Warning all xalimo do not send nudes to Somali men

[roble]

Why are they having sex and sending nudes in the first place? Stop absolving these women of all blame and guilt.

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just recalled conversation we had about some of these xalimos that you said they start all shit....
salute you, you were right.

and I suspect if these r Somali xalimos, think they bantu women among us.

 

[Muji]

Why are you absolving these women of any blame in participating in pre-marital relationships?

Because I’m not the sharia law committee. What do you want me to do, stone her?

It’s 2018, her having sex is not harming anyone else. Him threatening, blackmailing and shaming her almost drove her to suicide!

Why are these concepts so hard to explain to you, we are not in the 16th century!

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

Because I’m not the sharia law committee. What do you want me to do, stone her?

It’s 2018, her having sex is not harming anyone else. Him threatening, blackmailing and shaming her almost drove her to suicide!

Why are these concepts so hard to explain to you, we are not in the 16th century!

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww miss me with bullshit

I don’t think any man should expose a woman’s affairs online for the world to see, but you’re essentially absolving these women of all blame and responsibility for the predicament they’re in. Plus, I’m sure there are many Somali men and women who are in pre-marital relationships whose private affairs won’t be leaked online. A minority of beta cucks who do this do not represent the majority. My point is, play with fire and you’ll get burnt.

 

[Slickback]

I have concluded that Somali women largely cannot uphold reasoning & objectivity when it comes to their male counterpart.

@Knowles You are having a xalimo moment. A moment where disdain and loathing overwhelms the mind of an otherwise logical Xalimo causing them to act in an illogical and self-destructive manner. This rapidly infects the cognitive functions of nearby Xalimos in the vicinity causing them to chimp out and collectively enter a frenzied state.

This has been done too many times

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

just recalled conversation we had about some of these xalimos that you said they start all shit....
salute you, you were right.

and I suspect if these r Somali xalimos, think they bantu women among us.

They want to dish out the pain but cry when we hit back.

Then some cuck comes and gives us some shitty advice. Something something about being a man or some shit

 

[Muji]

I have concluded that Somali women largely cannot uphold reasoning & objectivity when it comes to their male counterpart.

@Knowles You are having a xalimo moment. A moment where disdain and loathing overwhelms the mind of an otherwise logical Xalimo causing them to act in an illogical and self-destructive manner. This rapidly infects the cognitive functions of nearby Xalimos in the vicinity causing them to chimp out and collectively enter a frenzied state.

This has been done too many times

Looooooool.

I’m not saying ananabis won’t do this.

But somalis are more effective because they know we have a shame based culture.

Have you read the article btw? Do you think it’s likely that John and Tyrone would contact your family in KENYA and send them your nudes??

All I’m saying is...watch out for Somali men because if they wanna screw you over in the worst way, they can. I wouldn’t send nudes to anyone man regardless of race though.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

I have concluded that Somali women largely cannot uphold reasoning & objectivity when it comes to their male counterpart.

@Knowles You are having a xalimo moment. A moment where disdain and loathing overwhelms the mind of an otherwise logical Xalimo causing them to act in an illogical and self-destructive manner. This rapidly infects the cognitive functions of nearby Xalimos in the vicinity causing them to chimp out and collectively enter a frenzied state.

This has been done too many times

It's not just a Xalimo thing, it's a women thing

 

[Muji]

They want to dish out the pain but cry when we hit back.

Then some cuck comes and gives us some shitty advice. Something something about being a man or some shit

Sweety sweety as usual you’re getting your kastumo in a twist.

The point is these women did not think they were playing with fire, these men probably cuddled up to them, begged them and treated them like queens before the deed was done.

These xalimos were more trusting because the men were Somali, they probably thought one of my own would never expose me.

But anyway it happened and this is why I’m making this thread, to let xalimos know they are playing with fire when they put themselves in vulnerable positions with Somali men.

 

[Mercury]

Here's a tip don't send nudes to begin with

 

[Factz]

Don't blame the Somali men. Blame the ignorant Xalimos sending their nudes to random men. They should've known better and understood the consequences before committing such filth.

 

[AliUK]

Exactly. Why are you even having out of wedlock sex and sending nudes in the first place?

They are horny. Shit unfortunately happens. I agree with Knowles, I have personally seen the nudes of a good 25+ of our women sent to me or shown by the guys they were with. Most of the time, they were unaware they were filmed. I have heard of some of them getting exposed and families fighting etc.

 

[Muji]

They are horny. Shit unfortunately happens. I agree with Knowles, I have personally seen the nudes of a good 25+ of our women sent to me or shown by the guys they were with. Most of the time, they were unaware they were filmed. I have heard of some of them getting exposed and families fighting etc.

When they were shown to you, did you tell the woman? Did you report him?

