The abuse of somali fathers who are forced to flee the west leaving their children behind

[Basra]

Would you call your mother or father an idiot? Think before you type abaayo macaan or are you on your period?

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Acudu billahi Mina shadani rajiim bismillah rahmani rahiim naa yaho belo ku qadaay UUUUUFFF

 

[madaxweyne]

i know this man who is a pillar in the somali community from london hard working family man who recently got kicked out from his house and was prevented from seeing his kids.


It all started when he would come back from work he would come home to his wife dressed up with her friends and ready to go to aroos or go to a restaurant as soon as he comes back from doing 12 hour shifts.

Its dragged on he persevered cause he couldn't imagine life without his children, but the problem escalated when his wife started to demand he hands over all his pay check at the end of the month or she will kick him out.

He relented at first but gave in cause he wanted to be in his kids life qnd has witnessed many other somali fathers who were refused to see their own kids so he chose his kids over his hard earned cash which he wanted to save for his kids future anyway.

It turns out that the wife didnt onow how to budget so she spent all his wages and going out with her friends to expensive restaurants and buying gold necklesses and other extravagant material goods.

He pressed her about the issue but that only made the matter worse so he told her that he wont be goving her all his wages at the end if the month but most of it so he can save some incase she spends all the money so there will be money left behind to spend on their kids.

She refused and kicked him out calling police and bringing firth trumped up charges against him of assault, so her husband was arrested and hit with a court order forbidding him to see his kids or come within one mile of the family home.

Few months went by without being able to see his children and the man became depressed cause he loved his kids very much.

So one day he visited his kids school just so he can catch a glimpse of his kid but he couldn’t contain himself so he called out and waved to his kid.

When the kid got home all excited he told his mother that he saw his father waving to him in his car outside school. His mother informed police straight away.

The man was arrested and now he had a criminal record so he lost his job and was behind on his child support and alimony money and was about to be sent to prison again for being behind on his child support and alimony, so the man decided to flee the west and go back to Somalia where he started up a business with the help of his family and remarried and is now living comfortable.


Most somali fathers in the west are forced to flee while the mother brainwashes the kids turning them against their fathers by labelling them a deadbeat father when that’s far from the truth.

@CaliSomali @MariaMaria @Emily @Knowles @AussieHustler @Mercury @NA9

Damm inalilah this has happened to a lot of Somali fathers part of the issue of the breakdown in the Somali family and thr farax hating s with extreme daddy issues and criminal Addis who lack father figures

it is caused by ratchet money hungry welfare seeing child benefit eating obese things who are the most unloyal disrespecting trash who leave the home without telling her husband so she can shake it down at someone's wedding

#abdiexit wallahi ditch them and don't looknow back brothers

 

[Farjano-Walad]

The problem is most somali fathers don’t talk about their problems cause our culture is very masculine men are taught never to display emotions and to keep everything bottled up and i they talk about their problems it’s frowned upon and deemed as being a weakness hence nin ragg ba tahay, nin ragg iska dhiig, illahay nin ragg bu ka dhigay, iis aadkay nin bu illahay ka dhigay.

Unlike the west where toxic feminity is the order of the day somali culture is the complete opposite men are told to man up and solider it regardless of how much pain they are suffering and women are always given the benefit of the doubt and treated in somali culture as being infalible hence iska dhaaf waa Dumar, dumar la’aan waa nolool la’aan, dumar hala murmin, dumarka xushmeey...

do you think he knew about thw wife and her true character for years, bro, no one wakes up and gets divorced and disocvers she is an aroos addict with no deena dn manners the way she stabbed him like that

i think he knew, i think most men know their wifes real chacater and i think many decide to go ahead and marry them and think he/ or she can change the other half,

this was a compound affect that took years to accumalte, no over night she turned bad/evil on him,

he should have played smart, you are in the west, waa 21st century,

i once dumped a mrehan girl because as ajoke she told me to f*ck of on the 4th date, i dumped a habar gidir sacad golding **** after she said i never take her anywhere expensive, evwen though i spent like 120£ on that 5th date and came all the way from leicester to east london, i drove that company car audi a3 i was given and spent so much on petrol, when she said that i dumped her,

