Thats not true. I think as men if a wife is a great mother to our children its a huge, huge reason to remain committed in marriage to her. Most fathers seeing the love that a mother gives to her children and how much they enjoy that love would be hard pressed to disrupt that situation. I say this because I know of a Somali man who is in his late 40s and he is in the middle of a divorce right now. One of the main issues he has with his wife, among others - is how badly she treats their children. Physical, emotional, verbal abuses. I also recall seeing a Somali young woman while I was travelling and she was with a young Somali girl. She must've been walking her home from school but what captivated me the most was how beautiful their bond was. I assume she was an elder sister or something - too young it seemed to be her daughter/mother. But I really spent the rest of my journey thinking about how much of an incredible hooyo she would be to some child someday. May Allah make that easy for her and for all our sisters who want to be mothers.