Somali girl want the somalia government to help after her Pakistan husband refused to renew her residents.

Another #HalimoExit gone wrong.

I've made this observation: When #AbdiExit guy marries his non-Xalimo gazelle, we hear no complaints, but when Xalimo marries her non-Farax guy, it is almost guaranteed that we'll hear her cries. Yet Xalimos still do it. Well, let them deal with the consequences.

In this case, the Somali govt should only repatriate her, if that is what she wants. Her children are Pakistanis and they're in their country. Her ex-husband doesn't want her? Fine, she needs to live with the consequences of her choice.
Stop turning this into a gender war please and leave the cringe abdiexit/xalimoexit on tiktok. You sound spiteful as regardless of what the kids are, they’re under a certain age and need their mother.

We’ve all seen enough cases of cadaan women gaining custody of half Somali kids and the children turning gaal. Only reason why these men aren’t crying about it is because they’re simply not attached to their kids like a woman is.
 
Stop turning this into a gender war please and leave the cringe abdiexit/xalimoexit on tiktok. You sound spiteful as regardless of what the kids are, they’re under a certain age and need their mother.

We’ve all seen enough cases of cadaan women gaining custody of half Somali kids and the children turning gaal. Only reason why these men aren’t crying about it is because they’re simply not attached to their kids like a woman is.


I repeat I've never seen a Farah who married a non-Xalimo complaining online or asking the Somali community and/or Somali govt to help him out. But for Xalimo, their cries are endless. And it is not a gender war, but facts-based observation. Prove me wrong, if you can.

With respect to the woman in the OP's video, Somali govt has no business of arguing on her behalf. She married an ajnabi man, has 8 children with him, and now the guy doesn't want her and wants to keep his children. She can go through the Pakistani courts, but the Somali govt has no role in this woman's ordeal. And as much as I have a sympathy for her, she is living with the consequences of her decision to marry a Timojileec boy.

Back to my earlier point, #HalimoExit gyals are running and crying back to the Somali community as soon as shit hits the fan. :childplease: :wow:
 
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I repeat I've never seen a Farah who married a non-Xalimo complaining online or asking the Somali community and/or Somali govt to help him out. But for Xalimo, their cries are endless. And it is not a gender war, but facts-based observation. Prove me wrong, if you can.
Why would they, when they can leave the child there and just marry again? Those men are simply not attached to their kids. Nothing worse than kids ending gaal, yet many don’t care. That says a lot tbh. The difference is this is a mother who does care and her kids need her.

With respect to the woman in the OP's video, Somali govt has no business of arguing on her behalf. She married an ajnabi man, has 8 children with him, and now the guy doesn't want her and wants to keep his children. She can go through the Pakistani courts, but the Somali govt has no role in this woman's ordeal. And as much as I have a sympathy for her, she is living with the consequences of her decision to marry a Timojileec boy.
Even if the Somali government wanted to help, they probably couldn’t as leaving Pakistani soil with the kids would be a hassle.

Back to my earlier point, #HalimoExit gyals are running and crying back to the Somali community as soon as shit hits the fan. :childplease: :wow:
Again, this is a real life issue of a grieving mother and you want to make it into a gender war. Like I said before it is vindictive and xaasidno wallahi. Definitely comes from a place of believing she deserves this because her ex spouse isn’t Somali. Devoid any mercy for not only a mother but also little kids who need their hooyo.
 
Why would they, when they can leave the child there and just marry again? Those men are simply not attached to their kids. Nothing worse than kids ending gaal, yet many don’t care. That says a lot tbh. The difference is this is a mother who does care and her kids need her.

With respect to the woman in the OP's video, Somali govt has no business of arguing on her behalf. She married an ajnabi man, has 8 children with him, and now the guy doesn't want her and wants to keep his children. She can go through the Pakistani courts, but the Somali govt has no role in this woman's ordeal. And as much as I have a sympathy for her, she is living with the consequences of her decision to marry a Timojileec boy.
Even if the Somali government wanted to help, they probably couldn’t as leaving Pakistani soil with the kids would be a hassle.