i was dumped a dhulbahante chick becasue she went with her 1door neighbour to a prty one night, he cike dher up at 1 am and dropped her back 5 am, an 1door with my shukaansi girl in a car at 5 am? she was gone, not wifey matetrial,

poitn is all men know if their shukansi lady is a hoe before marriage but most cannot think smartly and ahead and say can she be the mother of my kids, is she good, and judge,

if she is pretty men forgive her BS an then reality slaps them in the face,

i once dumped a hawadly girl because she told me she likes men checking her ass , specially when she was in dubai, --she was gone,

i once dumped a Ogaden girl because she told me she will be fine with our kids marrying ajanabi/foreigners, i am racist, and think somalis should only marry somali, Ogadens are usually racist too but she was raised in the west and believed in that BS multi culture crap,
the Ogadden girl was a trainee brain surgeon, smart, tall, sexy, but i dont believe in interracial marriage,


always think ahead and judge her by her charcter, not how hot she is,

i once dumped a hawadley girl becasue her sister set her up with a dude, the half marehan sister f the girl invited the dude to her bed room for shukansi, when i found out she was gone,

be ruthless, this is half your deen,

this man knew 99% chance what his wife is made of in terms of character, yet decided to marry her,

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Damm inalilah this has happened to a lot of Somali fathers part of the issue of the breakdown in the Somali family and thr farax hating s with extreme daddy issues and criminal Addis who lack father figures

it is caused by ratchet money hungry welfare seeing child benefit eating obese things who are the most unloyal disrespecting trash who leave the home without telling her husband so she can shake it down at someone's wedding

#abdiexit wallahi ditch them and don't looknow back brothers

I’m afraid most females from the west practice hypergamy and they are mostly materialistic so it’s not just some of the women but also the system

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

do you think he knew about thw wife and her true character for years, bro, no one wakes up and gets divorced and disocvers she is an aroos addict with no deena dn manners the way she stabbed him like that

i think he knew, i think most men know their wifes real chacater and i think many decide to go ahead and marry them and think he/ or she can change the other half,

this was a compound affect that took years to accumalte, no over night she turned bad/evil on him,

he should have played smart, you are in the west, waa 21st century,

i once dumped a mrehan girl because as ajoke she told me to f*ck of on the 4th date, i dumped a habar gidir sacad golding **** after she said i never take her anywhere expensive, evwen though i spent like 120£ on that 5th date and came all the way from leicester to east london, ****** i drove that company car audi a3 i was given and spent so much on petrol, when she said that i dumped her,

i was dumped a dhulbahante chick becasue she went with her 1door neighbour to a prty one night, he cike dher up at 1 am and dropped her back 5 am, an 1door with my shukaansi girl in a car at 5 am? she was gone, not wifey matetrial,

poitn is all men know if their shukansi lady is a hoe before marriage but most cannot think smartly and ahead and say can she be the mother of my kids, is she good, and judge,

if she is pretty men forgive her BS an then reality slaps them in the face,

i once dumped a hawadly girl because she told me she likes men checking her ass , specially when she was in dubai, --she was gone,

i once dumped a Ogaden girl because she told me she will be fine with our kids marrying ajanabi/foreigners, i am racist, and think somalis should only marry somali, Ogadens are usually racist too but she was raised in the west and believed in that BS multi culture crap,
the Ogadden girl was a trainee brain surgeon, smart, tall, sexy, but i dont believe in interracial marriage,


always think ahead and judge her by her charcter, not how hot she is,

i once dumped a hawadley girl becasue her sister set her up with a dude, the half marehan sister f the girl invited the dude to her bed room for shukansi, when i found out she was gone,

be ruthless, this is half your deen,

this man knew 99% chance what his wife is made of in terms of character, yet decided to marry her,

You can never know a person true character until you live in the same house as that person and see them day and night and once there’s kids in the picture then you become a slave to her whims and desires otherwise she will use your own kids against you as a weapon by refusing you to see your kids.

