Why do gold diggers get a bad rep?

[YourBroMoe]

Actually this one is really good wife. Thats why i had to change my stance and anger towards gold diggers lol i dont even know where all the anget came from. Good for them.none of my business.

A good wife as in, she's a good mother, good at home, etc? Because then she's just a pragmatic housewife. That's cool.

 

[Jaydaan]

Actually this one is really good wife. Thats why i had to change my stance and anger towards gold diggers lol i dont even know where all the anget came from. Good for them.none of my business.

prefering to be with someone who has money is normal. Being with someone you dont even like because he affords you a certain lifestyle is golddigging. What happens if the guy go through a bad spell economically? Will she bounce the moment it gets hard?

 

[Halimo-2018]

prefering to be with someone who has money is normal. Being with someone you dont even like because he affords you a certain lifestyle is golddigging. What happens if the guy go through a bad spell economically? Will she bounce the moment it gets hard?

Lol generally though women are very loving people. With time and kids She will love him . She's not a robot. Money will make it easier. If all she wanted was the money she will be miserable whereas the guy will get what he wants lol so in that case it will be her lose.

 

[Kurolady08]

So i follow this married woman on yt she says that men choose women on how they look all the time and they not apologetic about it. Why cant women choose men on how much money they have? Why do women so.much where as men people overlook it. Why not?

Women naturally look for a male that either provide or improve them. Now we're alot of women go wrong is they don't want to have submit, clean, cook, work or bring anything to the table besides pussy. It's a balance.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Women naturally look for a male that either provide or improve them. Now we're alot of women go wrong is they don't want to have submit, clean, cook, work or bring anything to the table besides pussy. It's a balance.

She says she is the the table. She says no real men would ask that question only dusty men would. not my words her words.

 

[Kurolady08]

She says she is the the table. She says no real men would ask that question only dusty men would. not my words her words.

Was that even mean ?! That sounds like deflection. If a man can pay some girl for sex, what reason would have to pay more for her ? Being educated doesn't make you smart. A lot of college educated are only intelligent in their field and lack critical thinking skills.

 

[VixR]

lool im not broke nor upset. I also dont pay for dates.....one time I went on date and it was terrible and it was clear we were never gonna see. When it was time to pat for the food I acted like I forgot my wallet at home and put on the best peformance ever. She paid for it expecting me to give her the money back. I never did......why tell this story? Cause Im rather proud of it lol

Lol. I’ve had someone literally finish food off my plate and drink my drink, thinking I’d drink from the same straw.

I expect the guy to pay for the date he asked for. If he asks to split, which has happened, I won’t skip a beat, but I likely won’t see him again, because I now know 1) he’s passing time 2) he’s in no position to be dating and he doesn’t know it or pretends not to 3) they’re usually the type of guys who have the wherewithal to ask girls for money help, as in to literally fund their problems.

 

[VixR]

She says she is the the table. She says no real men would ask that question only dusty men would. not my words her words.

Looool. As in the woman is the table?

TBF, she’s right. Is this person on YT, Twitter? Post it.

 

[Jaydaan]

Lol. I’ve had someone literally finish food off my plate and drink my drink, thinking I’d drink from the same straw.

I expect the guy to pay for the date he asked for. If he asks to split, which has happened, I won’t skip a beat, but I likely won’t see him again, because I now know 1) he’s passing time 2) he’s in no position to be dating and he doesn’t know it or pretends not to 3) they’re usually the type of guys who have the wherewithal to ask girls for money help, as in to literally fund their problems.

How can a so called moderate 21st century women be against splitting the bill? I found the whole man paying for dates sexist and old fashion. I would definetely tell you pay your share. But i would never ask a woman for money. Everyone knows women are stingy as hell

 

[Karim]

for a lot of rich guys........its actually cheaper to have a golddigger. A dumb 22 year old you can pay her phone bill and rent and have your way. 9/10 so golddiggers are dumb simple girls who get used.

WOW!! I'm impressed with your analysis. It makes so much sense.

 

[VixR]

How can a so called moderate 21st century women be against splitting the bill? I found the whole man paying for dates sexist and old fashion. I would definetely tell you pay your share. But i would never ask a woman for money. Everyone knows women are stingy as hell

There’s nothing sexist about asking for a date and paying for it. I’m not paying to be dated, or prematurely investing in a stranger. If I were actually chasing men, god forbid, you’d have a point and I’d have the bills.

Think of it this way: If you invite/ask people somewhere (as in, per your request) either to your home or to an outing, are you supposed to be their host, or are they meant to bring their own refreshments and be their own host?

If a guy asks you out and expects you to split from the get go, imo he’s not it. Something’s wrong. I know some people accept it as normal, but I trust my observations/instincts. It’s a dupe to have women essentially paying to be dated, and many times it’s a downfall.

 

[Dino]

Lol at the men here who think date money should be split. Seriously guys that is self ownage at its finest. Don't expect a phone call back after that. Even in the 21st century there are some unspoken norms men need to abide by.

