I disagree with the first part. I think Black guys are way more likely to see White as a trophy than Somali guys are.
I also don’t think there’s anything wrong with being attracted to White people. If anything, it’s to be expected if you grew up surrounded by them.
I think most of us who didn’t grow up around many Somalis have more “come around” to the thought of Somalis than anything else (that’s if we have to begin with). Until relatively recently, I couldn’t see a Somali guy as an option at all. I really just saw all them as relatives.
What changed that was meeting a really attractive one whom I hadn’t grown up with. But from I’ve seen, that was a fluke, down to the way we interacted and got along, bc besides the whole religion thing, most Somali guys wouldn’t fit that dynamic I want anyway, so my default is Ajnabi.
That’s a word to the bolded, the 2nd part of what you said, which I do agree with; it’s very true that they have expectations of Somali girls that they don’t have of non-Somalis.
That’s bc of the culture, being that most Somali girls have engrained that they have to do X,Y, Z within a relationship, that in turn the Somali guys take for granted as a requirement, with no equivalence in what’s expected of him. Another reason White/Ajnabi became a natural choice for me.
Being as self-sacrificing and unbalanced
because inherent status Western society has given them. Same reason lots of guy want the best car but can only get what they can pay for. Nothing is more embarrassing then being know as the person with the worst car
So by your analogy, somali women are 'the worst car'