The abuse of somali fathers who are forced to flee the west leaving their children behind

[Mercury]

What a ! no amount of repentance will save her from hell! this is why the majority of hell fire will be women who betray their husbands. Some somali women are trash and materialistic. Be careful who you marry fellas.

I'm glad all worked out for him in the end! and i hope his kids learn the truth one day.

Actually its majority of hell and heaven Will consist of women

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

@Inquisitive_ why did you delete your calaal tirade against xalimos in the west kulaha if anyone is dumb enough to marry from the diaspora they will be forever controlled by the woman war nin yaho illahay ka cabso and tell the truth when is the last time you spoke to a woman? you seem sexually frustrated i will pray for you may Allah give you a woman or a sex bot amiin before you start randomly killng people and become a serial killer, i heard most al shabaab members practise abstinence and when they can’t take it no more all the pent up frustration they strap on a suicide vest and detonate

 

[Mercury]

i know this man who is a pillar in the somali community from london hard working family man who recently got kicked out from his house and was prevented from seeing his kids.


It all started when he would come back from work he would come home to his wife dressed up with her friends and ready to go to aroos or go to a restaurant as soon as he comes back from doing 12 hour shifts.

Its dragged on he persevered cause he couldn't imagine life without his children, but the problem escalated when his wife started to demand he hands over all his pay check at the end of the month or she will kick him out.

He relented at first but gave in cause he wanted to be in his kids life qnd has witnessed many other somali fathers who were refused to see their own kids so he chose his kids over his hard earned cash which he wanted to save for his kids future anyway.

It turns out that the wife didnt onow how to budget so she spent all his wages and going out with her friends to expensive restaurants and buying gold necklesses and other extravagant material goods.

He pressed her about the issue but that only made the matter worse so he told her that he wont be goving her all his wages at the end if the month but most of it so he can save some incase she spends all the money so there will be money left behind to spend on their kids.

She refused and kicked him out calling police and bringing firth trumped up charges against him of assault, so her husband was arrested and hit with a court order forbidding him to see his kids or come within one mile of the family home.

Few months went by without being able to see his children and the man became depressed cause he loved his kids very much.

So one day he visited his kids school just so he can catch a glimpse of his kid but he couldn’t contain himself so he called out and waved to his kid.

When the kid got home all excited he told his mother that he saw his father waving to him in his car outside school. His mother informed police straight away.

The man was arrested and now he had a criminal record so he lost his job and was behind on his child support and alimony money and was about to be sent to prison again for being behind on his child support and alimony, so the man decided to flee the west and go back to Somalia where he started up a business with the help of his family and remarried and is now living comfortable.


Most somali fathers in the west are forced to flee while the mother brainwashes the kids turning them against their fathers by labelling them a deadbeat father when that’s far from the truth.

@CaliSomali @MariaMaria @Emily @Knowles @AussieHustler @Mercury @NA9

I agree theres some toxic somali mothers


But in this scenario

Why isnt he fighting back?

Why is he agreeing to give all his wages away?

The minute she threaten she Will take the kids away he should fight back take her to court

 

[World]

What kinda man lets a woman bully him into submitting his full wages

What exactly could he do? Nothing. She has the support of the government, the courts and social services on her side.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I agree theres some toxic somali mothers


But in this scenario

Why isnt he fighting back?

Why is he agreeing to give all his wages away?

The minute she threaten she Will take the kids away he should fight back take her to court

All a woman has to do is say she has been assaulted and its a rap and thats exactly what happened to him she brought forth trumped up charges of assault and the judge threw the book at him with a criminal record Under his belt he lost his job and was unable to find an employer willing to hire him based on his criminal record

Its either he complies to her demands or risk not seeing his kids he chose the former which any red blooded man wouldnt hesitate doing

 

[Mercury]

All a woman has to do is say she has been assaulted and its a rap and thats exactly what happened to him she brought forth trumped up charges of assault and the judge threw the book at him with a criminal record Under his belt he lost his job and was unable to find an employer willing to hire him based on his criminal record

Its either he complies to her demands or risk not seeing his kids he chose the former which any red blooded man wouldnt hesitate doing

If she can say shes been assaulted than why cant he make allegations aswell

Lets say he walks out the house and than calls the cops tell them he was kicked out from the house and cant see his kids now until an order is put in place a parent is under no obligation to let the other parent have access to the children he should tell that to the cops

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

If she can say shes been assaulted than why cant he make allegations aswell

Lets say he walks out the house and than calls the cops tell them he was kicked out from the house and cant see his kids now until an order is put in place a parent is under no obligation to let the other parent have access to the children he should tell that to the cops

War aniga ma walaan miise caden ba lagaa heesayaa


The system is always on the woman side even as a man if you are assaulted by your wife the authorities wont do a thing for you in this modern western feminist gynocentric society men are deemed as being disposable while women are valued

 

[Mercury]

War aniga ma walaan miise caden ba lagaa heesayaa


The system is always on the woman side even as a man if you are assaulted by your wife the authorities wont do a thing for you in this modern western feminist gynocentric society men are deemed as being disposable while women are valued

Thats the only route he can go to take here to court before she does

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Thats the only route he can go to take here to court before she does

If a man goes to a police station and says his wife assaulted him they will laugh in his face nothing will be done but if a woman does it they don’t even need evidence the man is going straight to prison

 

[Mercury]

If a man goes to a police station and says his wife assaulted him they will laugh in his face nothing will be done but if a woman does it they don’t even need evidence the man is going straight to prison

I dont mean assault

He should leave the house and call the cops that hes been kicked out from his house and shes withholding him from seeing the kids

This is the last thing she would expect him to do call the cops before she does

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I dont mean assault

He should leave the house and call the cops that hes been kicked out from his house and shes withholding him from seeing the kids

This is the last thing she would expect him to do call the cops before she does

Check out that thread I @ you in

 

[VixR]

I don’t believe this story.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I don’t believe this story.

