Why do men think an average looking girl is desperate?

Yaraye

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Do you think if he asked you or your single friend exclusively he would have gotten it?
What was his approach like?
I don't give men socials/number even if they ask me first. If they are serious they can approach my family.

The issue was not his approach. It's normal for a guy to approach someone he was attracted to. In fact my friends have been approach by handsome men before. This isn't new to me, which is why I've developed the phone tactic if i'm not actually busy with something. I've never had an issue with the other ones. It's this guy taking out his bruised ego on me is what i got the issue with :susp:
 
You’re not a Man so you wouldn’t know. Us Men pursue women we find attractive irrespective of whether our peers find them attractive or not.
Lol firstly we’ve seen it play out on screen, but they’re gaal men. So, I have a guilty pleasure called Loveisland. There was a contestant who was very pretty. She was publicly humiliated by a particular guy she chose, he was like the ā€˜alpha’ of the group. Being rejected and humiliated in such a way like she gave him the ā€˜ick’ really did lower her stock. It was fantastic example of the human psyche. Yes, it’s a reality show, but it really showcased how humans are indeed sheep. Both men and women.

Men are sheep and it’s fine to accept it.

Oh and some men are into bigger girls. They deal with them in secret but are afraid to be seen with them.
 
Lol firstly we’ve seen it play out on screen, but they’re gaal men. So, I have a guilty pleasure called Loveisland. There was a contestant who was very pretty. She was publicly humiliated by a particular guy she chose, he was like the ā€˜alpha’ of the group. Being rejected and humiliated in such a way like she gave him the ā€˜ick’ really did lower her stock. It was fantastic example of the human psyche. Yes, it’s a reality show, but it really showcased how humans are indeed sheep. Both men and women.

men are sheep and it’s fine to accept it.
You’re comparing apples and oranges. What I’m saying is no man will ever ask his friend(s) if he should pursue a woman he met. Whereas, women always ask their friends if they should date a guy they met and get their approval.

Women are far more sheep-like than us dudes. Nothing wrong with it, since we’re different.
 
what L is this kind of situation? lol
She thinks somali women are better then somali men so anything that puts somali women in a bad spot comparative to somali men leads to her feeling slighted. You probably got called a fake xalimo in the past by her because she can't fathom other xalimos not sees farax/xalimo dynamics the way she does šŸ’€

She's probably upset that you called the farax attractive as opposed to a disgusting filthy creature like they all are in her opinion and for some reason she thinks we are all hyped because you got insulted since to her every thing is xalimos vs faraxs so she's telling you to stop hyping us up with this story of you getting "owned" by a farax :mjkkk:

Basically to sum it all up she's mentally stunted :wow:
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You’re comparing apples and oranges. What I’m saying is no man will ever ask his friend(s) if he should pursue a woman he met. Whereas, women always ask their friends if they should date a guy they met and get their approval.

Women are far more sheep-like than us dudes. Nothing wrong with it, since we’re different.
Men think with their dingaling tbh :gaasdrink:
 
why do you think that? :deadosama:
Sister, I have come across numerous of these fake and exaggerated stories about Somali women/Somali men. Somali Incels love to exaggerate their personal encounters or add events that never occurred. I know you made up this story to rile up the Incels. Clever trap.
 

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Sister, I have come across numerous of these fake and exaggerated stories about Somali women/Somali men. Somali Incels love to exaggerate their personal encounters or add events that never occurred. I know you made up this story to rile up the Incels. Clever trap.
Alot, if not most, stories on the internet are false or highly exaggerated to the point of fiction.
But this sort of thing does happen sadly, attractive man who knows it tries to get a girl, gets rejected, takes it out on her friend. Opposite happens but in a little different, hot girl chats to a guy, he shows disinterest or rejects her, she calls him gay or starts violating his looks calling him ugly cause she's butthurt.
It's just people in the upper % of attraction who think they can't get rejected and have high ego until they meet someone who does and they go 🦧
 
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It's not even vetting I was being facetious. This is basically out sourcing the relationship to those it doesn't concern.

the vetting process is long gone by this point if there in a relationship šŸ’€

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I know luckily I haven't dealt with anyone like that. It's literally hive mind mentality in play. It's a dealbreaker. I dont like people in my business like that. Both the guy and her friend dodged a bullet.
 
I went out with some friends. During this outing we decided to go to a second location so we split off into groups. 2 friends and I were headed to the car, when this objectively handsome somali guy makes a beeline in our direction. Now I ain't insecure, but I know I'm average looking. So I made the mental conclusion that the guy was headed to one of the two friends I was with. Both of my friends mashallah are stunning (inside and out). One of them is engaged, while the other is single. He got to us and asked for my engaged friend's socials. My engaged friend told him she was engaged. He turned to my other friend and asked for her social. She rejected him. I knew this guy wasn't about to ask for mine, so avoid looking awkward, I began fiddling on my phone to look busy. I thought that he would leave and we would go about our way. However, this nigga turns to me and says, "I don't know why you're pulling out your phone, I wasn't gonna give you my instagram." Before I could my mouth to say something, my engaged friend said, "She wasn't gonna ask." The guy suddenly ran off. I was annoyed that he thought I was gonna ask for his socials when I wasn't even genuinely interested in him. Why do some handsome men assume that an average looking girl always wants them? :dwill: Haven't they thought that average looking girls might not be interested in them? is this how average looking men feel when a delusional woman says they are interested? lol :deadpeter:
I went out with some friends. During this outing we decided to go to a second location so we split off into groups. 2 friends and I were headed to the car, when this objectively handsome somali guy makes a beeline in our direction.

Now I ain't insecure, but I know I'm average looking. So I made the mental conclusion that the guy was headed to one of the two friends I was with. Both of my friends mashallah are stunning (inside and out). One of them is engaged, while the other is single. He got to us and asked for my engaged friend's socials. My engaged friend told him she was engaged. He turned to my other friend and asked for her social. She rejected him.

I knew this guy wasn't about to ask for mine, so avoid looking awkward, I began fiddling on my phone to look busy. I thought that he would leave and we would go about our way. However, this nigga turns to me and says, "I don't know why you're pulling out your phone, I wasn't gonna give you my instagram."

Before I could my mouth to say something, my engaged friend said, "She wasn't gonna ask." The guy suddenly ran off.

I was annoyed that he thought I was gonna ask for his socials when I wasn't even genuinely interested in him. Why do some handsome men assume that an average looking girl always wants them? :dwill: Haven't they thought that average looking girls might not be interested in them? is this how average looking men feel when a delusional woman says they are interested? lol :deadpeter:
He’s the desperate one and some one gassed him.
 

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