The list is a fools errand, in truth women want men that arouse them. The first stage of love is lust, that’s why I advocate for the body game, along with choosing signals.
You’re right it is all about how you make her feel, and her first impression of your body will do that for you. All you have to do is look out for choosing signals.
Emotional roller coaster is a real thing but I don’t know about acting like a clown. I also hate everything about P.U.As, they are the panhandlers of the seduction game.
There is no need to ask when you’re getting clear signals to come approach, and the walk…. Oh man you feel like Denzel in training day.
But your gonna have to put in the work first that’s what most men don’t want to do, because it’s easier to sit and complain.