Aboowe I admire your creativity nooh@Idil-Beydaan Naaya remove the "creative" rating from my comment right now![]()

Aboowe I admire your creativity nooh@Idil-Beydaan Naaya remove the "creative" rating from my comment right now![]()
This is one helluva of a sad situation.
It’s a subjective matter. Girls can get blackmailed and shamed. Yet they are still the ones who initiate and engage this. Boys get less of a backlash but are also susceptible to abuse from the women they have an encounter with they also tend to be the ones exploting them.
Whatever the woman did to shame her as far as making her contemplating suicide knowing she’s a single mother of 4 and sending her pictures to the broader family. That is absolutely disgusting, that bastard!
Also Ali how do you know about all of this![]()
I admire your honestyEverything I wrote about is from experience which you would know if you properly read my post lol.
Abaayo I appreciate the jaceel noohAboowe I admire your creativity nooh![]()
Serious question, what is up with @Knowles?
You see this?
Even she herself is aware of the risks, but wants to kick up a shitstorm, absolve these women of any wrong doing and put the blame squarely on our shoulders.
FOH.![]()
I admire your honesty
Have you witnessed such occurence then?
He literally said that he was a saqajaan![]()
Yh I agreeI feel like we are arguing past eachother.
Where you and I disagree is that I don’t think having sex with someone means you deserve to be publicly outed and shamed.
If you cause harm to someone else then society should step in and intervene.
I’m not going to condemn these women, yes they should have not been so naive but like I said their actions were not hurting anyone.
By your logic, if a woman is raped by a man who she is alone with, should she be at fault too? After all she was playing with fire by being alone with him?
The onus is not on the victim to not be raped or to not be sexually degraded. The onus is on the man who commits the act. It’s time to stop blaming the victim and to start giving men the ownership of their ill deeds.
Where you and I disagree is that I don’t think having sex with someone means you deserve to be publicly outed and shamed.
I don’t think any man should expose a woman’s affairs online for the world to see, but you’re essentially absolving these women of all blame and responsibility for the predicament they’re in.
Yh I agree
I think their naïveté deserves another discussion. But shaming them and driving them to an edge isn’t acceptable even if they’re the ones who’ve intiated these out of wedlock relationships.
I have concluded that Somali women largely cannot uphold reasoning & objectivity when it comes to their male counterpart.
@Knowles You are having a xalimo moment. A moment where disdain and loathing overwhelms the mind of an otherwise logical Xalimo causing them to act in an illogical and self-destructive manner. This rapidly infects the cognitive functions of nearby Xalimos in the vicinity causing them to chimp out and collectively enter a frenzied state.
This has been done too many times
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How did you get here?![]()
Sometimes you got to be honest with yourself and appreciate how far you have come lol.
I agree. Let the hedonistic faraxs and xalimos out themselves. This way when they try to get married and claim purity, there will be video evidence of their degeneracy.Name and shame them
I support this crusade against these Xalimo harlots they deserve to be shamed![]()
I know a guy who had some old nudes from a xalimo he was with. I don't know him well but he ended up sending a nude to the group chat. Turns out the xalimo is now married to someone else. I told him to delete the pic since it was disrespectful to keep a pic around like that and sharing it around especially if she was married to another man. I don't know if he did delete it or not but he hasn't sent that picture to the group chat since I told him about it.There is a big issue in regards to shaming Somali women online.
Somali women are being secretly recorded during sex and having the videos and pictures sent to their relatives as well as their communities.
This has led to some women contemplating suicide. There was even a case where one of the preparators threatened to release the video if she didn’t give him more sex.
A lot of the victims are refugees and do not understand the law is there to protect them from this. Please read the full article:
http://m.startribune.com/in-twin-cities-somali-community-a-push-against-online-shaming/481194051/
Would that have even happened if she didn't send the pic? Two people are to blame, the scumbag who exposed her, and her for sending the pic.I know a guy who had some old nudes from a xalimo he was with. I don't know him well but he ended up sending a nude to the group chat. Turns out the xalimo is now married to someone else. I told him to delete the pic since it was disrespectful to keep a pic around like that and sharing it around especially if she was married to another man. I don't know if he did delete it or not but he hasn't sent that picture to the group chat since I told him about it.
Exposing is just straight up evil.
It does hurt the females reputation pretty bad especially in the Muslim community. Since pre Marital sex is looked down upon, dudes wouldn't want to marry a chick who is known for having sex with others and etc. even if you don't even know the chick well it can somehow convince you to stay away from the chick.especislly if multiple people talk about her history in conversations and etc