Somali feminist back at it again

digaagjecel

SSpots starting point guard
Sorry. Now was it that serious for you to make a thread about?
It was serious I wanna know what girl in here right mind truly believes that a Somali man is gonna lively happily ever after with her with zero children. That nigga is gone the instant you tell him that.
 
She's right though? Why would you want to pressure women who don't want children to have children? It's healthier for the child, for the marriage, and for the overall family for the parents to WANT kids. If women who don't want kids have kids the child will be nothing more than a burden.
This thinking is why cadaan people's birthrates in the West are taking a colossal fucking nose-dive. What's more fulfilling and rewarding than children? Mindless consumerism and hedonism?

When you're on your death bed, you're not going to be thinking about how much money you saved by not having children or about that holiday you took to Greece 50yrs ago.
 
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Naa

Not Chun li
It was serious I wanna know what girl in here right mind truly believes that a Somali man is gonna lively happily ever after with her with zero children. That nigga is gone the instant you tell him that.
Why are you so worried about that tho???? Like honestly lmao. Y’all want to be generalized? YOU just focus on marrying a woman that wants your children
 

Al Muslim

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Why are you so worried about that tho???? Like honestly lmao. Y’all want to be generalized? YOU just focus on marrying a woman that wants your children

He's right though, the vast majority of men would not stay with a woman who refuses to bear children.
 

dr.leorio

death\emitter
I actually agree with her. Don't have kids if you don't want them. Lakin you must let your future husband know before you get married to him. In fact, you should bring it up to any guy you're seriously dating.

I personally don't know any Somali man who doesn't want to have children so she'll probably have to marry out.
 

Naa

Not Chun li
He's right though, the vast majority of men would not stay with a woman who refuses to bear children.
Like I said, what does that have to do with him? Some women don’t want to be mothers and that’s fine, they can still find a husband. Who women marry will never be up to any man.

why do y’all want children to be in situations where they aren’t wanted?
 

digaagjecel

SSpots starting point guard
Like I said, what does that have to do with him? Some women don’t want to be mothers and that’s fine, they can still find a husband. Who women marry will never be up to any man.

why do y’all want children to be in situations where they aren’t wanted?
If you don’t want a child you’ll be simply Somali manless. There’s billions of ajanabi’s who don’t want children. Be happy just don’t be delusional that’s all being realistic is healthy for you.
 
I actually agree with her. Don't have kids if you don't want them. Lakin you must let your future husband know before you get married to him. In fact, you should bring it up to any guy you're seriously dating.

I personally don't know any Somali man who doesn't want to have children so she'll probably have to marry out.
90% of non-Somali men still want children, it's only those cosmopolitan, "wowzers the wife got me a nintendo switch after my vasectomy" soy-guzzling manchildren freaks who don't.
 

Xaruun

VIP
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be childless but you should let your husband have a second wife if that’s the case.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
I think you ought to disclose to a suitor whether you want children or not. Don't sell them a pipedream of starting a family than renege on wanting to have kids as that is deceitful.

That's the issue. And there are Abdis who don't want kids. They are just a small % of the population.
 
If you are not going to have children, what is the purpose of marriage?

Nurturing is in the nature of the female, and what better way to do to that is there than by bringing up healthy and pious children?
 

Nafiso Qalanjo

𝖂𝖊'𝖗𝖊 𝖌𝖔𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖙𝖔 𝖜𝖆𝖗 𝖇𝖆𝖇𝖞!
The point is that no somali man is gonna stay with you for the rest of your life just so you can end up with zero children. You either gonna be lonely or gonna have to find an ajanabi.
Where did she say somali men HAVE to be with a women who doesn't want kids?
 

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