Would you ever divorce a girl after finding out that she was in a relationship before your marriage

[F_A]

Be honest guys.

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

You mean if she lied to my face and wasn’t upfront about her past? Then yeah, I’d divorce.

 

[NotAjnabi]

You mean if she lied to my face and wasn’t upfront about her past? Then yeah, I’d divorce.

Trust is important, smart man.

 

[F_A]

You mean if she lied to my face and wasn’t upfront about her past? Then yeah, I’d divorce.

why does she have to be upfront about it? it is between her and Allah. It is none of your business. She had a life before you, you know.

 

[F_A]

Trust is important, smart man.

So would you really tell her about your past as well?

 

[AussieHustler]

Nope, in-fact, I will be pleased that she isn't a virgin.

 

[fxinvestor]

Be honest guys.

Of course you should tell your future spouse about your past as I dont think that would be far.

To be honest most people lie about their past.

 

[zeinap83]

Why do yall always demand to know your ladys past? If she wants to shell tell you if she doesnt she wont. Islamically she doesnt have to tell you jack shit. If it doesnt affect you in anyway and youll never see the man why tf do you care? if he knows him tho lmaoo you gotta tell him naayada inyar xishooda.

 

[fxinvestor]

Why do yall always demand to know your ladys past? If she wants to shell tell you if she doesnt she wont. Islamically she doesnt have to tell you jack shit. If it doesnt affect you in anyway and youll never see the man why tf do you care? if he knows him tho lmaoo you gotta tell him naayada inyar xishooda.

Only a insecure guy would feel some type of way

 

[F_A]

Of course you should tell your future spouse about your past as I dont think that would be far.

To be honest most people lie about their past.

I dont need to say anything unless there is some kinda evidence i.e. child.

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

why does she have to be upfront about it? it is between her and Allah. It is none of your business. She had a life before you, you know.

She’s not marrying Allah, she’s marrying him. In addition, the very fact that a person plans to HIDE their past and obscure the truth indicates their guilt. I’m not trying to marry some girl who in her younger years gave it up for a KFC meal in the back seat of a Honda while I drop a 30k+ mehr for her, miss me with that cuck shit.

 

[F_A]

She’s not marrying Allah, she’s marrying him. In addition, the very fact that a person plans to HIDE their past and obscure the truth indicates their guilt. I’m not trying to marry some girl who in her younger years gave it up for a KFC meal in the back seat of a Honda while I drop a 30k+ mehr for her, miss me with that cuck shit.

Isnt it a good thing if she is guilty? she dont have to tell you nothing.

 

[fxinvestor]

I dont need to say anything unless there is some kinda evidence i.e. child.

yeah i hear you. But theres certain girls who were very messy in their past, maybe been with 15+ guys and then meet a potential husband and act like a saint, now that is a different story.

 

[fxinvestor]

It does matter though, word always gets round, if a girl was very loose in her past, it will come back and bite her in the ass.

 

[World]

She doesn’t have to tell me her past but I will list some requirements that I want in my wife and add on a virgin spouse who kept her chastity to the list. That way she won’t be exposing her sin and at the same time won’t be fooling me. All she has to do is move on.

If I later find out that she has a past, then I’ll divorce her.

 

[fxinvestor]

She doesn’t have to tell me her past but I will list some requirements that I want in my wife and add on a virgin spouse who kept her chastity to the list. That way she won’t be exposing her sin and at the same time won’t be fooling me. All she has to do is move on.

If I later find out that she has a past, then I’ll divorce her.

But you would never know if a girl was a virgin or not

 

[F_A]

She doesn’t have to tell me her past but I will list some requirements that I want in my wife and add on a virgin spouse who kept her chastity to the list. That way she won’t be exposing her sin and at the same time won’t be fooling me. All she has to do is move on.

If I later find out that she has a past, then I’ll divorce her.

That isnt right. What if she truly regrets it. Wouldnt you want her to forgive you if you had a past too?

 

[F_A]

But you would never know if a girl was a virgin or not

yeh you are right. the hymen is NOT an indicator.

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

Isnt it a good thing if she is guilty? she dont have to tell you nothing.

Wallahi its times like this I seriously consider going home to get married.


I’ll make an exception to a woman who’s been divorced or raped, that’s as far as I’ll go.

 

[World]

But you would never know if a girl was a virgin or not

That has nothing to do with the hypothetical question posed by the OP.