Submissive

[YourBroMoe]

How should a man discipline a disobedient wife?

In what context are you asking that question?

 

[Abdalla]

In what context are you asking that question?

What steps need to be taken to turn a rebellious disobedient wife into a submissive wife?

 

[Factz]

You can't be submissive to someone . In a relationship both of you have to see each other as eqauls both respecting each others opinions and ideas. "Submissive" kulaha . Is he your dad? Are you a child that needs scolding ? Foh

Islamically, you must be obedient to your husband and if he's a kind husband then there is nothing wrong with that.

You shouldn't be corrupted by feminism. They abuse the word "submissive" and make it seem like men are evil. You're 18 so one day you'll get older and wiser, hopefully.

@sigmund who isn't brainedwashed with feminism can teach you that.

 

[Zahra]

How should a man discipline a disobedient wife?

He shouldn't discipline her, but more so just express his disappointment in her actions. Discipline sounds more like for a child, but having the man Express how she has disappointed him and why, is all that should be said. If the woman continuously keeps going against her husbands wishes and commands then he should rethink the marriage.

 

[Zahra]

Tbh it's kinda boring when your wife says yes all the time that'd be like marrying a house maid, where's the fun in that?

as A man I'd like a girl who can stand for her own ideas and can challenge you intellectually




(not physically lol)

Yes of course I agree that the woman should have her own view, and speak her mind but she should also let the husband, be the man, she should let him be in control on some matters. And yes she should to a certain extent listen to her husbands demands and wishes.

 

[YourBroMoe]

What steps need to be taken to turn a rebellious disobedient wife into a submissive wife?

That depends on the arrangement you've made getting married.

If you married a woman under the condition of being the breadwinner, and her the housewife (both with consent), then you can simple ask, "so what's up?". If you can't even have the conversation, then that particular type of marriage is on thin ice.

If you married a woman who does shit with you 50-50, then you're implying she isn't pulling her weight. At that point, ask her why she isn't doing her share. Again, if you can't even have the conversation, then that particular type of marriage is also on thin ice.

 

[YourBroMoe]

He shouldn't discipline her, but more so just express his disappointment in her actions. Discipline sounds more like for a child, but having the man Express how she has disappointed him and why, is all that should be said. If the woman continuously keeps going against her husbands wishes and commands then he should rethink the marriage.

Pretty much this. A marriage of violence will only lead to ill will, and a horrible cycle as this is brought up with the kids. Nothing good can come from that.

 

[Zahra]

What steps need to be taken to turn a rebellious disobedient wife into a submissive wife?

If shes rebellious and disobedient it'll take for the man to have a lot of patience to deal with a woman like that. Itll be a challenge, and if shes loke that from the start why even chance it with someone like that when you can find a woman who isnt like that.

 

[Radical]

What steps need to be taken to turn a rebellious disobedient wife into a submissive wife?

Only one step

EDIT: it's a joke girls don't xanaaq

 

[dr.leorio]

When dealing with our mothers. You must obey her unless she tells you to do haram. ✔

When our mothers deal with our fathers, she shows him respect and compliments him ✔

When dealing with these nEW Age Xalimods: #^%$&Buuq iyo Qaylo, BLM, sjw antiblack propaganda, independent black women belaayo , identity crisis victim mentality, brainwashed self-hate, daddy issue's and the list goes on

If you want submissive women go back home to Somalia. There's nothing left out here.

 

[Abdalla]

Yes of course I agree that the woman should have her own view, and speak her mind but she should also let the husband, be the man, she should let him be in control on some matters. And yes she should to a certain extent listen to her husbands demands and wishes.

Surely there are some tools and strings a man can pull to 'mold' her mentality? Im thinking of consequences of rebellious behaviour? Maybe silence trearment? Or sending her to her parents house for a time out period. People always assume that disciplining means abuse and beatings. If it escalares to physical fights, then it is already passed the breaking point.

That depends on the arrangement you've made getting married.

If you married a woman under the condition of being the breadwinner, and her the housewife (both with consent), then you can simple ask, "so what's up?". If you can't even have the conversation, then that particular type of marriage is on thin ice.

If you married a woman who does shit with you 50-50, then you're implying she isn't pulling her weight. At that point, ask her why she isn't doing her share. Again, if you can't even have the conversation, then that particular type of marriage is also on thin ice.

Arrangement? 50/50? I hate making deala before hand. Never treat your relationship like it's some kind of business transaction avoid of any feelings.

The reason some dislike being submissive is because they married for the wrong reasons and the guy turned out to be moron so they dont want to be submissive to a moron.

 

[Balqisa]

Abaayo, men and women aren’t equal.

Dont you think I know that. I meant seeing each others views and ideas as equal relevance .

 

[YourBroMoe]

Surely there are some tools and strings a man can pull to 'mold' her mentality? Im thinking of consequences of rebellious behaviour? Maybe silence trearment? Or sending her to her parents house for a time out period. People always assume that disciplining means abuse and beatings. If it escalares to physical fights, then it is already passed the breaking point.



Arrangement? 50/50? I hate making deala before hand. Never treat your relationship like it's some kind of business transaction avoid of any feelings.

The reason some dislike being submissive is because they married for the wrong reasons and the guy turned out to be moron so they dont want to be submissive to a moron.

A marriage is technically a business transaction. It isn't all emotional. You're a fool if you think there are no practical elements to marriage. There are a lot of things that need to be hashed out before marrying someone in order for it to last and be stable. Can't just let your emotions run wild.

 

[Abdalla]

A marriage is technically a business transaction. It isn't all emotional. You're a fool if you think there are no practical elements to marriage. There are a lot of things that need to be hashed out before marrying someone in order for it to last and be stable. Can't just let your emotions run wild.

Exactly being submissive means the wife sets her pride aside. You have to learn, without sounding sadistic, how to 'break' their pride.

Only one step

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EDIT: it's a joke girls don't xanaaq

Reminds memri tv quotes of the arab sheikhs:

'If she doesnt behave, beat her on the spot'

'what is a better cure of disobedience than beatings'

 

[YourBroMoe]

Exactly being submissive means the wife sets her pride aside. You have to learn, without sounding sadistic, how to 'break' their pride.



Reminds memri tv quotes of the arab sheikhs:

'If she doesnt behave, beat her on the spot'

'what is a better cure of disobedience than beatings'

This is sounding more like the halal version of 50 shades of grey.

 

[Emily]

It goes both ways. If he ain’t catering to you then why bother
Submitting to your spouse=slavery
We live in modern times hun, no one uses the word ‘submissive’ in this day age unless you doing some freaky shit in the sack

 

[YourBroMoe]

It goes both ways. If he ain’t catering to you then why bother
Submitting to your spouse=slavery
We live in modern times hun, no one uses the word ‘submissive’ in this day age unless you doing some freaky shit in the sack

 

[munira]

Exactly being submissive means the wife sets her pride aside. You have to learn, without sounding sadistic, how to 'break' their pride.



Reminds memri tv quotes of the arab sheikhs:

'If she doesnt behave, beat her on the spot'

'what is a better cure of disobedience than beatings'

You’re making it sound like Islam condones domestic violence.

There’s a Hadith that says you should beat your wife with something similar to a siwaak. You can’t cause injury or bruising, nor can you strike the face.

 

[munira]

Dont you think I know that. I meant seeing each others views and ideas as equal relevance .

I still don’t think that should be seen as equal either....

 

[YourBroMoe]

I still don’t think that should be seen as equal either....

Why not? I'm not saying you're wrong, I just want to get to the core of your reasoning.