It's just a sandwich doe?Do you not see where you have a conundrum. You're changing your gender role but she's retaining the beneficial aspects of hers. Bad business i tell you. You are the worst of simps.
Why some of you make this all about cooking? Cleaning? Nowhere in the Quran does it say she must do it but out of Kindness she does it and in return I help her with the chores around the house or help her with the cooking