What the F moment

[Calaf]

@ZakWantsToPlay

How about the dad inviting that friend to his home and watching where children are living? Some other member here mentioned that as a guest, he watched at his uncle's house and that he got so upset because he was busted by the wife, he hates her now and can't reflect on his mistakes. This guy is now a "moral guide" here. Is it common for Somali men to watch in other people's family home? Maybe, the nudity in the they watch triggers them how their daughters are dressed.

Or,

Pants Vs skirts are priorities gone wrong here.

Looks like a deeper lying issue here when you infer it!

 

[AussieHustler]

Looks like a deeper lying issue here when you infer it!

@TheBanderiBadz

It could be true.

 

[Muji]

Find a simp farax with more money than brains. Use him as an anchor to leave the house. Once you live together be unreasonable and push him into a depressive state where divorce seems like a relief for what he is experiencing.

Your family will no longer bother you

 

[TekNiKo]

Find a simp farax with more money than brains. Use him as an anchor to leave the house. Once you live together be unreasonable and push him into a depressive state where divorce seems like a relief for what he is experiencing.

Your family will no longer bother you

Unfortunately this mindset is what @Inquisitive_ warned about, thats western xalimoz for u folks.

 

[Basra]

My father told me to go wear a skirt today at home.

Does he have the right to do this?
I'm at home I should be comfortable. I was wearing trousers that weren't tight on me.

I'm confused and mad now, this is when men start to abuse the religion and I see how some women leave the religion.

Maybe your father wants to behave less like a tom boy. Go paint your nails today.

 

[Muji]

Unfortunately this mindset is what @Inquisitive_ warned about, thats western xalimoz for u folks.

Same thing women from Somalia do. At least this way you won’t be used for a passport.

 

[astorecalledkmart]

Western halimas are bae

Halimas back home are bassbort bandits

 

[VantaBlack]

If you feel suffocated by your family, then find freedom within your heart. No need to rebel against them on the surface, just be free on the inside. Meaning your inner being.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

@ZakWantsToPlay

How about the dad inviting that friend to his home and watching where children are living? Some other member here mentioned that as a guest, he watched at his uncle's house and that he got so upset because he was busted by the wife, he hates her now and can't reflect on his mistakes and can't apologise to her. This guy is now a "moral guide" here. Is it common for Somali men to watch in other people's family home? Maybe, the nudity in the they watch triggers them how their daughters are dressed.

Or,

Pants Vs skirts are priorities gone wrong here.

I thought the post mentioned how the father did not know his friend was doing that. It would be difficult to imagine a father accepting someone of his own family doing that much less than him accepting someone outside the family watching on the family network.

Your question about how common is it among Somalis to watch on other people's home networks, I don't know and I never think about Somalis to be of one mind(except clan) and of one person. It is like asking how common this would be among Americans and Australians. The question presupposes Somalis do the same thing always. People think like this when they are prejudiced against certain folk and they put a blanket judgement on them whereas they afford themselves the benefit of the doubt as an individual. White bigoted people commonly engage in this hypocrisy where a white man's misdeeds are confined to the white dude committing the offenses but a black person's failures reflect on all Africans.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

Unfortunately this mindset is what @Inquisitive_ warned about, thats western xalimoz for u folks.

I wouldn't say all diaspora born and raised Somali females think that way. A female has to be angry and past certain age to think like that. The ones I encountered who thought like that were usually above 30 in age and single. The type you feel bad for and pretend you are interested with that fake smile and wink. It is nice to be charitable to them poor ladies. Keep that in mind.

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

Unfortunately this mindset is what @Inquisitive_ warned about, thats western xalimoz for u folks.

I used to make fun of @Inquisitive_ but wllahi the shit he used to say is actually turning to be true from what I can see in my life. sbx.

 

[TekNiKo]

Same thing women from Somalia do. At least this way you won’t be used for a passport.

Nope my wife doesnt even want one gaalada wey ka faantay thats why I love her.

 

[Macalin M]

Find a simp farax with more money than brains. Use him as an anchor to leave the house. Once you live together be unreasonable and push him into a depressive state where divorce seems like a relief for what he is experiencing.

Your family will no longer bother you

Alright then that’s girls off the list. Chase the money ‘till I die!!!

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

Why would you think I'm lying? Actually I don't need to explain myself Mr detective.

You done enough explaining replying to me at 1 am Miss Sleep deprived.