 

[madaxweyne]

I’m afraid most females from the west practice hypergamy and they are mostly materialistic so it’s not just some of the women but also the system

It's not just the system Asians are doing alright mostry even the Arabs they still have fully intact families and stable households it might be the xaarlimos

I remember my Asian neighbour asked if a Somali mum divorced her husband islamicly
It's the xaarlimos walal and also our culture a single mother is looked down upon in Asian communities getting married again for a woman is shamed upon in their community I know first hand and it's very uncommon for such a thing to happen
Xaarlimos are cursed

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

It's not just the system Asians are doing alright mostry even the Arabs they still have fully intact families and stable households it might be the xaarlimos

I remember my Asian neighbour asked if a Somali mum divorced her husband islamicly
It's the xaarlimos walal and also our culture a single mother is looked down upon in Asian communities getting married again for a woman is shamed upon in their community I know first hand and it's very uncommon for such a thing to happen
Xaarlimos are cursed

The reason asians and arabs, turkish..dont have this problem is cause if a woman is divirced then no man will want her from her community plus the family ostricise her and completely cut her off. Also the man rans the relationship in all these different communities notice just like the black carribean community and african american community somali community is mainly ran by women single mother homes are a communality.

Xalimos are encouraged by their mothers and other female relatives to get divorced cause most xalimos in the west were raised by single mothers just like the black carribean and african american communities.

I think it mainly stems to benefits cause the government gives black carribean women and african american women and somali women incentives to throw tgeir men under the bus and out the house. whereas other communities like arabs, indians and turks their women build with their men and most of them are not reliant on benefits.

I think many single mother somali women tend to poison their kids against somali men thats why you see so much contempt coming from these xalimos that were raised or born in the west.

 

[madaxweyne]

The reason asians and arabs, turkish..dont have this problem is cause if a woman is divirced then no man will want her from her community plus the family ostricise her and completely cut her off. Also the man rans the relationship in all these different communities notice just like the black carribean community and african american community somali community is mainly ran by women single mother homes are a communality.

Xalimos are encouraged by their mothers and other female relatives to get divorced cause most xalimos in the west were raised by single mothers just like the black carribean and african american communities.

I think it mainly stems to benefits cause the government gives black carribean women and african american women and somali women incentives to throw tgeir men under the bus and out the house. whereas other communities like arabs, indians and turks their women build with their men and most of them are not reliant on benefits.

Saxilb that still doesn't make sense AAs have no culture no language no history nor ethnic identity self victimised destroyed people we are not like that plus we have our own country 2

AAS are not religious, Somalis are but Thier is no evidence of a practise of Islam by us we talk about but don't act on it asians do especially in divorce which shocked me because the somali divorced the guy on her free will without an Islamic imam or islamicly

Last but not least were not as stupid as AAs asians might be collectively smarter as their iq is about 90 while somalis are 80 something like Eritrea and Ethiopia because of our history of colonisation trading and we even defeated Portugal in naval combatt

And all of which Jarrers couldn't do

Either the xalimos have a sickness or were cursed I really don't know Saxib enlighten me
Until then abdiexit

 

[Ramen]

who cares
somali fathers are trash anyways

 

[madaxweyne]

Saxilb that still doesn't make sense AAs have no culture no language no history nor ethnic identity self victimised destroyed people we are not like that plus we have our own country 2

AAS are not religious, Somalis are but Thier is no evidence of a practise of Islam by us we talk about but don't act on it asians do especially in divorce which shocked me because the somali divorced the guy on her free will without an Islamic imam or islamicly

Last but not least were not as stupid as AAs asians might be collectively smarter as their iq is about 90 while somalis are 80 something like Eritrea and Ethiopia because of our history of colonisation Maldives and sofala Mozambique Trading and we even defeated Portugal in naval combatt

And all of which Jarrers couldn't do

Either the xalimos have a sickness or were cursed I really don't know Saxib enlighten me
Until then abdiexit

 

[Farjano-Walad]

You can never know a person true character until you live in the same house as that person and see them day and night and once there’s kids in the picture then you become a slave to her whims and desires otherwise she will use your own kids against you as a weapon by refusing you to see your kids.

