What would you do if you found out partner lied about their virginity ?

[Halimo-2018]

I dont care about what he did prior to meeting me. Now onward counts. If I chose him it would mean I liked him enough to marry him so who cares

 

[The Inquisitive]

Divorce

 

[No pun intended]

You're fiending too hard for sloppy seconds

Isku xishood iyo shaydaanka iska naar

Acudubilah

 

[No pun intended]

I dont care about what if prior to meeting me. Now

I’ve been saying that. I’m being told not to settle for “sloppy seconds”. All girls are sloppy seconds no matter what they say. That’s to be expected

 

[Jimmer]

Depends, I personally wouldn't care unless she got a train ran. It would more be for the potential kids. Imagine the shame of having a that for a mother.

 

[inflorescence]

I dont care about what he did prior to meeting me. Now onward counts. If I chose him it would mean I liked him enough to marry him so who cares

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[Metal Magician]

divorce without second thought then pull an ahmed hersi by finding a new wife in two days

 

[Halimo-2018]

I’ve been saying that. I’m being told not to settle for “sloppy seconds”. All girls are sloppy seconds no matter what they say. That’s to be expected

First of you should not look at women like that. Look at them as a human being. Have a healthy outlook then choose wisely stop listening to others have a mind of your own noticed men have a problem with this.

 

[Lostbox]

I’ve been saying that. I’m being told not to settle for “sloppy seconds”. All girls are sloppy seconds no matter what they say. That’s to be expected

What does that mean?

 

[No pun intended]

What does that mean?

There’s no way to ensure her vagina wasn’t fucked prior to your marriage. That’s what I mean.

 

[Naa]

There’s no way to ensure her vagina wasn’t fucked prior to your marriage. That’s what I mean.

“All girls are sloppy seconds no matter what they say” is a weird way to say that....

 

[Metal Magician]

There’s no way to ensure her vagina wasn’t fucked prior to your marriage. That’s what I mean.

Of course their is you virgin. I for one am active and ill tell you i can tell a girl who is a virgin and a girl who isnt

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

Of course their is you virgin. I for one am active and ill tell you i can tell a girl who is a virgin and a girl who isnt

man's using virgin as an insult like this is some cadaan forum

 

[Master-chief]

man's using virgin as an insult like this is some cadaan forum

ikr its good to be a virgin here

 

[QueenofKings]

In this sort of situ I feel the deception would be a bigger deal breaker than a guy saying he’s not a virgin from the start.

 

[Louis Vuitton Don]

Women don’t care about men virginity and probably wouldn’t even ask how many women they been with. If they do, just say I had my needs as a man but I didn’t wild out and there’s no embarrassing stories out there. That usually shuts them up.

As for a man, if a women lies they usually stay but treat them like shit and becomes a toxic situation.

 

[Vanessa]

I like this gif

 

[Vanessa]

Women don’t care about men virginity and probably wouldn’t even ask how many women they been with. If they do, just say I had my needs as a man but I didn’t wild out and there’s no embarrassing stories out there. That usually shuts them up.

As for a man, if a women lies they usually stay but treat them like shit and becomes a toxic situation.

I do care. I want a virgin husband.

 

[Louis Vuitton Don]

I do care. I want a virgin husband.

Your an anomaly.

 

[Shimbiris]

I don’t care what he did in his past and he shouldn’t care what I did, as long as we remain loyal to each other

Think you're missing the crux of it for everyone here, sis. It's more about the lying. Now if they just avoided talking about their past and you never asked but found out later that's another thing and I think the person would be unfair to hold it against them then. But if they explicitly say "I'm a virgin" when they're not and sell a false image to you as some innocent dude or chick but they are in fact not and have had many sexual partners that's simply not okay. They lied to you and not just small-time lying but spun a whole false reality so you'd like them. That shit can break down trust, the bedrock of any relationship, pretty quick.