What would you do in this scenario?

[ReerVanCadde]

Pat the kid on the head, politely tell the mother to find the kids father and then excuse yourself from the situation.

 

[Molotoff]

What I would do? I'll tell you what I would do:

 

[Aurelian]

I can't imagine how the feelings and emotions that I developed having him for 5 yrs as my child, his first words, steps and calling me daddy, will vanish, after I figure out that (s)he isn't mine. It's not like I'll take it easy, but I can't imagine abandoning him straight away from the first second.

 

[ReerVanCadde]

I don't like this question at all.This is not ok, it's not the guys fault at all so if he's cucked then it's time to leave. Anyone who says otherwise is a simp.

 

[Guled111]

Give her a hard slap and bounce to Somalia

 

[Guled111]

what if that kid was you? and your dad called you a "bastard" and abandoned you kids don't understand all that biology. all they know is the people who raised them are their mom and dad. f you can leave a child you knew as yours since birth I think you have no morals. that would psychologically damage them for years.

Eedo macaan let it go

 

[Jaydaan]

fair enough. but what if the kid says "aabo, why don't you visit me anymore, don't you love me" with tears in their eyes, how do you react

Kid....Im not your aabo, ask your mum who your aabo is. The sooner you tell the truth, the better. Once you start lying you are forced to keep that lie up for years and years. im not gonna live in pretend rest of my life. His mum need to take care of it as she created the situation.

 

[Qali]

If I was a man I would honestly be distraught. I would most likely divorce and have joint custody on all of our children including the bastard because he/she doesn't deserve to be punished for his/her mother's action.

Family is family even if there is no blood.

Same

 

[The Somali Caesar]

Not my kid. Not my problem. I’m sorry it is what it is

 

[GEEL-XAABSADE]

foe those saying they would still raise the kid you guys know that it is only a matter of time before the real dad shows up to bond with his kid right? Maybe even bond with your wife again and give you another kid to raise. It is best to let everybody know and get your kids and leave.

 

[Dooyo]

This has got to be one of the worst nightmares for men. Imagine pouring all your love, your time, you affection and money into a child you think is yours, only to found out it isn't. Devastating indeed.

What do you do in such a difficult predicament? Kick out your child because it isn't yours or continue to raise another man's child.?

Walaahi that shit should be criminalized.

 

[Ghandi23]

My uncle walked out on his kids once he realized they turned out to be "westernized" and didn't care about deen or dhaqan. I'll be damned if I look after some garac that ain't mine. Head over to the motherland and start a real lineage.