I agree with your point despite the irony of you being married to the same women you complain these "cushitic unionists" (Greater Ethiopia proponents) lust over.
We can debunk the supposed historic, cultural and political ties these people claim all day and they will debt them right to the grave. Confirmation bias is strong.
I personally would oppose any intermarriages with non somalis but that only gives those who want to colonise us a foothold within our community. There are other reasons such as preserving the unique somali gene pool but I'll leave that for another day.
These kids who actually believe in this nonsense are mostly incels and fake woke people. What's concerning is the femininity behind this voice. They want to give in to their neighbours. They want to forfeit their independence, women, lands and birthright to other men.
These destructive so called "ideals" of an utopia are comical. They want to give authority to the same people who colonised, tortured, murdered, raped and massacred Somali men, women and children. But when you show them the never ending examples in Galbeed they only respond with idiotic idealism that giving Ethiopia our entire people they'll accept us as their own. They'll treat us with respect. They won't touch us.
It's pathetic to say the least, and we should be weary of the troubles to come when entire groups of them form not only in the diaspora but back home. Ethiopia will fund and arm these traitors undoubtedly.
Which is why its important that those of us who truly love our people not only in name but with actions that reflect them (ie not intermarrying with our enemies) should expand our political influence back home.
The Kacaan generation is on its last breathes. Within 3 decades they'll be old and mostly dead. Do you want the fobs back home to repeat the same brain dead corrupt actions as their predecessors, do we want left wing "educated" nonsense to return, or do you want peace, prosperity and power for your people?