 

[VixR]

Let me reiterate. I believe the story in the YouTube video. I don’t, however, believe the script you prepared for us in this thread a good, working Somali husband and father who is randomly, one day, shown hostility and reaped for his paycheck, and if he doesn’t agree, he won’t see his children.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Let me reiterate. I believe the story in the YouTube video. I don’t, however, believe the script you prepared for us in this thread a good, working Somali husband and father who is randomly, one day, shown hostility and reaped his paycheck, and if he doesn’t agree, he won’t see his children.

So you believe the video i posted cause the man recorded his wife threatening him saying if he doesnt leave his house and take all his belongings she is going to tell the police he beat her up.

Would you believe him if he didnt have evidence a recording of his wife?

Vix i @ you on another thread why are you avoiding it like the plague abaayo macaan

 

[Basra]

i know this man who is a pillar in the somali community from london hard working family man who recently got kicked out from his house and was prevented from seeing his kids.


It all started when he would come back from work he would come home to his wife dressed up with her friends and ready to go to aroos or go to a restaurant as soon as he comes back from doing 12 hour shifts.

Its dragged on he persevered cause he couldn't imagine life without his children, but the problem escalated when his wife started to demand he hands over all his pay check at the end of the month or she will kick him out.

He relented at first but gave in cause he wanted to be in his kids life qnd has witnessed many other somali fathers who were refused to see their own kids so he chose his kids over his hard earned cash which he wanted to save for his kids future anyway.

It turns out that the wife didnt onow how to budget so she spent all his wages and going out with her friends to expensive restaurants and buying gold necklesses and other extravagant material goods.

He pressed her about the issue but that only made the matter worse so he told her that he wont be goving her all his wages at the end if the month but most of it so he can save some incase she spends all the money so there will be money left behind to spend on their kids.

She refused and kicked him out calling police and bringing firth trumped up charges against him of assault, so her husband was arrested and hit with a court order forbidding him to see his kids or come within one mile of the family home.

Few months went by without being able to see his children and the man became depressed cause he loved his kids very much.

So one day he visited his kids school just so he can catch a glimpse of his kid but he couldn’t contain himself so he called out and waved to his kid.

When the kid got home all excited he told his mother that he saw his father waving to him in his car outside school. His mother informed police straight away.

The man was arrested and now he had a criminal record so he lost his job and was behind on his child support and alimony money and was about to be sent to prison again for being behind on his child support and alimony, so the man decided to flee the west and go back to Somalia where he started up a business with the help of his family and remarried and is now living comfortable.


Most somali fathers in the west are forced to flee while the mother brainwashes the kids turning them against their fathers by labelling them a deadbeat father when that’s far from the truth.

@CaliSomali @MariaMaria @Emily @Knowles @AussieHustler @Mercury @NA9

I am happy for him that he moved on. Things happen for a reason. Usually a separation is favorable to the good person in the relationship, and unfavorable for the idiot in the relationship .

 

[Omar del Sur]

That’s exactly what happened to him she refused him to see his kids, listen it’s easy for you to talk like this now but if there was your kids involved I doubt it you would be this brazen and nonchalant about it

yes the kids being involved makes it a very different situation.... I cannot imagine how I myself would act in such a situation... I hope Allah wills that I never have to go through anything like that and I hope Allah wills that for other Muslims as well...

 

[RedStar]

One woman can formicate with 150 men in one night if she so chooses whereas a man can only so many times 10 maybe 15 at the most then its a rap

 

[VixR]

So you believe the video i posted cause the man recorded his wife threatening him saying if he doesnt leave his house and take all his belongings she is going to tell the police he beat her up.

Would you believe him if he didnt have evidence a recording of his wife?

Vix i @ you on another thread why are you avoiding it like the plague abaayo macaan

I don’t believe women are saints, but neither are men. If anything, at least women aren’t a hazard to the physical lives of men, like men are to women. But that’s pretty much where the buck stops. The fact that she’s manipulative enough to use lying about being beaten by her husband as a tool against him, doesn’t make it a typical threat in a male-female relationship. It’s the opposite. The reason she’s able to make such a threat is precisely because it’s commonplace enough to be believable. That’s why I’m glad he had evidence.

Your story on the other hand, is bullshit. Either that, or it’s entirely misconstrued/incomplete.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I am happy for him that he moved on. Things happen for a reason. Usually a separation is favorable to the good person in the relationship, and unfavorable for the idiot in the relationship .

Would you call your mother or father an idiot? Think before you type abaayo macaan or are you on your period?