Not caring about how you're perceived is tantamount to having a bad reputation.
Not caring about how you're perceived is tantamount to having a bad reputation.
Not caring about how you're perceived is tantamount to having a bad reputation.
She already left Islam and her culture to try appeasing to her mastaAw poor you, you must be awfully stressed in your day to day life trying to appease your cadaan masters![]()
This widespread IDGAF attitude Somalis seem to have is actually a big part of the problem.
But according to Vixr u can live in Antarctica and it's ur responsibility to straighten out the trouble makers in MarsHonestly Vixr, The only person I can fully control and be accountable for is myself.
So as long as I am not fucking up, I should have nothing to worry about.
I can at most only slightly influence other peoples actions. I have never understood this whole concept of taking other peoples Ls when the only connection you have to those strangers is something which you have no control over.
Something which I have always hated is this ethnic double standard, where every cadaan is their own individual but the non white is accountable for what other people do and is asked to condemn such actions.
In other words,
Stop cooning, Sxb.
Aw poor you, you must be awfully stressed in your day to day life trying to appease your cadaan masters![]()
She already left Islam and her culture to try appeasing to her masta
What you're describing isn't some cadancentric idea. It's static and remains the same everywhere you go in the world. As a minority or outside group to the general population you're subject to more scrutiny. In some instances, you have to work twice as hard to get half as far, and in some others you're afforded more opportunity than the native constituents. That's just a fact of life.Honestly Vixr, The only person I can fully control and be accountable for is myself.
So as long as I am not fucking up, I should have nothing to worry about.
I can at most only slightly influence other peoples actions. I have never understood this whole concept of taking other peoples Ls when the only connection you have to those strangers is something which you have no control over.
Something which I have always hated is this ethnic double standard, where every cadaan is their own individual but the non white is accountable for what other people do and is asked to condemn such actions.
In other words,
Stop cooning, Sxb.
If we were the best ppl right now with the best manners, ppl would still find reasons to hate ur guts, how can u accept there statistics shitting on us and use against us while these same folks u worship killed 100+ million ppl during ww2 alone? Stop trying to appease to the world for an acceptance![]()
What you're describing isn't some cadancentric idea. It's static and remains the same everywhere you go in the world. As a minority or outside group to the general population you're subject to more scrutiny. In some instances, you have to work twice as hard to get half as far, and in some others you're afforded more opportunity than the native constituents. That's just a fact of life.
I'm not knocking individualism, but reputation is important. A terrible reputation is a symptom of IDAFism, and that is a fucking scourge and antithetical to garnering success and a good image.
Nah, that's simply not true. You need a change of perspective.If we were the best ppl right now with the best manners, ppl would still find reasons to hate ur guts, how can u accept there statistics shitting on us and use against us while these same folks u worship killed 100+ million ppl during ww2 alone? Stop trying to appease to the world for an acceptance
Nah, that's simply not true. You need a change of perspective.
And what's this about worshipping and masters you keep repeating? If you're having a crisis of faith, I don't remember volunteering as your scapegoat![]()
Nah, that's simply not true. You need a change of perspective.
And what's this about worshipping and masters you keep repeating? If you're having a crisis of faith, I don't remember volunteering as your scapegoat![]()
I wish you wouldn't bring up Jews. The two scenarios aren't comparable. Being hated for crime and ne'erwellism as an immigrant group and further having an IDGAF attitude about image impedes success, and is nothing like the biblically and jealousy-induced ethnic cleansing that happened to Jews due to their relative success. If we were doing better than the general population, we wouldn't be having this conversation.No, there's plenty of real life evidence supporting that theory. That even if you do have an image of success as a community that you will always be under scrutiny and suspicion, such as the Jewish community in Europe that have suffered through countless pogroms and expulsions throughout history. When their only sin was to be more successful than the average native residing in their host country.
I wish you wouldn't bring up Jews. The two scenarios aren't comparable. Being hated for crime and ne'erwellism as an immigrant group and further having an IDGAF attitude about image impedes success, and is nothing like the biblically and jealousy-induced ethnic cleansing that happened to Jews due to their relative success. If we were doing better than the general population, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
you're honestly kinda obtuse sometimes. not very open to dissenting opinions.
When was the last time a xamilo raped someone?Yeah, I think we can all agree Somalis have a rape problem, regardless of gender :/
When was the last time a xamilo raped someone?
It's defiantly possible for a woman to rape but it's quite pathetic how you lumped them with somali men.
Except Somali women don't have a rape problem, it's the men that rape anyone with a pulse, from langaab clans to European men.Yes, because I was very fucking serious when I posted that. She said numbers don't matter and I simply regurgitated her bs.
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Except Somali women don't have a rape problem, it's the men that rape anyone with a pulse, from langaab clans to European men.
This widespread IDGAF attitude Somalis seem to have is actually a big part of the problem.
I wish you wouldn't bring up Jews. The two scenarios aren't comparable. Being hated for crime and ne'erwellism as an immigrant group and further having an IDGAF attitude about image impedes success, and is nothing like the biblically and jealousy-induced ethnic cleansing that happened to Jews due to their relative success. If we were doing better than the general population, we wouldn't be having this conversation.