Back to my earlier point, #HalimoExit gyals are running and crying back to the Somali community as soon as shit hits the fan. :childplease: :wow:
Again, this is a real life issue of a grieving mother and you want to make it into a gender war. Like I said before it is vindictive and xaasidno wallahi. Definitely comes from a place of believing she deserves this because her ex spouse isn’t Somali. Devoid any mercy for not only a mother but also little kids who need their hooyo.


I told you I have a sympathy for her. And believe me if there is a go fund me page, I would donate to her. Perhaps you can start one if you're genuine with your concern.

That being said, yes, we are gonna highlight these women running with ajnabi men and then running back to us (Somali community). You need to realize the topic of Xalimo running with ajnabi men and crying back is far too common nowadays. Some of those ajnabi men are dissing their wives and the Somali community online. So yes, the Halimos' naivety is in full play here, and people are gonna talk about it. You can't just shut us off.
 
I told you I have a sympathy for her. And believe me if there is a go fund me page, I would donate to her. Perhaps you can start one if you're genuine with your concern.

That being said, yes, we are gonna highlight these women running with ajnabi men and then running back to us (Somali community). You need to realize the topic of Xalimo running with ajnabi men and crying back is far too common nowadays. Some of those ajnabi men are dissing their wives and the Somali community online. So yes, the Halimos' naivety is in full play here, and people are gonna talk about it. You can't just shut us off.
Bro, she’s a fob from back home so her case isn’t the case of a diaspora girl maybe dating/getting to know an ajnabi boy and then eventually marrying. Also, this case is 5x worse as she doesn’t have the money, passport or government backing to have any form of security and since she’s from back home she clearly isn’t on the Faraxs are shit wave which is a Western gender war, so using it on some miskeen woman who ended up marrying a timo jelec is just sad behavior. There was a similar case of a Xalimo married to an Indian man. She too was a fob, but it turned out she was married off at 14 to this man by her father whilst they were in Saudi. Women back home marrying these ajnabis generally isn’t the same as a Western Somali woman.

The Somali girls getting dissed by their ajnabi partners are no where near comparable to these cases. Those are Western girls that have passport, government backings and have an element of protection if shit hits the fan so to speak. Diss those girls are much as you want, but a helpless mother who wants to raise her kids?!

I’m glad you’re somewhat sympathetic.
 
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Bro, she’s a fob from back home so her case isn’t the case of a diaspora girl maybe dating/getting to know an ajnabi boy and then eventually marrying. Also, this case is 5x worse as she doesn’t have the money, passport or government backing to have any form of security and since she’s from back home she clearly isn’t on the Faraxs are shit wave which is a Western gender war, so using it on some miskeen woman who ended up marrying a timo jelec is just sad behavior.

The Somali girls getting dissed by their ajnabi partners are no where near comparable to these cases. Those are Western girls that have passport, government backings and have an element of protection of shit hits the fan so to speak. Diss those girls are much as you want, but a helpless mother who wants to raise her kids?!

I’m glad you’re somewhat sympathetic.

Do we have a way to donate to her? If there is a someone who knows her, they can also pass her info to Somalis, that way we can help her out collectively.

That being said, irrespective of the location, Somali parents always warn the Somali girls about these ajnabi men they bring in, but they don't listen.

I remember what a Muslim revert who was a scholar stated about Somali parents' ordeal: He stated Arabs and Dessi Muslim communities have a culture where before their daughters can talk to the men, they must talk to the girls' parents first. Basically, there is no courtship between the two before girl's family give the OK. However, Somali culture allows their girls to talk to anyone and then the parents involve later on. Sometimes, it is too late because the 2 people may be emotionally involved already.

So the sheikh was advising that the Somali parents should deploy the same custom as Arabs and Desi communities. That way, the parents can have a say in their daughters' relationship before it becomes too deep.

