Would You Be Okay with Your Wife Attending Mixed Weddings and Non-Mixed Weddings?

[Angelina]

Am i supposed to boycott my friend and families weddings ?

As a man they only expect you to go to the Nikkah. In Somali dhaqan the wedding party has always been female territory, hence why the grooms own father wouldn’t even show up lol.

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

War calaacalka naga daa

Take that incel badge and move on with your L. You’re starting to sound extra feminine with the way you’re whining

you are whiteknighting like a mf here.

If all of these people can provide evidence for their claims i will make a public apology.

But we all know dat won't happen cuz the accusations are baseless af.

Seems like you are a strong supporter of accusing people without evidence.

 

[Angelina]

It’s actually more common than you might think. Based of those I’ve observed/heard of, it’s setup that way by the brides and grooms themselves. Especially western born/raised Somalis.

I’m from the west and have been to dozens of weddings including mixed. Usually the guys come with the groom and it’s usually the friends, cousins and brothers. Older uncle and fathers won’t come as in Somali culture, the wedding party is seen as the women’s domain and the younger guys only really come to support the groom. The groom obviously isn’t going to feel comfortable coming in and being the only male.

 

[World]

As a man they only expect you to go to the Nikkah. In Somali dhaqan the wedding party has always been female territory, hence why the grooms own father wouldn’t even show up lol.

Maybe 30 years ago but now somalis are “ilbax”

 

[GaradShabeel]

I’m from the west and have been to dozens of weddings including mixed. Usually the guys come with the groom and it’s usually the friends, cousins and brothers. Older uncle and fathers won’t come as in Somali culture, the wedding party is seen as the women’s domain and the younger guys only really come to support the groom. The groom obviously isn’t going to feel comfortable coming in and being the only male.

True. The only reason older Somalis don’t attend is because it goes against the deen and dhaqan. With that being said, freely mixing at wedding both in the west and back home (some of them more notorious than qurbajoog) are increasing over time and it seems to be getting normalized as well.

 

[Odious Delirium]

You’re right that mixed anything should be avoided, but there will be more mixing at work to an extent, public transport ect and you don’t have the CCTV Islaamo lol.

Mixed Somali weddings are only mixed at the end in which she can leave and usually the whole fam and friends are there. Nothing can possibly go down so I find this topic odd. I have women in my fam that wear jilbab and go for a an hour to honor the invite but usually have to leave as Music is haram and they’re strict when it comes to that.

If you’re very strict MashaAllah and conservative then marry someone who is also against Music ect. That will stop them from attending most weddings or they’ll simply stay for a very short while.

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[astr0veiled]

jokes aside, men who go to mixed weddings exhibit feminine behavior

i want to buraanbur and dress up without covering myself in peace.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

You should let her attend so she can dance to the official mixed diyasbuuro Somali wedding song

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

You should let her attend so she can dance to the official mixed diyasbuuro Somali wedding song

I think they should all let their wives go out and let her do whatever she wants this is the west not backwards shithole Horn of Jahanam.

They must be some creepy insecure incels if they have an issue with their wives going to a mixed wedding where they do niiko and where guys come to shukansi and pick the next halimo for their aroos.

 

[GaradShabeel]

I think they should all let their wives go out and let her do whatever she wants this is the west not backwards shithole Horn of Jahanam.

They must be some creepy insecure incels if they have an issue with their wives going to a mixed wedding where they do niiko and where guys come to shukansi and pick the next halimo for their aroos

Sure, mr. insecure if that’s what you want us to believe about you kkk

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

I think they should all let their wives go out and let her do whatever she wants this is the west not backwards shithole Horn of Jahanam.

They must be some creepy insecure incels if they have an issue with their wives going to a mixed wedding where they do niiko and where guys come to shukansi and pick the next halimo for their aroos

I'd voice my concern about attending weddings of people you're not close to or don't even know.

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

I'd voice my concern about attending weddings of people you're not close to or don't even know.

Most weddings are big af man everyone shows up people u know and people u don't know there's so many people that go to weddings for shukansi and other haram shit.

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

I think Halimos should never ever let these feminine insecure faraxs control them at all weddings are where you can have fun where your loser controlling husband can't control you.
He should be home waiting for you anxiously while u dance with your girls and enjoy the company of many different strangers that know how to dance unlike your loser maskin husband that only knows how to do things right when u need money.

Insecure creepy trust issues having ass faraxs should get on the knees and beg their lovely Halimos when she comes home and is mad that dinner isn't ready.

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

Sure, mr. insecure if that’s what you want us to believe about you kkk

I'm sure yo futo hurts from all the futo clapping u been doing on this thread kkkkkkkk u ain't no damn shabeel u is a scared little cat looking for its owner

 

[GaradShabeel]

I think Halimos should never ever let these feminine insecure faraxs control them at all weddings are where you can have fun where your loser controlling husband can't control you.
He should be home waiting for you anxiously while u dance with your girls and enjoy the company of many different strangers that know how to dance unlike your loser maskin husband that only knows how to do things right when u need money.

Insecure creepy trust issues having ass faraxs should get on the knees and beg their lovely Halimos when she comes home and is mad that dinner isn't ready.

War self-hater ha noqon. How are you doing a 360 with your takes

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

War self-hater ha noqon. How are you doing a 360 with your takes

you one big mu'alif kkkkkkkkkkkkkk go fetch me da proof

 

[GaradShabeel]

I'm sure yo futo hurts from all the futo clapping u been doing on this thread kkkkkkkk u ain't no damn shabeel u is a scared little cat looking for its owner

You wish I was. Ain’t no booty clapping from my side. Must’ve gotten to your head, miya?

 

[xiin-finiin]

if you need to ask this question, you have serious problems with your marriage my guy. Like if you can't trust them to go to weddings, might as well leave them all together. That being said, i'd still feel uncomfortable with it cuz i have trust issues ig

 

[Odious Delirium]

i’m just pulling your legs. I think your expectations are completely valid and reasonable. i myself have conservative views about marriage and won’t settle until i find that.

May Allah make it easy for all of us

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

You wish I was. Ain’t no booty clapping from my side. Must’ve gotten to your head, miya?

I'm a realist ninyahow if u call me out for acting out of pocket i will accept it and admit my qalad but one thing i can't tolerate is fake ass weak ass baseless ass accusations and when u ask for proof they shut the f up xage game kaas laga ciyaara