I've noticed for the most part, the reason a halimo would choose ajnabi over farah is because the ajnabi got a cooler demeanor.
He just cool with everybody and doesn't try to overcompensate for anything. The guy is easy to talk to, he leaves the women feeling good after each conversation.
He knows how to check her temperature, he makes girls feel comfortable and safe in his presence, he don't judge.
Let's be real, a lotta farahs lack that cool demeanor and those that get it, never complains about women. Having a cool vibe about you is 50% of your game, you can be a nerd and women will still find you attractive as long as you feel good about yourself and don't care about what anyone else does.
The rest of your game is just style, physical appearance.
If you have a tendency to always tryna prove yourself around women, you failed.
If you tryna stunt on a woman by appearing as Mr Money man, you failed because now you have keep tricking on her and she will never respect you.