Not all Asians are effeminate men, have you not seen Asian men who are literally jacked? Just because the media portrays it that way for them to be asexual and effeminate they tend to get hate when it realky isn't like that. Likewise, I have nit seen a single Somali woman try to look Asian, and a lot of the time people just like the (female) make up looks and try them which is ok. Plus it is actually quite the phenomenon between asian men and black women, ever heard of AMBW? I am surprised too bc u don't really catch a lot of blasian couples around, but they said since they are the most judged and fetishized races, they seem to connect on that.
Not only women dye their hair weird colours, people just do it to look cool or to reflect their personality. Plus, not all women are attracted to man boys or whatever u called them, evidence is me, i like manly men. And some older k-drama actors are suprisingly attractive, in their 40s.