BS, you can tell a hoe from a meter if you really get to know her, her character, her believes, her manners,

see how she treats her fmaily, her freinds, drama queen,

and yuo think she has not gone to wedding before,

i used to dump girls that went to non family weddings,

see how she talks, there are lots of clues,

and he should have befriended his wife? data nights, setting time for her, he neglected her, she neglected him,

we only have his side, not her side,

and yes hypergamy exists, its 2018, play it and dont moan about it, get a girl that likes you, is loyal, is trust worthy,

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Saxilb that still doesn't make sense AAs have no culture no language no history nor ethnic identity self victimised destroyed people we are not like that plus we have our own country 2

AAS are not religious, Somalis are but Thier is no evidence of a practise of Islam by us we talk about but don't act on it asians do especially in divorce which shocked me because the somali divorced the guy on her free will without an Islamic imam or islamicly

Last but not least were not as stupid as AAs asians might be collectively smarter as their iq is about 90 while somalis are 80 something like Eritrea and Ethiopia because of our history of colonisation trading and we even defeated Portugal in naval combatt

And all of which Jarrers couldn't do

Either the xalimos have a sickness or were cursed I really don't know Saxib enlighten me
Until then abdiexit

Most xalimos in the west are raised by single mothers and devirce is orevalent in our community

When xalimo goes for divorce her female family members encourage it other somali women tell her why do you meed a man when you can get government hand out and on top of that the government will make him pay you alimony and child suport.

Fir most xalimos unfortunately its all about the money they care less about how it may impact their kids not to have contact with their father

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

who cares
somali fathers are trash anyways

I am sorry to hear that your father is trash, did he sexually molester you?

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

BS, you can tell a hoe from a meter if you really get to know her, her character, her believes, her manners,

see how she treats her fmaily, her freinds, drama queen,

and yuo think she has not gone to wedding before,

i used to dump girls that went to non family weddings,

see how she talks, there are lots of clues,

and he should have befriended his wife? data nights, setting time for her, he neglected her, she neglected him,

we only have his side, not her side,

and yes hypergamy exists, its 2018, play it and dont moan about it, get a girl that likes you, is loyal, is trust worthy,

The family courts and divorce courts are bias against fathers, fathers have no rights over their kids in sha Allah i will @ you on another thread so you can get a better scope of the situation at hand.

 

[madaxweyne]

Most xalimos in the west are raised by single mothers and devirce is orevalent in our community

When xalimo goes for divorce her female family members encourage it other somali women tell her why do you meed a man when you can get government hand out and on top of that the government will make him pay you alimony and child suport.

Fir most xalimos unfortunately its all about the money they care less about how it may impact their kids not to have contact with their father

That's just the dumb xalimo babies that were born in Europe doesn't matter how old they are babies born in Europe in Europe

And also they are just excusesyet browse we need to address the cause, and it's us we are socialists and communists since barre and his socialist disaster

We have a ridiculous version of Islam and our culture is to blame for this we gave women rights theyou didn't deserve now we have to enforce traditional islamice way of life

We messed up no one else don't embarrass us and compare us to AAS
A failed people with no identity squib we have one and need to show it

 

[Ramen]

I am sorry to hear that your father is trash, did he sexually molester you?

warya dont joke about shit like that
anyways
somali men are trash

 

[Muji]

This is a depressing look in to cognitives life

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

warya dont joke about shit like that
anyways
somali men are trash

Who said i was joking didnt you say all somali men are trash? Maybe your father has abused you for you to call your father trash.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

This is a depressing look in to cognitives life

Fathers rights is imperative, i am waking up the young impressionable faraxs and opening their eyes to the gynocentric feminist system

Alhamdulillah i dont have no qumayo in my life ruunti waa illahay mahadiisa i live a stress free life ku dhuufo ka dhaqaaq is my motto in and out just like a robbery