Why do some women expect to find serious relationships with men between the ages of 18-25?

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  1. babooshke

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    No sensible man in that age bracket is looking to settle down and be serious. They are just getting their lives together, focusing on their careers and their finances, why would they want to add a "serious" relationship into that mess.
     
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  2. Robin

    Robin Pan-African & Pan-Arab

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    That is prime years for a man. After 30 men expire. Who wants older men’s beer guts and erectile dysfunction?
     
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  3. babooshke

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    exactly, it's prime years for a man, why would he waste them having to account all of his plans for another person
     
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  4. riyaale

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    beer guts? u mean shaah cadeys right
     
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  5. Robin

    Robin Pan-African & Pan-Arab

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    Well, yeah. Men and women look their best in their late teens and twenties. It’s our peak.

    But I don’t understand the point of your question. Do you mean prime years for a man to sleep around?
     
  6. babooshke

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    No, but I don't expect men to be getting married at 21 either.

    It seems like women in that age group always cry that they can't find a "serious partner" which is why they often marry a guy in his 30s.
     
  7. sophisticate

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    Can't argue with that. Men are financially better off in their 30s. Problem is a lot I know seem jaded or very wary, sadly. Them at 20-something had more rose coloured glasses.

    But some espouse a school of thought of building together while young with someone committed.

    Neither of these paradigms is wrong just a matter of preference and what one can deal with.
     
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  8. Waaqo of Punt

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    Depends on genes. Some people manage to remain identical from the age of 40 to 60. Some can still be acrobatic as grandpas and be really healthy....

    Some are rotten by their 50s already.

    It's all down on genes.
     
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  9. sophisticate

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    Only partially due to genes, mindset and lifestyle factors are contributors that coalesce and impact genes. A physically active 50-year-old with quote unquote 'good genes' would biologically be younger than someone at 50 who ages well but is sedentary. And if we are comparing within the group of individuals who aesthetically age very well, all things being equal then the athletic one would look younger.

    But being frank most Somali men once they get married forget about their physical fitness or don't keep up with the same training regiment post-married life.:drakekidding:
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  10. Waaqo of Punt

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    Yh ofc lifestyle is huge too.

    I'm one of the few elites that takes care of himself, more and more are starting to go gym but even more are smoking and drink shaah all day lmao
     
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    They go to the gym but once they find a wife they don't stay there. :reallymaury:

    Update us in the future if you're still 'elite' and without a mildly bloated abdomen.
     
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    Men don't expire, :lol: They can reproduce into their 70s.

    As for beer guts.. obesity rates are much lower for men than for women. Also, even though men die earlier than women, their skin ages more slowly due to hormonal difference (thicker skin, fewer wrinkles compared to same age women, especially in middle age).
     
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    :salute:
     
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    Most people are fat because of lifestyle, very few because of genes..
     
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    Just cause a nigga can shoot out sperm until he’s 70 doesn’t mean shit. Older men are not as attractive as younger men, period. All my girlfriends tell me about the older men who hit on them all the time. They express their revulsion and call them creepy :mjlol:
     
  16. Apollo

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    I'm not defending marrying older men. Just saying that physically men age more slowly and are psychologically and financially better marriage partners post-25 than in their early-20s.

    A lot of guys are incredibly immature then, especially behaviorally. Almost no difference between late teens and early 20s when it comes to male behavior.
     
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    True. Men in their early and mid twenties are immature. There are some exceptions.
     
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    That’s a huge blanket statement. It’s not the age, it’s the guy.

    There’s this massive infantilization thing going in general where old af people even up to their 30-40s are acting like they’re tweens, and “adulting”.

    The truth of it is, if he’s immature, he’s immature.

    There are mature guys in that age bracket where the difffernce between their peers and themselves is like night and day, and a lot of it has to do with the way the grew up.
     
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    Best to marry as late as possible if you are a man who wants to pass on his lineage
     
  20. Apollo

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    I blame Western boomers.

    They created the conditions causing 'peter pan syndrome' millennials/gen z who can't afford to buy a house, are debt slaves, and are easily offended & immature. :mjlol:
     
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