Spinoff thread: Mother vs Wife treatment

[saredochani10]

I help my mum financially and shopping. Coocking and cleaning is a womans job. Im traditionalist

I respect men who say that.

Gives us time to run .

 

[Finesse]

Girls, i want maid as wife.
Any chance that there are Diaspora girls who loves to be maids?

How much you willing to pay them for their services?

 

[Finesse]

I respect men who say that.

Gives us time to run .

He's a real one.

@Jaydaan

Tell any girl you are interested in up front so there is no confusion/resentment later on.
There are certainly ladies who don't mind but you have to find them.

Honestly for me, If a man had enough $ and could provide very well for me whilst I run the house, I'd happily do it and or hire help.

But broke/middle class men better roll up their sleeves.

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

How much you willing to pay them for their services?

 

[saredochani10]

Girls, i want maid as wife.
Any chance that there are Diaspora girls who loves to be maids?


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Maid, Lover and Mom all in One. Trinity style

Are you rich, good looking with a good personality ? Trinity style.

 

[Jaydaan]

He's a real one.

@Jaydaan

Tell any girl you are interested in up front so there is no confusion/resentment later on.
There are certainly ladies who don't mind but you have to find them.

Honestly for me, If a man had enough $ and could provide very well for me whilst I run the house, I'd happily do it and or hire help.

But broke/middle class men better roll up their sleeves.

When it comes to wome. Been a lagu soo xarewya...run ba lagu dhaqa

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

Are you rich, good looking with a good personality ? Trinity style.

Good looking yes
Rich=
Good personality= Best

 

[Finesse]

When it comes to wome. Been a lagu soo xarewya...run ba lagu dhaqa

This is why there is a high rate of divorce! I thought you were a real one




There is a lid for every pot but you have to be honest.

If you want to marry multiple wives, no problem, there are women who don't mind sharing.
If you hate housework, no worries, there are many women who don't want a man in their space.

 

[Abdurahman_somali]

I treat my mom like a queen i would kiss the floor she walks on, but cooking and cleaning is none of my business at all.


I don't expect much from my wife - Just having a booty like kim k, serving and catering for me as if her life depends on it and raising my kids well. My duties are financial providing, all the craft work + garden and helping raising the kids.

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

I treat my mom like a queen i would kiss the floor she walks on, but cooking and cleaning is none of my business at all.


I don't expect much from my wife - Just having a booty like kim k, serving and catering for me as if her life depends on it and raising my kids well. My duties are financial providing, all the craft work + garden and helping raising the kids.

 

[Finesse]

I treat my mom like a queen i would kiss the floor she walks on, but cooking and cleaning is none of my business at all.


I don't expect much from my wife - Just having a booty like kim k, serving and catering for me as if her life depends on it and raising my kids well. My duties are financial providing, all the craft work + garden and helping raising the kids.

Would you pay for hired help to support your wife so she is not overstretched?
It's easy to handle cooking/cleaning when there are no young children but once they come in, especially during the first 2 years, it's a hassle for one person to sort out.

 

[Jaydaan]

This is why there is a high rate of divorce! I thought you were a real one




There is a lid for every pot but you have to be honest.

If you want to marry multiple wives, no problem, there are women who don't mind sharing.
If you hate housework, no

This is why there is a high rate of divorce! I thought you were a real one




There is a lid for every pot but you have to be honest.

If you want to marry multiple wives, no problem, there are women who don't mind sharing.
If you hate housework, no worries, there are many women who don't want a man in their space.

But no one is completely honest from start. And my reason for leavobg Coocking and cleaning for women is based on respect. Deep down most love it

 

[Abdurahman_somali]

Would you pay for hired help to support your wife so she is not overstretched?
It's easy to handle cooking/cleaning when there are no young children but once they come in, especially during the first 2 years, it's a hassle for one person to sort out.

Well if she is overstretched i will introduce a new person into this household to support her - My second wife. She has support in the kitchen and i have support in the bedroom.

 

[Finesse]

But no one is completely honest from start. And my reason for leavobg Coocking and cleaning for women is based on respect. Deep down most love it

People should be 100% honest about expectations.

 

[Finesse]

Well if she is overstretched i will introduce a new person into this household to support her - My second wife. She has support in the kitchen and i have support in the bedroom.

 

[Basra]

Well if she is overstretched i will introduce a new person into this household to support her - My second wife. She has support in the kitchen and i have support in the bedroom.

What if both wife play with each other sexually?

 

[Finesse]

What if both wife play with each other sexually?

Any woman with a Kim K diaper injected booty cannot be trusted.

If he finds TWO of them?

They are gonna be real close.

 

[Zahra]

I've heard of men who become super involved in household tasks when they get married but didn't even lift a finger in their mother's house.


Even when they visit their mother, they don't do any chores.

Are these men only invested in a woman's happiness if she is sleeping with them.




Ladies: Would you be concerned about being married to a man that did not/ does not help his mother around the house?

I would be, I would be concerned that he would start neglecting me once the novelty/honeymoon period ends.

I believe that the way a man treats his mother/sisters is indicative of how he will treat you.

Before I married my somali husband, I had a somali male friend who told me " if you want to know how he will treat you, take a look at how he is with his mom and sisters"

 

[TekNiKo]

I tried helping my wife around the house and she always refuses even if I insist, I married a local queen

Only when shes pregnant I help around.

 

[Zahra]

I've heard of men who become super involved in household tasks when they get married but didn't even lift a finger in their mother's house.


Even when they visit their mother, they don't do any chores.

Are these men only invested in a woman's happiness if she is sleeping with them.




Ladies: Would you be concerned about being married to a man that did not/ does not help his mother around the house?

I would be, I would be concerned that he would start neglecting me once the novelty/honeymoon period ends.

I believe that the way a man treats his mother/sisters is indicative of how he will treat you.

This post really made me laugh kinda, sometimes I have to tell my husband , sorry honey this isnt Somalia/moms house I will not drop everything to give you a water bottle that is an arm length away. Lol. My hubby thinks hes the king and at home he should get catered to. Haha! Sometimes yes BUT sometimes he needs a smack across his head.