Joliemademoiselle
A pious muslima.
Well, I always have none Muslims friends because of where I lived, but more and more I am questioning myself if I should continue this friendship.
I always have been 100% true about my Islamic belief with them about many haram things they do, like doing Zina, clubbing, liberal views, alcohol, feminism, riba etc...
I always tell them I am against it and most of the time advise them to don’t do it. I propose them several times to become Muslims but I think they like the pleasure of this life more.
They told me about liking my behaviour and the way I see life and would like to be like this.
I appreciate all of them but I don’t want Allah to ask me about their bad doing and why I didn’t do more to advise them to stop.
To be honest with you what makes me question this friendship recently is one of the girl I consider one of my closest friends announced to me that she is pregnant and not married, I didn’t even know she was dating someone....I felt sad for her, for her unborn bastard baby while also feeling angry at her because I always advise her to do better than being a baby mama, helped her obtain her nursing degree.
The other girls were congratulating her, I couldn’t do the same and just left. But then I was worried for her so call her back to give her medical advice for her pregnancy while feeling guilty to continue supporting haram behaviour.
I always have been 100% true about my Islamic belief with them about many haram things they do, like doing Zina, clubbing, liberal views, alcohol, feminism, riba etc...
I always tell them I am against it and most of the time advise them to don’t do it. I propose them several times to become Muslims but I think they like the pleasure of this life more.
They told me about liking my behaviour and the way I see life and would like to be like this.
I appreciate all of them but I don’t want Allah to ask me about their bad doing and why I didn’t do more to advise them to stop.
To be honest with you what makes me question this friendship recently is one of the girl I consider one of my closest friends announced to me that she is pregnant and not married, I didn’t even know she was dating someone....I felt sad for her, for her unborn bastard baby while also feeling angry at her because I always advise her to do better than being a baby mama, helped her obtain her nursing degree.
The other girls were congratulating her, I couldn’t do the same and just left. But then I was worried for her so call her back to give her medical advice for her pregnancy while feeling guilty to continue supporting haram behaviour.