Why I’m Still Single

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  1. Tukraq

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    you can get the perfect man if your the perfect women and vice versa, aka its not settling just dating on your level, a lot of women really overestimate thier standing and think that things like being educated and careerwomen are positives when in reality they add no added attraction to the other sex(middle school dropout and phd women have the same level to a guy dating wise), when it comes to dating/marring for a women your value will be more placed on looks and personality so thats where you should be ranking yourself, men on the other hand are more judged on status and wealth which is where they should put more value on, a top tier status/money man will have loads of perfect partner options the vice versa for women isnt however high status wealthy women because men wont put value in that but however the highly attractive 10/10/perfect personality women who can attract hundreds of prince charmings
     
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  2. RedStar

    RedStar The Bad Ali of Jigjiga

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    Many Somali girls don’t date(halal dating ofc), don’t socialise with the opposite sex, don’t move past childish social media ‘relationships’ yet they expect to meet someone that meets their requirements.

    Often they just complain like this girl, but they seldom ask themselves if they go to the right venues to go look for a future husband. The girl in the video gave it all away when she said “men don’t like outspoken and confident women like myself”. Nah mate, the men YOU meet are like that so maybe switch it up?

    If she was really happy being single at 28, then she wouldn’t have made this long video to explain herself. You gotta put yourself out there, in the right places, to attract the guys that will meet your requirements.
     
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  3. Desert Flower

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    Agree, but its calaf at the end of the day. As a man, where do you think would be good places for women to find a potential husband?
     
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  4. VixR

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    I mean, it just seems like you made up a caricature for her, and then attacked it.

    She doesn’t come across as someone who has a bad attitude at all.
     
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    RedStar The Bad Ali of Jigjiga

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    That’s right, but some women say it’s calaf and hope the man of their dreams will come knocking on their door without lifting a finger.

    Whether you’re looking for a spouse or a friend, it’s always good to expand your network. I’d say attend as many gala/networking events as possible, do some volunteering work within your community and etc. You’re bound to find likeminded guys. If you don’t find a few potentials, I’m sure you’ll find some good friends along the way. Win-win situation either way.
     
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  6. Jaydaan

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    This girl does go out, date and do everything. Sometimes you just dont meet the right person. But she is just 28 not 58.....so she has time. Calaf is real thing. The fact that she made video tella me she is ready and how more further can you go than tell the whole world on Youtube im sibgle and looking for partner. She did her bit imo. She is cute but too smart for my liking
     
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  7. Desert Flower

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    Thanks for your insightful response. I agree with this notion and think many should heed your advice.

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  8. VixR

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    You want a dumb wife?:icon lol:

    You’re the guy she was talking about lol. Too many of you out there.
     
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  9. Desert Flower

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    Doing that now, I actually edit my last response. LOOL, but thank goodness, im still young so I learned from my mistakes!
     
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  10. VixR

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    Best of luck, sis. I wish nothing but the best for you.
     
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  11. RedStar

    RedStar The Bad Ali of Jigjiga

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    Well she has more chance of meeting her future husband doing what she does now, than just give up. Good luck to her, I’m sure she’ll find many suitors in the near future.

    What do you mean with she’s too smart for your liking? :gucciwhat:
     
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  12. Desert Flower

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    Thank you sis. I feel like I'm a late bloomer, but I try to not let it get the best of me. I was extremely studious in undergrad, and blossomed later on. But from what I hear, don't think I've missed out on too much; that FOMO still bothers me though.
     
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  13. VixR

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    The only reason a guy would say they want a dumb wife, is they want someone they can fuck over. It’s the same reason PUAs target really immature girls. They know they’re not secure in themselves yet and don’t know their worth.
     
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    RedStar The Bad Ali of Jigjiga

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    It’s crazy how our parents never used to be like this. My parents have told me many stories from when they were young and single. They didn’t have these sort of restrictions put on them back then.
     
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  15. Jaydaan

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    You daaamn right. But every woman can be messed about. Look at nicki minaj. Went from strong badass to the man she is willing to risk it all.


    Smart girls are boring and miserable
     
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    RedStar The Bad Ali of Jigjiga

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    Let’s see what he has to say lol.

    He’s in the same category as men who say their wife can’t earn more than them.
     
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    It ain't fair at all, which is why I no longer listen or talk to them about that stuff LMAO. When Im ready to introduce them to someone is when imma let them know wassup.

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  18. RedStar

    RedStar The Bad Ali of Jigjiga

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    :ulyin: Come on bro just say you want a housewife

    Waliba an illiterate one that’s straight from Africa
     
  19. VixR

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    Nope.

    I’m just going to say GL to the people in your life. That can never be me.
     
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    RedStar The Bad Ali of Jigjiga

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    Sometimes parents do give a good advice when it comes to this topic. Perhaps, you should talk to them first :nvjpqts:
     
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