Would you ever divorce a girl after finding out that she was in a relationship before your marriage

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  1. zeinap83

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    Lol this sounds like a personal problem. OP why you stressed? You got a saqajaan past miiya?:ulyin:
     
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  2. F_A

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    You not even somali?
     
  3. PhaedrusHunt

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    How bout just being honest from the get go thus potentially avoiding a shit show of a divorce that’ll ruin your reputation in the community?

    Picture this, you’re married to the guy and somehow by word of mouth he finds out you’ve had a past, he divorces you plus the situation could have some dire consequences if kids are in the mix thus tying your lives together. All of this can be avoided if you are honest with your intentions. :manny:
     
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  4. F_A

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    No. I am asking in general.
     
  5. ElitistSomali

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    As a none Muslim and someone who doesn’t rate marriage and virginity I can tell you this with confidence that a virgin and none virgin will never be the same even if the none virgin stops having sex for 20 years
     
  6. F_A

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    He stupid for divorving you after kids. He stupid for divorcing you even if there are no kids but you have been married for years.
     
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  7. fxinvestor

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    what has being raised with a white family got to do with your sexual experience?

    you still come across as in-experienced to me.
     
  8. F_A

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    he inecperienced as hell. he sounds like a 13 year old acting 38.
     
  9. zeinap83

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    Abaayo we accept hoes from all walks of life. Drop your story down below.
    I dont judge :trumpsmirk:
     
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  10. F_A

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    Nah I am legit clean. Im below 18.
     
  11. Kingjames

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    Why don’t you just be upfront about your past, if he leaves you then it was not meant to be.
     
  12. F_A

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    its not good to show your sins if Allah has concealed them for you.
     
  13. ElitistSomali

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    It has a lot to do with as in the cultural background I was raised with it was ok to have girlfriends and be sexually active as early as 15-16 and not viewed as a bad thing or religiously forbidden unlike the Muslim background that most of you come from where sex is taboo until marriage of which by that time you inexperienced and come out clueless about virginity
    :mjpls:
     
  14. PhaedrusHunt

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    What is wrong with agency and facing the consequences of your past actions in life? Deception is not conducive to a healthy start in a marriage. Never has and never will be.
     
  15. NotAjnabi

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    Homeboy I ain't no male hoe

    But yee
     
  16. F_A

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    It is not deception. How evil can you guys get? Nearly all you guys on here have the same FREAKIN mentality. What will become of that girl if all of you are not willing to stay with her?
     
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  17. F_A

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    are you Somali or not bro?
     
  18. Kingjames

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    :mjlol: the person would find out regardless. Do you know how fast gossip about situations like that spreads? Women are really stupid if they believe a guy would shut up about a person he had sex with. Before you know it the whole neighborhood would find out.

    That would be incredibly embarrassing for the guy, and you would think if it wouldn’t have been better if he found out from you instead of the streets.
     
  19. fxinvestor

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    you know sex is not only forbidden in Islam, but all religion's

    and you sound very ignorant, its quite embarrassing

    sex is not taboo for Muslim's who were raised in the UK, Europe and America. From school at a young age sex is the norm, so please do not talk about how we are clueless
     
  20. Kingjames

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    :trash:
     
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