Why do married Somali men with kids cheat?

[World]

Lool, i bet i have saved up more money that most of the people on this site. I have 70k usd on my bank, on God. 23 years old, and i'm only getting richer. And when i graduate and become filthy, prenup baby. No females are ever gonna catch me slip. Tiger woods is a sucker.

Why haven’t you graduated yet if you’re 23? Here in the UK, we graduate at 21.

 

[Basra]

When i see this photo first thing that comes in my mind is SEX.

 

[The alchemist]

Why haven’t you graduated yet if you’re 23? Here in the UK, we graduate at 21.

I got a diploma as an electrician, took a leap year for work, got back to school, and i'm on my 4th year MBA. In norway some studies have straight 5 year masters program. Not 3-2, but straight 5 years or you don't graduate.

Like civil engineering and civil-economics (mba)

 

[Basra]

I got a diploma as an electrician, took a leap year for work, got back to school, and i'm on my 4th year MBA. In norway some studies have straight 5 year program. Not 3-2, but straight 5 years or you don't graduate.

 

[GoldmanSachs]

Incels have no choice.

They can't cheat on their left hand with their right hand.


I'm talking about non-incel Somali men.

There's your answer. People who have options will probably exercise those options or at the very least be tempted by it.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

The amount of married Somali men with loads of kids that hit on me is astonishing.

How can you cheat on the mother of your kids?

They will literally follow you like puppy dogs and even go as far as saying he never loved his wife and it was just an arranged marriage, I know couple of naive girls that fall for that trick.

Ive a married associate with 3 little kids have this pick up line whenever women see the car seats in his car, he always says that's my sister's kids, I'm helping her out because her husband left her. Disgusting.



Why do Somali men cheat?

marrying a second wife is NOT cheating, cheating in islam is having sex outside of amrriage wehn yuo are already married,

change the title, he is allowed 4 in islam, and there is wisdom behind it,

a western men can be married to one but have children bastards with 6 females and that is considered not good,

a muslim men marries 4 wifes, atleast the kids have rights now in terms of inheritance, they dont get insulted as bastards, waa halal, they are not ashamed, and they have a dad who is around as well as knowing who is the real dad,

which do you prefer? the man cheats and the kids have no rights or the men marries the second wife and thus the kids have all the rights and a dad around?

stupid western raised somali halimos and their feminist toxicity,

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Let me make this clear to all of you idiots.


If you're married and you get a second wife but your first wife has no idea about it, then you're cheating on her.. Let her know you're seeking or married a second wife. Our religion is against hiding one wife and showcasing the other, treat them equal or stay in your lane.

 

[Mercury]

marrying a second wife is NOT cheating, cheating in islam is having sex outside of amrriage wehn yuo are already married,

change the title, he is allowed 4 in islam, and there is wisdom behind it,

a western men can be married to one but have children bastards with 6 females and that is considered not good,

a muslim men marries 4 wifes, atleast the kids have rights now in terms of inheritance, they dont get insulted as bastards, waa halal, they are not ashamed, and they have a dad who is around as well as knowing who is the real dad,

which do you prefer? the man cheats and the kids have no rights or the men marries the second wife and thus the kids have all the rights and a dad around?

stupid western raised somali halimos and their feminist toxicity,

Call it cheating deceiving or her getting played cause thats what it is when you dont let her know about it

She would look like an idiot when everybody else knows you have 2 wives

 

[Suldaanka]

Youre delusional how is he a soft man for not going behind his wives back?

How exactly is it manly to hide your intentions from your wife like a coward

Understand what im saying. Marrying multiple wifes telling them or not both are not cheating islamically.
Geeljire isagoo geedka meeshu ka goynayo yaqaan ayuu ku yiraahdaa xagee ka gooyaa.

 

[Suldaanka]

Warya, do you have 2 wives??? I though you were joking this whole time, but you are really into this 4 wives thing. Your life is going to become a disaster.

Alx 2 as for now. Whem i can afford more inshallah. Im enjoying no disaster. Western ideology makes it seem that its unethical . My whole family has multiple and they are all doing well. Me and my father and unlces have more money since getting married. Allah iirzaq for each family is written

 

[Suldaanka]

I'm joking. I would never introduce another woman to my relationship. That's just too much. @Suldaanka is on some hardcore 4 wives thing though

How is the sunnah hardcore.

 

[The alchemist]

Alx 2 as for now. Whem i can afford more inshallah. Im enjoying no disaster. Western ideology makes it seem that its unethical . My whole family has multiple and they are all doing well. Me and my father and unlces have more money since getting married. Allah iirzaq for each family is written

Brother are you trolling, or are you for real? Where were you brought up?

