No way I saw an atleast 29 year old grinning because of this thread

Having a kid out of wedlock is such an outdated term. Children do not need to be “legitimized” in their humanity, it’s something they’re already born with. Regardless if it’s from a traditional marriage or not
And as for the woman , if she’s had consensual sex with someone and wanted a child from it without being in a ‘marriage’ it’s something that’s up to her and her current partner if she has one, only condition is that she treats the nuune good