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purely what I am afraid of
i played around a lot as a kid so the chances for me to bleed are low (not in THAT way, just in the way that i rode bikes, climbed trees, tomboy tings)
wallah hopefully the fam that i marry into isn’t like that
Sis, don't be afraid.
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Unfortunately, life is such that you can play safe and still get screwed. May the Almighty protect us :friendhug:
 

Mercury

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How is it mandatory? Have you ever been raped and would you tell your spouse, don't think so. I've never been thru it but I could imagine it being one of the most nerve-racking things ever and people will never look at you the same. Somalis being people who value virginity, why would she tell if people like @Samaalic Era would divorce her for it?
she dont even need to talk about it the question if shes a virgin shouldnt even come up either
 

Mercury

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You think it also wouldn’t bring him shame? What normal guy would tell people the girl he’s dating/married is a rape victim. Atleast, you’d get tested?

Be honest, if you hypothetically had HIV would you hide it and still have sex or become celibate?
what world you living in where a rape victim bring shame to the guy?

And why would you share the fact she got raped with others
 

416

Lmao
what world you living in where a rape victim bring shame to the guy?

And why would you share the fact she got raped with others
Reread the replies after fam. I said it would be a shame for the guy to tell others about the women getting raped
 
purely what I am afraid of
i played around a lot as a kid so the chances for me to bleed are low (not in THAT way, just in the way that i rode bikes, climbed trees, tomboy tings)
wallah hopefully the fam that i marry into isn’t like that
climbing trees riding bikes will not disappear your hymen completely.
 

Odkac WRLD

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Lol the ladies are looking at the wrong thing....
Mashallah nearly every xalimo I know goes to uni, sadly I can’t say the same for faraaxs I know in my city (though some ...like myself kkk...do well)

Would you ladies marry an uneducated dude? I think this partly inspired kenyata or whatever his name was sermon...

the odds are a lot of the teen/twenty something girls in the west are gonna have to drop their standards a good amount kkkkk
 

?????

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I remember when the rules here use to be sacred :farole:
As for your question that is a qashin tradition. Pls ignore the faraaxs on here they are suffering from a debilitating game case of Shaqo la’aanimo
 

?????

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purely what I am afraid of
i played around a lot as a kid so the chances for me to bleed are low (not in THAT way, just in the way that i rode bikes, climbed trees, tomboy tings)
wallah hopefully the fam that i marry into isn’t like that
I was a BIGGGGG gymnastics fanatic as a kid. Splits and backflips 24/7 that shit scares me.
 

Muji

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Walal, there are plenty of good men who are broke, who are disabled or have other issues but that doesn't mean they are marriage worthy.

Women would not accept good men who are undesirable just as men view certain types of women as undesirable.

This has nothing to do with good :manny:
Rejecting someone because of a disability is foul but let me ask you this. If a woman was raped why would what someone else did to her without her permission impact your decision on whether you could marry her? And it’s not even about her not being a virgin since you said you would marry a divorcee. Can you imagine what guts it must take for her to even tell you and then you slam the door in her face? Do better walal.
 

Samaalic Era

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Rejecting someone because of a disability is foul but let me ask you this. If a woman was raped why would what someone else did to her without her permission impact your decision on whether you could marry her? And it’s not even about her not being a virgin since you said you would marry a divorcee. Can you imagine what guts it must take for her to even tell you and then you slam the door in her face? Do better walal.
It is very brave and tbh I do not know how I would react to it. This is something that is very sensitive thing and It would impact me deeply
 

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