Why are so many people so anti family these days?

[Qeelbax]

I hope they don't have any children


There's a really good friend of mine, a Somali guy, he's an accountant and runs his own company. The man has been doing GREAT, and financially he's probably doing the best amongst our group of friends. He got married about 4 years ago, divorced within less than a two years. He goes back and forth between Alberta and Ontario every 3 weeks to spend time with his daughter, and planning to move permanently closer to his daughter as she starts school in a few years.
If he didn't work out for him, and literally got him significant amount of grey hair in his beard, what kind of chance a reformed saqajaan like myself has?!?1



mind you the straw that broke the camels back was an argument about furniture.....

I need a miskeen farax who won’t argue about furniture. Leave the home to me.

 

[Qeelbax]

Reading this thread makes me want to give the fob a chance. What if I don’t find another one like him.

 

[Qeelbax]

Finally a somali man who agrees with taking your time.

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I shoulda known he was unhinged when he described himself a protector and provider on our first chat..

I would never pop a kid for a man I just married. He can stop using condoms after our 2nd anniversary

 

[Richard Pearson]

I would never pop a kid for a man I just married. He can stop using condoms after our 2nd anniversary

bila xishood you a freak

 

[Abba Sadacha]

I understand we’re in an era with a high cost of living but damn..people really make you seem like an idiot for wanting to get married and stay home with your kids.

Chasing a career has never really appealed to me. Like yea, it’s a necessity in this day and age and I’ll most likely still work part time on the side but I’m not gonna forgo creating a family to chase a career that dgaf about me.

I was talking about this to my friend the other day (who is in grad school right now) and she was like “wtf? Why do you wanna just pop out kids and stay home that’s so boring. Go back to school, get a better job and level yourself up”

Ive experienced similar sentiments from others. Even my hooyo wants me to go to grad school before I consider marriage and it’s like why? I make 80K a year as a nurse already and will make even more as I continue to get raises. I don’t care about furthering my education. Lemme just marry a good guy with financial stability who will let me stay home and take care of my babies. Is that so wrong? Lol

You're right. There's a LOT of 30-40 year old, lonely women with a house full of cats and nice stuff.... but no family. No man, no kids. Crying on youtube videos.
You don't want to be like them. Pursing an education and creating a family, inshaaAllaah, can be done simultaneously.

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

I need a miskeen farax who won’t argue about furniture. Leave the home to me.

She wanted something a lot more expensive than they can afford, then when things going her way she hit him ultimatums, then divorce.

she fucked up bad now his accounting company doing great, forget furniture man can probably get couple houses

 

[Qeelbax]

bila xishood you a freak

How does that make me a freak