Somalis who dont have Somali friends

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Gooney112 said:
What somali person say to other somalis get deported? You said yourself you have no interest in learning somali. So if you are not making any effort and you dont seem to understand somalis and their way. Then you are somali in name only. Its not bulying......its the truth. But instead you decided to call everyone else rude and other names. Maybe you are super unlucky and just keep meeting bad people. But logic says if you dont get along with people you meet.....eventually you need to look at yourself
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I never said I had no interest in learning Somalis so stop lying thanks :cool:
I am Somali whether you like it or not. Idc about your opinion
 
Shibbane

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Speaking the language makes it easier to make and maintain connections with other Somalis. To someone who does not speak the language, Somalis just sound loud, aggressive and obnoxious people.

Non-Somalis think we are always fighting even at our fadhikudirir sessions in coffee shops.
 
Gooney112

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Shibbane said:
Speaking the language makes it easier to make and maintain connections with other Somalis. To someone who does not speak the language, Somalis just sound loud, aggressive and obnoxious people.

Non-Somalis think we are always fighting even at our fadhikudirir sessions in coffee shops.
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I work with one somali guy and we always speak somali at work. Some fool complained saying its rude, I said its not ebcause we are not talking to you. Anyway so many people say it sounds like we are arguing when we are talking and it sounds very aggressive lool
 
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I lived in Stockholm in a suburb called Rinkeby (AKA little Mogadishu) until I was 10. The vast majority of my friends were either Somali or Turkish/MENA cos that was like 90% of the people that lived there. But then we moved to Australia and the city I live in has a small Somali community, so most my friends are non-Somalis now. I reckon its a bit more difficult to make Somali friends when you're older, most people hang out with childhood friends/cousins
 
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Abdi-indhoyare said:
I lived in Stockholm in a suburb called Rinkeby (AKA little Mogadishu) until I was 10. The vast majority of my friends were either Somali or Turkish/MENA cos that was like 90% of the people that lived there. But then we moved to Australia and the city I live in has a small Somali community, so most my friends are non-Somalis now. I reckon its a bit more difficult to make Somali friends when you're older, most people hang out with childhood friends/cousins
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Indho

Oi, are you in Queensland? Where?

I’m a social animal. My closest friends are half a dozen and my friends will fill Wembley stadium. So many different nationalities.
 
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AussieHustler said:
Indho

Nice suburb, I lived in East Perth for 2 years. Met few very prejudiced white South Africans there. The Somali Kiwis are what the Dutch and Scandinavian Somalis are in Britain.
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Interesting, I didn't know that. Where do you live now? I've heard that Somalis in Melbourne are the most degenerate
 
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I have some Somali friends....mostly ones I've know since childhood. In my opinion, generally Somali's (esp guys) are really bland and talk about immediate things that don't really matter like community gossip, sports/football, weed, religion blah blah. These things just don't interest me that much. Obviously not all somali guys are like that but a huge chunk are from my experience.
 
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Pros of being around Somalis
-lively humour
-shared experiences
-can backbite others using our native tongue

Cons of being around Somalis
- if you reveal too much, this may spread like wild fire
-high probability they know someone you know, which makes falling out with them awkward
- high likelihood they will ask for favours or loans
-high likelihood favours and loans will not be returned
- since they know you so well, if you fall out they can hurt you badly
- always late when meeting them
- they are likely to be suffering from *Somali problems* and might take you down with them


*somali problems (pronounced so-maa-li bull-shit) definition:
Somali problems are typical problems faced by Somalis that are atypical in a normal population.

For women: broke as hell, desperate for mariage and won’t stop talking about it or going through a divorce and won’t stop talking about it. Experience of daqan Celis. Traumatising childhood. Boring and rarely has any interesting experiences to share since she’s locked in at home all day.

For men: awkward af, befriends Somali girls to try and date them. High likehood of doing criminal activities and could be carrying something illegal. Not educated.
 
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Knowles said:
Pros of being around Somalis
-lively humour
-shared experiences
-can backbite others using our native tongue

Cons of being around Somalis
- if you reveal too much, this may spread like wild fire
-high probability they know someone you know, which makes falling out with them awkward
- high likelihood they will ask for favours or loans
-high likelihood favours and loans will not be returned
- since they know you so well, if you fall out they can hurt you badly
- always late when meeting them
- they are likely to be suffering from *Somali problems* and might take you down with them


*somali problems (pronounced so-maa-li bull-shit) definition:
Somali problems are typical problems faced by Somalis that are atypical in a normal population.

For women: broke as hell, desperate for mariage and won’t stop talking about it or going through a divorce and won’t stop talking about it. Experience of daqan Celis. Traumatising childhood. Boring and rarely has any interesting experiences to share since she’s locked in at home all day.

For men: awkward af, befriends Somali girls to try and date them. High likehood of doing criminal activities and could be carrying something illegal. Not educated.
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Do Somali girls and boys even interact where you're from? When I see Somali girls in public I avoid them like the plague and vice versa. Never in my life has it occurred to me that it's possible to be friends with one
 
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Abdi-indhoyare said:
Do Somali girls and boys even interact where you're from? When I see Somali girls in public I avoid them like the plague and vice versa. Never in my life has it occurred to me that it's possible to be friends with one
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I had one Somali male friend from university but at the end he tried to date me :/

I think Somali men only befriend Somali girls when they want to pursue them. Strange.

Somalis don’t usually socialise where I’m from.
 
Gooney112

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Knowles said:
I had one Somali male friend from university but at the end he tried to date me :/

I think Somali men only befriend Somali girls when they want to pursue them. Strange.

Somalis don’t usually socialise where I’m from.
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Tbh I do that as well. Why would I just be friends with a girl and just hang around her like a gay friend
 
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Grew up around Somalis when i was young, had a few Somali friends here and there but eventually we all out grew each other, thank goodness for that got a few Somali girls as friends and rest are cadaan South American etc.
 
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Knowles said:
I had one Somali male friend from university but at the end he tried to date me :/

I think Somali men only befriend Somali girls when they want to pursue them. Strange.

Somalis don’t usually socialise where I’m from.
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Yeah I think so too especially for the younger generation. Our parents generation for the most part mingle a lot with both genders, but it's not common to see it with the youth
 
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