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[a_bilan]

I paid for a ticket to go to some event with a friend (it was expensive too). I thought it would be a great chance to finally go out on a weekend night to socialize, since I am two steps shy of being a hermit. I looked forward to it throughout the week. On the day of the event, I got ready - shower, hair, makeup - the whole nine yards.
Just as I was putting on my shoes, I had the sudden urge to stay at home. It was an impulsive thought, I brushed it off at first since I was quite literally putting on my shoes to leave! The next thing I know, I'm making myself a cup of tea and getting ready to watch a movie with my sister. I did not know what to tell my friend, I was genuinely shocked at my own behaviour wallahi. Idk if i'm reaching new lows in the realm of laziness or that it was possibly anxiety, but flaking on an event that I paid and prepared for has to be a first.

 

[JohnCena]

It's def anxiety for sure. You might want to check out therapy? Could be an underlying cause that's making you more anxious.

 

[mrlog]

I paid for a ticket to go to some event with a friend (it was expensive too). I thought it would be a great chance to finally go out on a weekend night to socialize, since I am two steps shy of being a hermit. I looked forward to it throughout the week. On the day of the event, I got ready - shower, hair, makeup - the whole nine yards.
Just as I was putting on my shoes, I had the sudden urge to stay at home. It was an impulsive thought, I brushed it off at first since I was quite literally putting on my shoes to leave! The next thing I know, I'm making myself a cup of tea and getting ready to watch a movie with my sister. I did not know what to tell my friend, I was genuinely shocked at my own behaviour wallahi. Idk if i'm reaching new lows in the realm of laziness or that it was possibly anxiety, but flaking on an event that I paid and prepared for has to be a first.

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[JohnCena]

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you're on the biggest streak of worst takes I've ever seen on this forum and what's crazy is that I never noticed your posts til like last Saturday

 

[a_bilan]

It's def anxiety for sure. You might want to check out therapy? Could be an underlying cause that's making you more anxious.

idk.. I did not feel very anxious tho. I feel like I've made a habit of avoiding discomfort. I can't stay at home forever

 

[TheProfessor]

I paid for a ticket to go to some event with a friend (it was expensive too). I thought it would be a great chance to finally go out on a weekend night to socialize, since I am two steps shy of being a hermit. I looked forward to it throughout the week. On the day of the event, I got ready - shower, hair, makeup - the whole nine yards.
Just as I was putting on my shoes, I had the sudden urge to stay at home. It was an impulsive thought, I brushed it off at first since I was quite literally putting on my shoes to leave! The next thing I know, I'm making myself a cup of tea and getting ready to watch a movie with my sister. I did not know what to tell my friend, I was genuinely shocked at my own behaviour wallahi. Idk if i'm reaching new lows in the realm of laziness or that it was possibly anxiety, but flaking on an event that I paid and prepared for has to be a first.

u r woman I thought u man the whole time

 

[JohnCena]

idk.. I did not feel very anxious tho. I feel like I've made a habit of avoiding discomfort. I can't stay at home forever

Based off your description in your OP, you seem like a very introverted person and I'm pretty sure covid has made it even worse.

I personally would recommend seeing a therapist so a medical professional can accurately diagnose you.

 

[a_bilan]

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first of all, how do you get the spoiler in the spoiler?

who's this fat singing lady you are going on about?
Why are you bringing up a hypothetical husband?
@mrlog take your meds!

 

[a_bilan]

u r woman I thought u man the whole time

a man can't wear makeup now??

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Ur friend gonna think ur a whole weirdo and never make plans with you again

 

[TheProfessor]

a man can't wear makeup now??

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[JohnCena]

first of all, how do you get the spoiler in the spoiler?

who's this fat singing lady you are going on about?
Why are you bringing up a hypothetical husband?
@mrlog take your meds!

That's how you pretty much do it

 

[JohnCena]

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[a_bilan]

Ur friend gonna think ur a whole weirdo and never make plans with you again

I know!! That was so inconsiderate of me. I feel bad about it

 

[a_bilan]

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[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

i've never heard of anything that comes close to this, where are all the niggas that like to play doctors scientists psychiatrists psychologists? y'all come in and explain this phenomenon to us

 

[a_bilan]

Based off your description in your OP, you seem like a very introverted person and I'm pretty sure covid has made it even worse.

I personally would recommend seeing a therapist so a medical professional can accurately diagnose you.



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Maybe I was not comfortable with the event itself, i have no issues meeting my friends other times.
I never thought it was that serious, I'll have to look into it. Thank you for the advice!

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[JohnCena]

Maybe I was not comfortable with the event itself, i have no issues meeting my friends other times.
I never thought it was that serious, I'll have to look into it. Thank you for the advice!

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There's a lot of muslim women, even Somali therapists you can see. They'll relate to your struggles even more.

It's good to cry and let out your emotions. Its a long journey , but it'll make you feel better in the long term.

Good luck on your path!

 

[TheProfessor]

Maybe I was not comfortable with the event itself, i have no issues meeting my friends other times.
I never thought it was that serious, I'll have to look into it. Thank you for the advice!

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Go to gym it clear the mind and exercise help relieve anxiety u don’t need fuckin therapy shit don’t work because there is people who still go to therapist for decades and still have the same issues.
Therapy is scan of this century

 

[JohnCena]

Go to gym it clear the mind and exercise help relieve anxiety u don’t need fuckin therapy shit don’t work because there is people who still go to therapist for decades and still have the same issues.
Therapy is scan of this century

Weren't you just crying about being rejected by a girl a few mins ago?