But that is nothing compared to stuff women have under islam. I get paid every month and my wife has a stake in that. Meaning i have to her her share and pay for her upkeep.

But guess what. when she works its her money and her money alone. I have no say in how she spends her money. Sounds crazy right. But as time goes go on. I realised it aint bad. She cooks for me, looks after the house, cleans the house washes my cloths etc etc. So i am not really bothered.

But fellas, just as men look for a beautiful women women look for financial stability. There is nothing more ofputting to a woman than a man who can't pay for things

 

[Jaydaan]

There’s nothing sexist about asking for a date and paying for it. I’m not paying to be dated, or prematurely investing in a stranger. If I were actually chasing men, god forbid, you’d have a point and I’d have the bills.

Think of it this way: If you invite/ask people somewhere (as in, per your request) either to your home or to an outing, are you supposed to be their host, or are they meant to bring their own refreshments and be their own host?

If a guy asks you out and expects you to split from the get go, imo he’s not it. Something’s wrong. I know some people accept it as normal, but I trust my observations/instincts. It’s a dupe to have women essentially paying to be dated, and many times it’s a downfall.

You got it all wrong. You are not a guest invited. Its a date if both feel each other that will lead to more. Its mutual beneficial for both. You dont have relationship with opposite sex as a favor for them......you both gain. And you are not being dated.....you are dating each other. You still have old school mentality that a woman is a price the man will try to win. Whats next I gave you a child? Or is it we made a child. Equal benefiting

 

[Dino]

You got it all wrong. You are not a guest invited. Its a date if both feel each other that will lead to more. Its mutual beneficial for both. You dont have relationship with opposite sex as a favor for them......you both gain. And you are not being dated.....you are dating each other. You still have old school mentality that a woman is a price the man will try to win. Whats next I gave you a child? Or is it we made a child. Equal benefiting

you still don't get it do you.....

 

[Jaydaan]

you still don't get it do you.....

Maybe i have too mich respect for women and lifting them more than they want to

 

[Dino]

Maybe i have too mich respect for women and lifting them more than they want to

Actually the respectful manly thing would be to be payee for the entire date.

 

[VixR]

You got it all wrong. You are not a guest invited. Its a date if both feel each other that will lead to more. Its mutual beneficial for both. You dont have relationship with opposite sex as a favor for them......you both gain. And you are not being dated.....you are dating each other. You still have old school mentality that a woman is a price the man will try to win. Whats next I gave you a child? Or is it we made a child. Equal benefiting

Nope.

Reality: You saw me. You liked what you saw. You asked me. We don’t know each other. Depending on what I can ascertain, I might oblige, but I’m still on the fence. I’m taking the risk.

Your goal is to impress me and to find out if there’s anything of substance on the inside (or to screw, or both, depending). Mine is to either be impressed or not be impressed, and figure out your substance (or to decide if the specimen before me is acceptable for screwing). We both already know you want me in at least one way, or you wouldn’t have asked.

There’s always the next girl who doesn’t mind paying to be invited/dated.

You seem like the type to say, “We’re pregnant!”. No, you’re not pregnant, she is lol.

Maybe i have too mich respect for women and lifting them more than they want to

It’s actually the opposite that’s true.

 

[Jaydaan]

Nope.

Reality: You saw me. You liked what you saw. You asked me. We don’t know each other. Depending on what I can ascertain, I might oblige, but I’m still on the fence.

Your goal is to impress me and to find out if there’s anything of substance on the inside (or to screw, or both, depending). Mine is to either be impressed or not be impressed, and figure out your substance (or to decide if the specimen before me is acceptable for screwing). We both already know you want me in at least one way, or you wouldn’t have asked.

Yep still the hunter/hunted thinking. You supposed to win me over to get me. You need a man as much as I need a woman. Assume no guy ever asks you out. Will you forever wait to be asked or if you see someone you like you will be proactive? This whole ok go impress me now makes me feel like im a performing monkey and you will decide the price of my performance if it deserves a price. And lastly sex is not a reward for a man. Its again something both gender wants

 

[Dr.Xayawaan]

If i want a rich somali wife does that make me a dahab qodaya faraax?.

 

[VixR]

Yep still the hunter/hunted thinking. You supposed to win me over to get me. You need a man as much as I need a woman. Assume no guy ever asks you out. Will you forever wait to be asked or if you see someone you like you will be proactive? This whole ok go impress me now makes me feel like im a performing monkey and you will decide the price of my performance if it deserves a price. And lastly sex is not a reward for a man. Its again something both gender wants

No, men need women more. It’s why you’re the ones who’re asking. We’re not the ones counting notches. I do have sexual desires, but I can harness it. And no, I’m not “proactive” lol. I don’t have that problem. I sift through what’s already coming my way, if its worth the look.

No one saying you’re a monkey but you. If it’s worthwhile, you’ll make it happen.