 

[Slickback]

Looooooool.

I’m not saying ananabis won’t do this.

But somalis are more effective because they know we have a shame based culture.

Have you read the article btw? Do you think it’s likely that John and Tyrone would contact your family in KENYA and send them your nudes??

All I’m saying is...watch out for Somali men because if they wanna screw you over in the worst way, they can. I wouldn’t send nudes to anyone man regardless of race though.

But there is an inherent risk to sending titty pics. Okay, Somalis have the potential to do more damage, sure.

How often do you do you hear of women's nudes being inboxed to all her relatives and friends on fb/twitter etc.?

Literally a month and something ago I opened my snap and I found a bunch of nudes of some black girl I know. Not even cute nudes showing half or a whole bitty. Only to find out she got drunk and some cadaan guy fully violated it and sent it out from her phone

 

[Muji]

But there is an inherent risk to sending titty pics. Okay, Somalis have the potential to do more damage, sure.

How often do you do you hear of women's nudes being inboxed to all her relatives and friends on fb/twitter etc.?

Literally a month and something ago I opened my snap and I found a bunch of nudes of some black girl I know. Not even cute nudes showing half or a whole bitty. Only to find out she got drunk and some cadaan guy fully violated it and sent it out from her phone

Wow

Yes it happens in every community and even says in the article it’s mostly done by cadan men. I hope the girl reported him.

My only concern is it affects Somali women more when it happens because of how our culture is set up. Most Somalis will blame the victim. So they should be extra cautious.

 

[AliUK]

When they were shown to you, did you tell the woman? Did you report him?

Guys brag about conquests especially at 14-19. Some of them nudes or videos were dropped in WhatsApp groups I was in, others shown on phones. I didn't tell most of the girls as I didn't know them.

This is was in another life when we were all saqajaans, shit like that was normal. I would say in the extended group, maybe 100+ different womens nudes but between 25-30 from Somalis from across the UK and abroad.

Most of the girls were girls from cities we had visited where girls wanted action but didn't want the heat they would catch if they went with local Somalis.

Of course, I didn't report anyone, that was normal for us. I know it's wrong now but I still would report anyone unless it's a blackmail ting. Most of them girls don't know even today.

 

[Slickback]

Wow

Yes it happens in every community and even says in the article it’s mostly done by cadan men. I hope the girl reported him.

My only concern is it affects Somali women more when it happens because of how our culture is set up. Most Somalis will blame the victim. So they should be extra cautious.

She didn't, last I heard he was apologizing to her & I'm 99.99% sure she forgave him like the inner white essex girl she is. It's not like they'd do shit anyway, guy came down from Australia

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

Serious question, what is up with @Knowles?

Who the f*ck cares if they thought that they weren’t playing with fire? That still doesn’t negate the fact that they put themselves in a position of risk, and consequently, these men exploited it.

I wouldn’t send nudes to anyone man regardless of race though.

You see this?

Even she herself is aware of the risks, but wants to kick up a shitstorm, absolve these women of any wrong doing and put the blame squarely on our shoulders.

FOH.

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Guys brag about conquests especially at 14-19. Some of them nudes or videos were dropped in WhatsApp groups I was in, others shown on phones. I didn't tell most of the girls as I didn't know them.

This is was in another life when we were all saqajaans, shit like that was normal. I would say in the extended group, maybe 100+ different womens nudes but between 25-30 from Somalis from across the UK and abroad.

Most of the girls were girls from cities we had visited where girls wanted action but didn't want the heat they would catch if they went with local Somalis.

Of course, I didn't report anyone, that was normal for us. I know it's wrong now but I still would report anyone unless it's a blackmail ting. Most of them girls don't know even today.

This is one helluva of a sad situation.
It’s a subjective matter. Girls can get blackmailed and shamed. Yet they are still the ones who initiate and engage this. Boys get less of a backlash but are also susceptible to abuse from the women they have an encounter with they also tend to be the ones exploting them.
Whatever the woman did to shame her as far as making her contemplating suicide knowing she’s a single mother of 4 and sending her pictures to the broader family. That is absolutely disgusting, that bastard!
Also Ali how do you know about all of this

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

@Idil-Beydaan Naaya remove the "creative" rating from my comment right now

 

[AliUK]

This is one helluva of a sad situation.
It’s a subjective matter. Girls can get blackmailed and shamed. Yet they are still the ones who initiate and engage this. Boys get less of a backlash but are also susceptible to abuse from the women they have an encounter with they also tend to be the ones exploting them.
Whatever the woman did to shame her as far as making her contemplating suicide knowing she’s a single mother of 4 and sending her pictures to the broader family. That is absolutely disgusting, that bastard!
Also Ali how do you know about all of this

Everything I wrote about is from experience which you would know if you properly read my post lol.