 

[AussieHustler]

I thought the post mentioned how the father did not know his friend was doing that. It would be difficult to imagine a father accepting someone of his own family doing that much less than him accepting someone outside the family watching on the family network.

Your question about how common is it among Somalis to watch on other people's home networks, I don't know and I never think about Somalis to be of one mind(except clan) and of one person. It is like asking how common this would be among Americans and Australians. The question presupposes Somalis do the same thing always. People think like this when they are prejudiced against certain folk and they put a blanket judgement on them whereas they afford themselves the benefit of the doubt as an individual. White bigoted people commonly engage in this hypocrisy where a white man's misdeeds are confined to the white dude committing the offenses but a black person's failures reflect on all Africans.

@ZakWantsToPlay

The white “Boogeyman”!!!

In Toronto, Somalis are 1% of the population and yet, 20% of homicide are among Somali men. In London and Minneapolis, Somali men are butchering one another like no other ethnic group. In all these crisis of biblical proportions, we are obsessed with the length of a skirt of a Halima and who she marries. These “evil white men” are destroying us.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

@ZakWantsToPlay

The white “Boogeyman” man!!!

In Toronto, Somalis are 1% of the population and yet, 20% of homicide are among Somali men. In London and Minneapolis, Somali men are butchering one another like no other ethnic group. In all these crisis of biblical proportions, we are obsessed with the length of a skirt of a Halima and who she marries. These “evil white men” are destroying us.

You have a point in the sense we must lay the blame on the offending party. With that said, it is true you as a Somali male are judged similarly to the criminals whose ethnicity you share even though you are not affliated with gangs. No religion teaches collective guilt. That is the hypocrisy I pointed out. Why are there anti discrimination laws in America you think? Innocent people were being denied the right to dignity.

As far as being obsessed with who some Somali women choose to marry, it is unique to this website and on Twitter.

Most somalis back home have very low opinion of us in the west much less worry about who is having sex with a halimo. They are too proud to care about triviality.

 

[Furioso]

I understand where you’re coming from, it’s frustrating. Where can I relax if not at my home. Instead, I have to worry about how sexually provocative my body is. For me it’s not my father that’s constantly telling me to cover up, it’s my mother. No, I’m not talking about wearing booty shorts at home but instead maybe sweatpants or tights with a long t-shirt. I fail to see what is so sexually provocative about my body. I don’t see why I have to cover up in front of every man that exists whether that be my uncle who lived with us for years to my dad. They can keep their eyes off my body. There’s also a problem with me sleeping over at my cousins house, the cousins I’ve played with since I was a kid because of my male cousin. She was telling me to cover up in front of the kid I considered to be a little brother. I understand that she doesn’t mean it from a bad place, but it doesn’t make it any less annoying. She’s just trying to protect me but doesn’t understand that she’s making me uncomfortable. Try to see where he might be coming from, he probably isn’t coming from a bad place. Wow, I treat this place like my diary.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Technically in the deen, women can wear whatever they want at home; obviously this is within reason for both males and females, i.e., don't come downstairs dressed like the Macho Man Randy Savage when your ayeeyo is trying to have breakfast

If it makes you feel better, my grandpa didn't like my shirt once. I said ok, left the room for 15 minutes, came back with the same shirt. He didn't notice and/or care.

My theory is that at that exact intersection of time-space, something about my shirt pissed him off. Perhaps your father experienced the same phenomenon? Maybe he just didn't like your trousers? If they had a floral pattern, I could understand his rationale. Go back wearing the same pants later today and report your findings - this needs further study...

P.S. The lady in the photo above has about 20 cm of torso and 3 m of legs. She must run like a gazelle.

Sincerely,

The Macho Man Randy Savage

According to the shafi'i madhhab, a mahram's privates are whats between the naval and the knees. The females can essentially be kumbaya shirtless in the house. But anything between the naval and knees is indecent and the father has an obligation to tell her to wear looser fitting pants.

 

[Mahacagalla]

Find a simp farax with more money than brains. Use him as an anchor to leave the house. Once you live together be unreasonable and push him into a depressive state where divorce seems like a relief for what he is experiencing.

Your family will no longer bother you

All fun and games till he starts domestic violence.

 

[Mahacagalla]

I am just guessing here but. It sounds like your fuuto was looking waayn in those pants and it got your abo horny so instead of reflecting about it he tells you dress more modestly in is home.