Women who refuse to pay on dates

[Mudug_gyal]

I don't feed gaajo people. We are all equally in the west. If you can't pay for your plate don't come out because I'm not your father or charity organization. Y'all been getting too sassy at the mouth.

Dont expect a tradwife then. Come look at this absolute comedy sis

𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒​

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Not true. We’re not attracted to men that want to be paid for.

I’m sorry, we live in a world in which women work. They’re not wasting their time for a £30 meal if they don’t enjoy their company.

Im sorry but whats the use of a man if he isnt paying for your bills? Is he a vase or something?

 

[Kisame]

Me fr

 

[EyiPunter]

Dont expect a tradwife then. Come look at this absolute comedy sis

𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒​

If this is my wife I'm paying for everything house car bills you name it, but if it's someone I just meet? well hooyo got my mom before I find a wife.

 

[Kisame]

Catch me courtside at a Indiana fever game by the end of this season.

 

[EyiPunter]

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[Keep it a boqol]

Im sorry but whats the use of a man if he isnt paying for your bills? Is he a vase or something?

you will bend and pay for the nigga who takes you out one of these days. espcially if your attracted to him and want to make things work.

Stop lying to yourself

 

[EyiPunter]

He is gaal so naturally he is weird and zesty nigga

When you gone release that clip of @Kisame

 

[Mudug_gyal]

you will bend and pay for the nigga who takes you out one of these days. espcially if your attracted to him and want to make things work.

Stop lying to yourself

LOL, I have never looked a guys way just because of looks. Im not into looks. Its status and stability thats the most important. After its the character (alphaness) and then the looks. Im sure most women here would agree with me.

 

[CABDULWALI XASAN.]

Id be pissed if she was making 3x more then me That would drive me to do better

 

[empressjamila]

The only time I offer to split is when I absolutely can’t stand the guy and never want to see him again LOL

A woman who likes you will not pay, cause she wants to know if you got that provider in you

 

[Bernie Madoff]

I usually pay most of the time or at worst at least split the bill.

only times I had woman pay for the date was usually on my bday

 

[Febbie]

Very feminine and stingy behavior.

If you men knew how much women don’t like this behavior and mindset, you’d avoid it and tbh men who actually like the girl they’re trying to get to know do indeed pay and make an effort.

Men seem to only complain about paying ect when they don’t really like the girl or are incredibly stingy and childish.

Splitting the bill 50/50 equally.... is feminine, stingy and childish?

WTF lol

 

[Yaraye]

Men who don't pay are repulsive

it's genuinely gross!

 

[Yaraye]

So I overheard one of the senior managers (female) talking and basically say that she never pays on dates. Or even contribute. If a guy ever suggests going 50/50 it's automatically a red flag for her.

Her salary is 3X mine and refuses to pay anything.

My question is, how common is this way of thinking? Seems kinda toxic.

Your senior management is correct

 

[Do]

I don't know why you're disagreeing with @Kisame on this. He's right. It's common sense that whoever organises the date and invites the other is the one who pays.

If you want the man to lead, don't initiate.

 

[Bari]

I would pay on every date, if she doesnt even offer to pay at least once its an issue.

 

[Angelina]

I’m not saying we want 50/50 or to be paid for

I have had that happen to me but i still pay.

it just shows genuine interest.

Sometimes they’re testing you or they simply don’t like you. If you took the bullet, some women would look at you a certain way. They don’t want to pay for you and want you to be gentlemen enough to decline.

you will bend and pay for the nigga who takes you out one of these days. espcially if your attracted to him and want to make things work.

Stop lying to yourself

Not true. In the past the only time I would pay is if I didn’t want to see the man ever again. I’d pay to soften the blow. It isn’t nice losing money and the girl isn’t even interested.

I wish you lot really knew female psyche. For a good % it’s the opposite.

 

[Angelina]

Splitting the bill 50/50 equally.... is feminine, stingy and childish?

WTF lol

Yes. You’re a man and you’re the one that initiated the invitation. If you want to split or be paid for, you can wait for women to approach you like you’re a naag.

 

[Bari]

Yes. You’re a man and you’re the one that initiated the invitation. If you want to split or be paid for, you can wait for women to approach you like you’re a naag.

happened to me a couple of times over the years

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