There's more time pressure with women. They stop having babies in their 40s and their looks decline rapidly after their early 30s. As for men, we can have babies till the day we die and looks are not as important for men as their social and economic status (which only increases with age). So of course women would feel more time pressure to find a partner, while men have more luxury to wait and see what turns up. With that said, men need to behave responsibility and marry earlier instead of sleeping around and taking advantage of all our male privilege. We may be better off individually by sleeping around (more pleasure), but society will fall apart if marriage and stable families do not arise within the time frame of females.