There are so many mothers staying at home while their husbands work and they are low income. Granted they live poor but life isn't perfect. No man or woman is owed a comfortable life. Life is not fair.
Those mothers especially in places like the UK relied on the government, so really and truly their husbands in some ways were dead weight. The conservative government has now pulled the rug from underneath them and now the average Somali habaar works in care. This is facts.
You should care about my preferences because that is the preference of virtually all men. This is why many Somali women are crying everyday online about there being no good Somali man despite actively looking even though there's a good Somali man at every street corner.
A good man is one that can provide for a woman at the standard in which they were raised in so that these women can stay home. A man that cannot provide can’t make a good husband and one that makes a woman pay and look after the home is frankly terrible.
It doesn’t benefit a woman at all. You need to understand this simple concept. That is why when women find themselves in that situation, they leave or become bitter.
As a man you either fully provide or shut up and help your wife look after the home. If not don’t cry when she leaves you since you’re dead weight.
Again, you’re not answering or engaging with the Question. Life isn’t just about male preferences. As a man you cannot demand traditionalism if you cannot even provide. There is no incentive for a woman to be with you if you’re not going to benefit her In other ways.
I don’t care as men tend to marry within their class. My point was that rich men tend to marry women from rich families, what does that have to do with you? Is everything okay? Why are you unable to understand that simple concept?
Your data is about white people who married someone from college or from the workplace due to easy access. They're all going to be middle class. Of course rich people who went to their own private schools and private colleges or have rich dads who have rich friends with daughters will marry within their own social circles. They are always around wealth. I am not sure why you always bring up wealthy people. Wealthy people marry middle class people all the time. Those people are so rare in society anyway. I'm referring to the over 99% of society. Many people making hundreds of thousands of dollars a year marry broke women all the time.
Yes, they do but those broke women need to level up in some ways in order to leave her broke environment. Men who make six figures aren’t shopping for wives on the estate. That’s an obvious.
Some even go back to poor countries to get their wife especially if they're Muslim. I'm not sure what you're talking about. No man is purposely looking for a woman who makes similiar income as them. That's B.S.
Again, the data shows that people marry within their class. It’s not just rich people. Middle class tend to marry middle class. Poor women tend to marry poor men and rich people marry rich people. Obviously, outliers exist. I’m not debating that.
Very simple concept for you to understand and the data illustrates this.