True, living a traditional life in the west is unrealistic these days especially for somalis who want many kids
They can't see it and have a victim mentality and want to soley blame women. Instead of calacal, they have three options:
1. Try and get into a career that offers professional development and good salary prospects. So in other words, get your money up! Shut up and get grinding basically.
2. If you can't do that, go back home. The cost of living is cheap and you'll be able to entirely provide for a wife and give her an upper middle class lifestyle with the maids ect. You'll get more of a traditional dynamic with a wife that has time for you ect. Women back home have help from family and maids, so she isn't going to complain about your lack help, because she doesn't need that from you. Also, shut up about western women! Not our fault that you couldn't keep with the cost of living.
3. Shut up and stop complaining about women not being 'traditional' as you're clearly not able to be a traditional man. Find your self a cooperative woman and work together, live happily, help her and try to change your circumstances. Ooh and again shut up.
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