How is the sunnah hardcore.

The sunnah isn't hard core ofc, forgive me. What i meant was, you have no regard for the age we live in, real hardcore man. Not many men in the west advocate for several wives, so i thought it was out of the norm. But you seem un-conditioned by the western view on the matter. Some admiration from my part, and also peculiar interest.

 

[Suldaanka]

The sunnah isn't hard core ofc, forgive me. What i meant was, you have no regard for the age we live in, real hardcore man. Not many men in the west advocate for several wives, so i thought it was out of the norm. But you seem un-conditioned by the western view on the matter. Some admiration from my part, and also peculiar interest.

Are you really planning on getting several wives, sxb?

My bad than sxb. F the western ideology tooken by some irrelogious man and women on this site. They take the religion when it benefits them.
Understood, make the ummah numerous, make somali numerous .
Yh currently 2 girls now. Inshallah after maybe 2 yrs #3. Why have a second wife when you are too old to raise them. Im want to be whats called. Wallaki daale

 

[Suldaanka]

Brother are you trolling, or are you for real? Where were you brought up?


The sunnah isn't hard core ofc, forgive me. What i meant was, you have no regard for the age we live in, real hardcore man. Not many men in the west advocate for several wives, so i thought it was out of the norm. But you seem un-conditioned by the western view on the matter. Some admiration from my part, and also peculiar interest.

I was brought up between the states and somalia. My father and his brothers where raised in kenya somalia and yemen.

 

[The alchemist]

My bad than sxb. F the western ideology tooken by some irrelogious man and women on this site. They take the religion when it benefits them.
Understood, make the ummah numerous, make somali numerous .
Yh currently 2 girls now. Inshallah after maybe 2 yrs #3. Why have a second wife when you are too old to raise them. Im want to be whats called. Wallaki daale

As long as you treat them fairly and with respect and all that. But you have to be one persuasive dude to get two women to agree to that. A normal chick would cut the average faraxs head off if he proposed some polygamous business.

 

[Suldaanka]

As long as you treat them fairly and with respect and all that. But you have to be one persuasive dude to get two women to agree to that. A normal chick would cut the average faraxs head off if he proposed some polygamous business.

For you average is these halimos in qurbo. Im talking about unadulterated og somali women like your mom. Im truthful when i spit game. I tell what i want from them and if she is willing to spend her life with me in that condition. If she has good deen wallahi you will never worry. Most girls here have completed a diploma in islamic studies as soon as thefinish high school
Also i wish i coukd say i hav 70k. Walle laandhere baad tahay.

 

[The alchemist]

For you average is these halimos in qurbo. Im talking about unadulterated og somali women like your mom. Im truthful when i spit game. I tell what i want from them and if she is willing to spend her life with me in that condition. If she has good deen wallahi you will never worry. Most girls here have completed a diploma in islamic studies as soon as thefinish high school
Also i wish i coukd say i hav 70k. Walle laandhere baad tahay.

Brother, where do you live?

Also, saving up money is all about lowering your means and staying consistent. You should start saving up a percenage of your earnings now, because it may come a time when you need quick large sums of money to invest or any thing that may change your life for the better.

 

[Sophisticate]

Why, hello ladies.

Hello, Omer.

Closes eyes. No Abdi is good looking enough to be a co-wife.

#Team Monogamy.

@Reiko @Knowles

 

[HalimaJ]

For you average is these halimos in qurbo. Im talking about unadulterated og somali women like your mom. Im truthful when i spit game. I tell what i want from them and if she is willing to spend her life with me in that condition. If she has good deen wallahi you will never worry. Most girls here have completed a diploma in islamic studies as soon as thefinish high school
Also i wish i coukd say i hav 70k. Walle laandhere baad tahay.

Warya, just because a woman would not want to share does not mean she is lacking islamic knowlege.

A woman has a right not to want to be in a polygamous marriage. It has nothing to do with being 'western'.

I have older generation family members back home who refused to be in polygamous marriages.

 

[Suldaanka]

Warya, just because a woman would not want to share does not mean she is lacking islamic knowlege.

A woman has a right not to want to be in a polygamous marriage. It has nothing to do with being 'western'.

I have older generation family members back home who refused to be in polygamous marriages.

By islamic knowledge im saying she cant refuse or deny you from getting married. As is stated before. If she doesnt she can pay back her mehr and move on if she cant handle it. Plus its hard for someone to hide it even if he wanted to because somalida waxay tirada. War jiirba cakaro iiman