Warning all xalimo do not send nudes to Somali men

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This is one helluva of a sad situation.
It’s a subjective matter. Girls can get blackmailed and shamed. Yet they are still the ones who initiate and engage this. Boys get less of a backlash but are also susceptible to abuse from the women they have an encounter with they also tend to be the ones exploting them.
Whatever the woman did to shame her as far as making her contemplating suicide knowing she’s a single mother of 4 and sending her pictures to the broader family. That is absolutely disgusting, that bastard!
Also Ali how do you know about all of this :ulyin:


He literally said that he was a saqajaan :mjlol:
 

Muji

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Serious question, what is up with @Knowles?



You see this?:draketf:

Even she herself is aware of the risks, but wants to kick up a shitstorm, absolve these women of any wrong doing and put the blame squarely on our shoulders.

FOH. :camby:


I feel like we are arguing past eachother.

Where you and I disagree is that I don’t think having sex with someone means you deserve to be publicly outed and shamed.

If you cause harm to someone else then society should step in and intervene.

I’m not going to condemn these women, yes they should have not been so naive but like I said their actions were not hurting anyone.

By your logic, if a woman is raped by a man who she is alone with, should she be at fault too? After all she was playing with fire by being alone with him?

The onus is not on the victim to not be raped or to not be sexually degraded. The onus is on the man who commits the act. It’s time to stop blaming the victim and to start giving men the ownership of their ill deeds.
 
I admire your honesty:whoo:
Have you witnessed such occurence then?

Blackmail yes but the girl told her family herself and then her family and his family went in on each other. Fighting and propaganda started, as she had told her family herself, I didn't have to do anything. So wasn't involved.

Alhamdullilah now I back on my Deen.
He literally said that he was a saqajaan :mjlol:

Sometimes you got to be honest with yourself and appreciate how far you have come lol.
 
I feel like we are arguing past eachother.

Where you and I disagree is that I don’t think having sex with someone means you deserve to be publicly outed and shamed.

If you cause harm to someone else then society should step in and intervene.

I’m not going to condemn these women, yes they should have not been so naive but like I said their actions were not hurting anyone.

By your logic, if a woman is raped by a man who she is alone with, should she be at fault too? After all she was playing with fire by being alone with him?

The onus is not on the victim to not be raped or to not be sexually degraded. The onus is on the man who commits the act. It’s time to stop blaming the victim and to start giving men the ownership of their ill deeds.
Yh I agree
I think their naïveté deserves another discussion. But shaming them and driving them to an edge isn’t acceptable even if they’re the ones who’ve intiated these out of wedlock relationships.
 
Where you and I disagree is that I don’t think having sex with someone means you deserve to be publicly outed and shamed.

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I don’t think any man should expose a woman’s affairs online for the world to see, but you’re essentially absolving these women of all blame and responsibility for the predicament they’re in.

How did you get here? :gucciwhat:
 
Very bad situation , private sex shouldn't be revealed without consent.Recording such acts is a violation of privacy and thus deserves a hefty punishment.
 
Yh I agree
I think their naïveté deserves another discussion. But shaming them and driving them to an edge isn’t acceptable even if they’re the ones who’ve intiated these out of wedlock relationships.

No man should ever expose a woman online. Shaming them is also something I disagree with, I’m just saying that they should take some responsibility for their actions.
 

Abkaal

Mudug menaces don't mince their words
I have concluded that Somali women largely cannot uphold reasoning & objectivity when it comes to their male counterpart.

@Knowles You are having a xalimo moment. A moment where disdain and loathing overwhelms the mind of an otherwise logical Xalimo causing them to act in an illogical and self-destructive manner. This rapidly infects the cognitive functions of nearby Xalimos in the vicinity causing them to chimp out and collectively enter a frenzied state.

This has been done too many times
:dead::dead1:
 

Abkaal

Mudug menaces don't mince their words
Name and shame them:feedme:

I support this crusade against these Xalimo harlots they deserve to be shamed:salute:
 

Crow

Make Hobyo Great Again
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Name and shame them:feedme:

I support this crusade against these Xalimo harlots they deserve to be shamed:salute:
I agree. Let the hedonistic faraxs and xalimos out themselves. This way when they try to get married and claim purity, there will be video evidence of their degeneracy.
:trumpsmirk:
 

MariaMaria

Education, Peace and Prosperity
This shit was an everyday thing at my school, do it and you became popular for a week :mjlol:

that's cadaan kids tho

but xalimos are out here doing this nonsense :susp: they really out here trusting farax's like that

secretly filming during sex deserves the highest punishment :fittytousand: expose him and off with his head
 

Jake from State Farm

We pro xalimo all 2019
There is a big issue in regards to shaming Somali women online.

Somali women are being secretly recorded during sex and having the videos and pictures sent to their relatives as well as their communities.

This has led to some women contemplating suicide. There was even a case where one of the preparators threatened to release the video if she didn’t give him more sex.

A lot of the victims are refugees and do not understand the law is there to protect them from this. Please read the full article:

http://m.startribune.com/in-twin-cities-somali-community-a-push-against-online-shaming/481194051/
I know a guy who had some old nudes from a xalimo he was with. I don't know him well but he ended up sending a nude to the group chat. Turns out the xalimo is now married to someone else. I told him to delete the pic since it was disrespectful to keep a pic around like that and sharing it around especially if she was married to another man. I don't know if he did delete it or not but he hasn't sent that picture to the group chat since I told him about it.

Exposing is just straight up evil.
It does hurt the females reputation pretty bad especially in the Muslim community. Since pre Marital sex is looked down upon, dudes wouldn't want to marry a chick who is known for having sex with others and etc. even if you don't even know the chick well it can somehow convince you to stay away from the chick.especislly if multiple people talk about her history in conversations and etc
 

NotAjnabi

Somalilander
I know a guy who had some old nudes from a xalimo he was with. I don't know him well but he ended up sending a nude to the group chat. Turns out the xalimo is now married to someone else. I told him to delete the pic since it was disrespectful to keep a pic around like that and sharing it around especially if she was married to another man. I don't know if he did delete it or not but he hasn't sent that picture to the group chat since I told him about it.

Exposing is just straight up evil.
It does hurt the females reputation pretty bad especially in the Muslim community. Since pre Marital sex is looked down upon, dudes wouldn't want to marry a chick who is known for having sex with others and etc. even if you don't even know the chick well it can somehow convince you to stay away from the chick.especislly if multiple people talk about her history in conversations and etc
Would that have even happened if she didn't send the pic? Two people are to blame, the scumbag who exposed her, and her for sending the pic.

It's not black and white.
 
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