Only few made it, most were giving illusion of wealth. I don't mean taking there deen or dhaqan either.
Only if they see us benefery counterparts on both ends and respected members of society.
We have few success story here and there. Reality is avoided at all cost.
When my family arrived to the states they lived in the hood. My uncles and aunts that arrived here as young adults didn't really turn out as well compared to their younger siblings that were preteens when they arrived.
I was a bit lucky growing up because my parents had some close relationships with my uncle's and aunts that turned out pretty well.
One thing they did that stood out to me was that they moved away for college. At the time they were all living in the hood. Most somalis tend to just go to a local community college just to avoid taking out loans while still staying in the hoods they were raised in.
I honestly believe that decision to move away for school played a role on how they turned out. If you look at AAs for example a bunch of them legit do the same thing. That's why you can find a lot of them complaining about student loan debt. They graduated with a degree, broke into the middle class, and now have to deal with some debt. I asked my uncle recently about his and he told me he payed his off after 7 years of working.my other aunts and uncles said they paid it off within 10-12 years.
@AbdiFreedom do you think if most young Somali men moved away for college we would have higher graduation rates?