Why do some women expect to find serious relationships with men between the ages of 18-25?

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  1. saredochani10

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    Somali men are so arrogant. Never seen this with other ethnicities.

    - blablabla we can have kids till we're 100 years old, toothless and mummified.
    - blabla women are no good after 50.
    - Women are about to expire while we still glowing.
    - We can do this. and that. and this and that.
    - we want 4 wives. we want 20 kids. we want your soul too.

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  2. Factz

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    Where do you get this from?

    Men hit their peak when they reach 30 and their prime age begins to fall in around their late 30's. Men age better than women.
     
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  3. sophisticate

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    They don't. I have a litany of examples of Abdis hitting the wall. :icon lol: While all the health conscious 30 something girls I know look a lot younger than them.
     
  4. Factz

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    It's because they don't look after themselves and these are exceptions but the basic scientific thought is widely accepted that men do in fact age better than women.

    It's due to many factors.

    His Hormone Advantage

    For women, menopause when the ovaries stop producing estrogen usually happens around age 50. This change can be sudden and symptoms like hot flashes, fatigue and vaginal dryness can be challenging. Men’s testosterone levels start falling gradually after age 30 but the symptoms are more gradual and men can father children when they are old.

    Sex Matters

    In this selfie-obsessed, celebrity-driven age, it’s easy to forget that aging isn’t just about how we look. It’s also about enjoying life and that includes (ahem) sex. An article on WebMD points out that men have stronger sex drives than woman while a woman’s sexual desire is sensitive to "environment and context.” The conclusion: If you need to be in the perfect setting before you have sex, you’ll probably have less of it. And that can make you seem older and less interested in your relationship than your male partner.


    It Pays to be Thick Skinned

    Life can be unfair. Women have more pressure to look young but a man’s skin is less susceptible to the signs of aging. The handy hormone testosterone makes male skin approximately 25 percent thicker and there is more collagen density. Furthermore, a guy’s skin ages more gradually.

    Just Born That Way

    Men and women gain weight differently and men have more muscle due to the testosterone hormone. In addition, women are by nature curvier but it’s important that curves don’t turn into excess fat.

    So yeah, here are the reasons why men age better than women and even among the Somali population. You'll find so many Somali men in their old that look ridiculously young.
     
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  5. sophisticate

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    We are talking about Somali men not overall. And aging is quite individual. Both my parents looked young for a long time (better than their peers).

    Also women who are single or have fewer children look younger relative to those with multiple births (from less wear and tear that accelerates cellular aging from having more kids).

    I have met equally health conscious men in my age cohort who look rather old. I have seen siblings more than a decade a part with the older one looking younger. Facial morphology matters along with biological age and resistance to the development of wrinkles (greater retention of collagen).
     
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  6. Factz

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    Somali men are men so I brought up their genetic advantages. We're not talking about exceptional women that take care of themselves. Ageing process between genders is significantly different and it's due to their hormonal & skin differences. Why do you think men hit at their peak age a decade later after women?

    From my personal experience, Somali women after they hit in their 30's just look old while Somali men seem to look 10, 20 and 30 years younger when they're old.

    Here are more example:

    Muuse Biixi is 70 years old but he looks like he's in his 50's.

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    Farmaajo is 56 years old but he looks like he's in his early 40's.

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    Hassan Ali Khayre is 51 years old but he looks like he's in his 30's.

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    Ismail Ahmed is 50 years old but he looks like he's in his 30's.

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    Abdullahi Yusuf was 77 years old but if you were to guess his age. Probably 55 to 60?

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    Abdirashid Duale is in his 40's but if you were to look at his smooth skin and his hair all black. You would assume he's in his 30's.

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  7. Robin

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    Men have a full head of hair and firm muscles in their twenties, which can’t be said when they start entering their thirties. Just accept the fact that it is their peak. No need to deny it.
     
  8. Factz

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    The prime age for men on average is 30 years old. You can debate that with the biologist, not me.

    My father by the way got his bidaar in his early 50's, just saying.
     
  9. sophisticate

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    My father is pushing 80 and is more handsome. Those men are not impressive.

    @AussieHustler said it well. Most 30 year old Somali women are married with children and sadly prone to sedentary living. It's tough finding an unmarried experimental group let alone ones that workout. :icon lol: Though I know a some. They still look better than their male peers. Even the athletic ones.

    I still think Abdis peak at 25 and descend in levels of attractiveness. The only handsome Abdis I have seen after 30 were unbalding and preserved better than their peers.

    I know that's a hard pill to swallow @Factz. Trust me most aren't encouraging me to share my eggs.:nahgirl:
     
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  10. Factz

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    The men I listed were not to demonstrate whether they are marriage material or not but to show they look way younger than their age. Although, I would say it's a good shot since they're very wealthy.
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    I have seen plenty of Somali men in their 30's who work out, have successful careers and show 0 sign of bidaar but the only issue is they're most likely to be married. Somali men, unlike Somali women don't stay single for too long.

    I honestly feel like when I become 30. My life would be fulfilled. I would be so much mature and would reach my physical peak. I'm 24 and blessed but when I become 30, I would feel like a king.

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  11. sophisticate

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    I'm a still a skeptic. I know the married and unmarried Abdis in their 30s. And even if the success is there the self-care mostly isn't. :axvmm9o: A part of me wishes to help them the other thinks they would be ungrateful.

    In the meantime, I will keep my occult knowledge hidden.:icon lol:
     
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  12. GoldmanSachs

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    The most successful relationships I have seen are men and women who met knew each other since they were kids and tied the knot young.

    The older you get and the more you play the field, the more jaded you become and your outlook becomes dire of relationships. This I find applies to both men and women.
     
  13. GoldmanSachs

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    Not always true. I can say I look better in my 30s than I did in my 20s. I have also known women like this as well. Aging can actually work wonders for certain faces.
     
  14. AliUK

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    I am going to need you to finish that sentence sis, I need to know whether I should admonish you or not

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  15. sophisticate

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    Abdis might workout but they don't pay as much attention on the quality of the food they consume. That is where I have them beat.
     
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