what age would you put the hijab on for your daughters inshallah?

what age will you put the hijab for your daughters?

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Faahiye

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AishaBarri said:
Coercing you’re daughters is never a good idea especially when you’re living in an environment where wearing hijab is not the norm. My dad tried forcing me in my early teens but I threw it off the second I had a chance and haven’t worn it to date. Honestly teaching kids deen (without violent or dictatorial methods :icon rolleyes:) is the better option then she can understand the importance.
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@AishaBarri,

This is why you should introduce the hijab to your daughters at around 6 or 7 so they will already be used to it by the time they reach their teens. You can use that time to teach them the importance of wearing the hijab.


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Faahiye
 
Happy_

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Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
Cyrus said:
My house my rules sxb- in my house we follow the quran and sunnah to the T as the way of the Salaf. No 'choosing and deciding' bs. I have seen many girls who dont wear the hijab come on twitter and act like they are struggling with it to get a few likes and RTs and then posting a non hijab pics a few hours later. Over my dead body is that happening with my daughters :camby: :heh:
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Of course it‘s your house and your rules. You gotta do certain things with hikmah. Unfortunately a lot somalis lack it and then they cry when their daughters become gaalos and run off with their gaalo bf. Sadly it happens a lot these days. So pls don‘t cry when this happens huuno

From this:
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To this:
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Strict parents result to confused children who‘ll try out anything.
 
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Dino

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When the scholars talk about raising kids they talk about two things. familiarity and leading by example.

When it comes to teaching boys salah, they say start teaching them when they are young. Take him to the masjid. let him see you pray. lead by example. that way it becomes time for them to pray they already are accostomed to it. this creates famiiiarity

When it comes to girls, mothers who raise good daughters have the girls wearing hijab at ages of 4 and 5. they encourage their daughters to wear them. obviously they are still kids. but instead of experimenting with barbie dolls and other nonsense, the girls look at their moms wearing hijab, praying salah, reading quran in the house etc. basically the mother creates the islamic environment in the house alongside the father.

this becomes so familiar that enforcement is not even necessary. alot of dayusin dads and moms do not pray, do not fast, do not teach their kids anything and is it anywonder the kids become qashin in life.


if parents do their jobs right enforcement is not even necessary.

ofcourse..... once in a while you get someone who steps out of line and in that case well







KARBASH!
 
Gambar

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Dino said:
When the scholars talk about raising kids they talk about two things. familiarity and leading by example.

When it comes to teaching boys salah, they say start teaching them when they are young. Take him to the masjid. let him see you pray. lead by example. that way it becomes time for them to pray they already are accostomed to it. this creates famiiiarity

When it comes to girls, mothers who raise good daughters have the girls wearing hijab at ages of 4 and 5. they encourage their daughters to wear them. obviously they are still kids. but instead of experimenting with barbie dolls and other nonsense, the girls look at their moms wearing hijab, praying salah, reading quran in the house etc. basically the mother creates the islamic environment in the house alongside the father.

this becomes so familiar that enforcement is not even necessary. alot of dayusin dads and moms do not pray, do not fast, do not teach their kids anything and is it anywonder the kids become qashin in life.


if parents do their jobs right enforcement is not even necessary.

ofcourse..... once in a while you get someone who steps out of line and in that case well







KARBASH!
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You would force your daughter to wear it at 4 or 5? I would introduce it at 6/7. They are still throwing tantrums that young.
 
Guure

Guure

I believe mothers have a waaay bigger influence when it comes to raising a daughter and teaching modesty. I dont want to force anything on anyone, and i believe if you teach them the deen and raise them with respect, you wont have to worry about those things.
 
Gambar

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Jetlife said:
It all depends on the mother and what example she sets for her dsughter when it comes to things like this. If the mother is in public with her skin out, hair out then you know what to expect.

I think alot of these girls out here saw their mums aunts etc dressin sleazy, twerkin on wedding and houseparty vhs tapes from the 90s think imma do the same while im young :kanyeshrug:
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M8 their mums were most likely in camps back then wearing jilbaab or garbasaar struggling and trying to feed their families.
 
Guardafui

Guardafui

Beati Pacifici.
First I would explain the reason why we wear the hijab and the importance of modesty from early age. So around 12 is the best age to start when puberty begins. I think before puberty is unnecessary tbh even Arabs don’t do it.
 
Warlaabe

Warlaabe

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Guardafui said:
First I would explain the reason why we wear the hijab and the importance of modesty from early age. So around 12 is the best age to start when puberty begins. I think before puberty is unnecessary tbh even Arabs don’t do it.
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so what if arabs don't do it what has that to do with somalis
 
R

RICH

The Qadr of Allaah ta’aala is always in our favor.
When she gets her period, but if she’s late I would want her to wear hijab when she starts high school (around 12 y/o).
 
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