Submissive

[Abdalla]

You’re making it sound like Islam condones domestic violence.

There’s a Hadith that says you should beat your wife with something similar to a siwaak. You can’t cause injury or bruising, nor can you strike the face.

It wasnt my intention to condone any form of physical discipline measurements. Those were funny fatwas that i wouldnt follow.

 

[Balqisa]

I still don’t think that should be seen as equal either....

So what the wife thinks should happen in the family isnt as important as the husband /father?

 

[nine]

@Abdalla must be really enjoying @Zahra's posts

 

[Emily]

Wtf is this woman Ayrab ? How do you become a ‘submissive wife’ Do you say yes to everything ? You do whatever you are told ? You have no say nor choice

 

[Snake]

There's only one word I will accept from my wife when answering: Yes.

 

[Abdalla]

@Abdalla must be really enjoying @Zahra's posts

And she enjoys mine

Xalimos are the past. Get yourself a Latina or an Afghan. Faraxs are a sought after commodity now, make use of the timing before some ruin our name.

 

[Cambuulo Tonight]

@Zahra you have been raised well mashallah.

Your husband is the luckiest man, you're one in a million.

 

[Zahra]

@Abdalla must be really enjoying @Zahra's posts

Why do u say that

 

[munira]

Why not? I'm not saying you're wrong, I just want to get to the core of your reasoning.

men and women have been forced
to be equals. But equality doesn’t exist.
It’s a bs concept.
Gender roles however do and should be practiced.

 

[Zahra]

Surely there are some tools and strings a man can pull to 'mold' her mentality? Im thinking of consequences of rebellious behaviour? Maybe silence trearment? Or sending her to her parents house for a time out period. People always assume that disciplining means abuse and beatings. If it escalares to physical fights, then it is already passed the breaking point.



Arrangement? 50/50? I hate making deala before hand. Never treat your relationship like it's some kind of business transaction avoid of any feelings.

The reason some dislike being submissive is because they married for the wrong reasons and the guy turned out to be moron so they dont want to be submissive to a moron.

The silent treatment to me is torture. If we're living under the same roof and your purposely not speaking to me that would drive me insane. Another approach could maybe be just some time apart. Not months or weeks but a few days. A grown woman is very hard to mold , let's be honest you shouldn't even have to mold her at all because some things are just common sense. If shes lacking on the basics of a marriage or a human being period than that's a lost cost. Dont give your all to someone or make an effort on anyone who can care less on changing their ways. And most people dont see fault in how they act so a person like that in their mind have nothing to work on, fix, or change.

 

[Balqisa]

Sand n*gger culture. #makesomaliacushiticagain

 

[munira]

So what the wife thinks should happen in the family isnt as important as the husband /father?

It depends what you mean by think. Women are naturally more closer to their children and therefore know them more, so when it comes to nurturing children at a young age, then the wife should have a say.

Other than that, that’s exactly what I belive in.

 

[esmailxxx]

Abaayo, men and women aren’t equal.

Equal but different,ying yang

 

[munira]

It wasnt my intention to condone any form of physical discipline measurements. Those were funny fatwas that i wouldnt follow.

They aren’t funny. Your deen shouldn’t be comedic...

 

[Fels]

Being submissive is bad as you would be taken advantage of

 

[Zahra]

@Zahra you have been raised well mashallah.

Your husband is the luckiest man, you're one in a million.

Thank you! Marriage , men, woman relationships, everything has to be dealt with the person giving their ALL. especially marriage, I dont see it as 50/50. Its 100/100. This is after all someone you have decided to spend the rest of your life with, how could you not give them your everything and be the best version of yourself for them. You have to be fair, love hard, give them your all, you might have a soft spot for your spouse and they may be your weakness but that doesnt mean be a fool either. In my marriage were equal. Yes hes the man, and physically hes stronger then me, but were both human and capable of putting forth the same time, energy, effort and love into the marriage to make it work and last.

 

[Kodeen]

Sand n*gger culture. #makesomaliacushiticagain

lol I heard oldschool geeljires had a 0% tolerance for hoes

@Knowles tell her this ain't arab, but Somali culture

 

[Kodeen]

Being submissive is bad as you would be taken advantage of

Only if you marry the wrong person

 

[munira]

Equal but different,ying yang

Equity

 

[Balqisa]

lol I heard oldschool geeljires had a 0% tolerance for hoes

@Knowles tell her this ain't arab, but Somali culture

War beenta naga dhaaf . There is proof Somali women were well integrated into society unlike sand n*gger females who just recently let their women drive . We are not Ayrabs waryaa