Bottom line, irrespective of the location, Somali parents are always clear on the risks involved when their daughters are marrying ajanabi men. Well, this is one of the consequences.
 
Do we have a way to donate to her? If there is a someone who knows her, they can also pass her info to Somalis, that way we can help her out collectively.
Same I would love to as well.
That being said, irrespective of the location, Somali parents always warn the Somali girls about these ajnabi men they bring in, but they don't listen.
Location matters. A fob woman marrying an ajnabi back home doesn’t happen the way it does in the West generally. Usually it isn’t motivated by love or dating the way it is in the West. There was a case like this that we were discussing on sspot a few weeks ago. A fob Xalimo married to an older Indian man. Turns out her father married her off at 14 whilst in Saudi
I remember what a Muslim revert who was a scholar stated about Somali parents' ordeal: He stated Arabs and Dessi Muslim communities have a culture where before their daughters can talk to the men, they must talk to the girls' parents first. Basically, there is no courtship between the two before girl's family give the OK. However, Somali culture allows their girls to talk to anyone and then the parents involve later on. Sometimes, it is too late because the 2 people may be emotionally involved already.
Honestly, I prefer Somali-Somali marriages. But I have no issues with IR as long as women make sensible choices and marry well respected, established men and the woman has a passport, money and a strong knit family around her and the man is also Western as well who doesn’t have a strong attachment to his country.
So the sheikh was advising that the Somali parents should deploy the same custom as Arabs and Desi communities. That way, the parents can have a say in their daughters' relationship before it becomes too deep.
Marrying in the Somali community can be difficult as we’re not community oriented. Having events for likeminded young Somalis and networks for marriage would be great.
Bottom line, irrespective of the location, Somali parents are always clear on the risks involved when their daughters are marrying ajanabi men. Well, this is one of the consequences.
Yes, the devil you know is better than the devil you don’t. Marrying ajnabi women also has risks, especially when it comes to children.
 
Asian men and their colourist, insecure controlling/abusive ways and families.
Madow men and their neglect, fetishism and sixir.
White men who could be undercover spies and serial killing white supremacists.

We've heard it all at this point, over and over again.

Stick to Faaraxs, you know what you're getting most of the time.


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etc. etc. etc.


Sorry I mean Algerian man, not Argentinian
 
Add saudi to the list. Sad seeing Somali women get treated like that

"the devil you know.."


Even Khaleeji women have horror stories about their husbands. With Somalis, bad Somali men are usually accused of neglect or infidelity not as much physical abuse. There is also misogyny with Somalis especially with tribes that are deeply reer baadiyo. Despite this, It's much better to stick to Somali men, like you said, "better the devil you know"

I think foreign marriages might work better with older/retired couples, no kids to worry about and perhaps less financial and familial stress.
 
Another #HalimoExit gone wrong.

I've made this observation: When #AbdiExit guy marries his non-Xalimo gazelle, we hear no complaints, but when Xalimo marries her non-Farax guy, it is almost guaranteed that we'll hear her cries. Yet Xalimos still do it. Well, let them deal with the consequences.

In this case, the Somali govt should only repatriate her, if that is what she wants. Her children are Pakistanis and they're in their country. Her ex-husband doesn't want her? Fine, she needs to live with the consequences of her choice.


Faaraxs deal with women who fake revert to Islam, or they were sleeping with a non-Muslim women and then they abandon their children. There are enough examples of people trying to find their Somali father, from decades ago even. Women are far less likely to abandon their babies & women are more likely to talk about their trauma.

Foreign marriages are problematic for both men and women. I wish Somalis would start accepting that cultural compatibility is key and it's not haram to turn down someone for not meeting this criteria.
 
Asian men tend to be very possessive, over everything. So, divorcing an Asian man and leaving with the children will be a nightmare. Forget about shared custody and amicable co-parenting. There was a film made about an American woman who tried to leave her abusive Iranian husband. It doesn't matter if you are from their country or if you are from another ethnic group or another race altogether, the crazy always comes out.

*there are exceptions but who wants to risk their life to find out?
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