People can change though, huno?
What is wrong with what i said?
I have every right to have preference.
What is wrong with what i said?
I have every right to have preference.
Im a feminist and a proponent of women’s rightsIn the space of a month abayo?
You need a farax that doesn’t need fixing up.
Let me introduce you to some real faraxs who aren’t mysognysts
@Mercury @AussieHustler and the gentlemen @Cognitivedissonance
The choice is yours sis
Underneath every faraxs macwis is the stench of mysogyny, patriarchy and entitlement, are you sure you want to do this?
Hehehe why?because of those 3 degeneratesCan admin please delete this thread. Thanks
I agree with you too many divorce rates in the somali community,these days maybe some lack of guidence,you see a couple marry today then 3 weeks later divorce,it disgusting they have no respect for marriages,especially the young,not only in uk among somalis everywhereMost Uk marriage produce 1 kid then a divorce At most its 2 kids. Some are lucky to make it to 4 kids but that usually follows with divorce. America is somewhat different you will see normal marriages there.
Now that I am over 25 I have looked around and realised everyones i know is divorced.
I prefere my own men and im not bashing them but Uk needs to sort it out. You created a fatherless generation.
If Somali men care about women and children I think there needs to be a emergency meeting held to see what can be done to prevent so many divorces.
We teach our kids sin is haram and dont have sex. But we really dont sit down with our kids and teach them how to be good husbands/wives. Also I have never seen somali parent encourage a kid not to get married yet. I have seen kids who are so immature say they want to get married and parent say maybe marriage calms them down and a lot of marriages are entered in hope. From my own experience I had a girl I was talking to say she only needs a man to have kids. She has a job, she has her family and can live with them. I dont really need a man. I was like naah if you have that attitude before marriage, then see ya. She got married to some other guy and was married for 4 months before divorceI agree with you too many divorce rates in the somali community,these days maybe some lack of guidence,you see a couple marry today then 3 weeks later divorce,it disgusting they have no respect for marriages,especially the young,not only in uk among somalis everywhere
The roll of men and women is messy these days,men dont want to be men,like in uk some men just sit around drinking no aspiration to life,no ambition,a man should do everything to bring money hone,to take care of his woman and secure his childrens future
Women in the west especially dont know how to be wives,the arabs in east africa when they become teens they are taught everything about a marriage even how to talk (men are taught too),she is a CEO in her company but at home she is a wife
Also some lack of guidence from our elders,they should teach us about marriages and if couple divorce the women especially should be taken cared of
You are isaaq,if you go to hargesia 17 year olds marry then divorce the next week,no respect for marriage
Noticed that too somalis women marry to have kids,look at the way she was talking to younot even trying to be sweet or tactical about it,what a turn offWe teach our kids sin is haram and dont have sex. But we really dont sit down with our kids and teach them how to be good husbands/wives. Also I have never seen somali parent encourage a kid not to get married yet. I have seen kids who are so immature say they want to get married and parent say maybe marriage calms them down and a lot of marriages are entered in hope. From my own experience I had a girl I was talking to say she only needs a man to have kids. She has a job, she has her family and can live with them. I dont really need a man. I was like naah if you have that attitude before marriage, then see ya. She got married to some other guy and was married for 4 months before divorce
wallahi it was so scary. She was like I intend to get married in the next 6 months. I was like you mean inshallah if you find the right person. She said nah 6 months maximum, I have plenty of guys who want to marry.....I dont believe in the right person. But its not that she wasnt tactical, I was going out with her for 5 months and put a lot of effort in understanding her way of thinking. So after many discussion about life and marriage eventually she spilled her real views in how easy she sees marriage. I doubt next dude opened her up like that and probably fell for her sweet charm. But it really scared me how emotionally attached she was from the whole processNoticed that too somalis women marry to have kids,look at the way she was talking to younot even trying to be sweet or tactical about it,what a turn off
Parents do need to teach us,marriages should be taken seriously
Feel sorry for that guydoubt next dude opened her up like that and probably fell for her sweet charm. But it really scared me how emotionally attached she was from the whole process