasn't talking about his experiences just used the wide as a well as an example.
