Women back home are back home are 100% much more likely to be golddiggers, simply because they are poorer.
Here in the west, we are too busy being independent women. *clicks fingers
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Women back home are back home are 100% much more likely to be golddiggers, simply because they are poorer.
Here in the west, we are too busy being independent women. *clicks fingers
Nah. Its the opposite. I been thru both. Naag qurba joogta waa lacag. Na somalia joogta waa caruurteeda. Even if they were gold diggers my kids will grow up good and her gold digging cost is less than 500 a month.Women back home are back home are 100% much more likely to be golddiggers, simply because they are poorer.
Here in the west, we are too busy being independent women. *clicks fingers
Independent my ass.
Not a western phenomenon, a lot have a such a hard time expressing themselves that they commit sucide, engage in delinquent behaviour, have violent outbursts ect you name it.
No one expects them to be emotional cry babies that blabber, you just need to express yourselves in private in the comfort of your homes at times, so you can face the world.
you.Nah. Its the opposite. I been thru both. Naag qurba joogta waa lacag. Na somalia joogta waa caruurteeda. Even if they were gold diggers my kids will grow up good and her gold digging cost is less than 500 a month.
Independent my ass.
Loool, you've proved my point. They expect less, simply because they have less.
There are certain women i will never consider after my first mistake. As for somali girla back home are more educated then the west. Ask anyone who has been back home. What we look for in women is a women who will raise raise kids to be tough and outstanding in life. Not soft entitled snowflakes qurba women are known to produce
No actually life is cheaper and proportionate.
Just as 100 wont do shit back home 2k in the US is nothing. Fahanyey ma fahantay
I've been back home, and due to the poverty and the level of responsibility the girls feel towards their family, money is a very important factor when choosing a spouse, so much so, i found their mindset very crazy.
Did i judge? No, because if I was raised there I would be the same or more. I'm not saying they are all like that, but many are. But is human nature, love and all that malarky comes 2nd as securing a positive future is more important.
Somali women back home are not only hardworking and resourceful, but also very, very intelligent. They can make a man feel as though she loves him for him when really and truly she only cares about his wallet. Seeing them showed me how maskeen and not smooth western Xalimos are.
like, i was looking at them like, i could learn a thing or two. I have two cousins that have been burnt and I have had countless of conversations with young Somali women from back home. The difference between my experience and yours is that they can talk to me honestly as I am a woman, whilst you are a man, you're not obviously going to have a real understanding of their mindset as you are a potential target.
Again, not all are like that though. But it is still a common phenomenon. I have countless tales of family members and family friends being used.
Somali men are emotionally unavailable because they lack coping strategies. They always look for excuses when it comes to their shortfalls and when they see no way out of the situation they turn the blame back to the woman. They are most likely to become the biggest sociopaths. I’ve seen some firsthand.
Just say you can’t afford western ladies rather than coming up with an excuse. The ones back home are gold diggers. Once they hear qurbaha and passport in one sentence they start with their good girl/miskiin/ nin u roon act. You men are easily fooled! MasakiinNah. Its the opposite. I been thru both. Naag qurba joogta waa lacag. Na somalia joogta waa caruurteeda. Even if they were gold diggers my kids will grow up good and her gold digging cost is less than 500 a month.
Independent my ass.
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Being stoic is an evolutionary advantage, especially in times of impending death. The geeljire were constantly under the threat of other aggressive tribes and the indifferent nature that could affect their livelihood.
Because it isn't healthy. Its why men are much more likely to commit suicide, why they end up having violent outbursts and uncontrollable fits of anger. Just toxic behaviour.
Parts of being a healthy adult is being able to manage your emotions. Just express yourselves, instead of bottling things up.
The prophet S.A.W is the best model to follow, he was the strongest of men, yet expressive.
So you're one of them, huh?
Some valid points, but in my honest opinion, as a man you should be selective with what, how and who you express/share with. This whole macho front is only to women, nothing wrong with having a deep conversation with your brother about how you feel every once in a while.
Also what do women back home say about Western faaraxs? You left it at a cliffhanger
So you're one of them, huh?
Some valid points, but in my honest opinion, as a man you should be selective with what, how and who you express/share with. This whole macho front is only to women, nothing wrong with having a deep conversation with your brother about how you feel every once in a while.
Also what do women back home say about Western faaraxs? You left it at a cliffhanger
I 100% agree. Tbh, be yourselves be expressive with your wives. Thats the person who should have your back and keep all your secrets and vice versa
No, we want men to be men but be expressive when they need to be.
Nobody want a little cry baby.
Being expressive with your partner should be normal.
And it is normal.....but people who constantly talk about men not being emotionally connected to them are usually looking for a crying partner or drama. Some women get off on drama and if you keep things simple and logical they will say you are expressing enough emotions. Most of us dont have enough emotions about most things.
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