I fully understand, but my point is as a man, if you can’t fully provide, then you need to really help in other areas. If you can’t fully do one thing, you need to find something else to do that will make the families lives easier. You can’t be a leach and take all the time. Average men better get in the kitchen or they can continue crying about women divorcing their ass or how modern women won’t do this or that. They’re leaches.That's how life is, Angelina. It's not a Disney movie. Most people will have to live in poverty. $50K as a single man is different than $50K while married. Maybe you can just have the 1 kid and live in a 1 bedroom apartment. That's if women want a provider. Life was always a struggle for most people in the west.