So I am 32 years woman old pushing 33 soon.

[Ladylike]

When am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lol when does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom

 

[Encroacher]

When am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lol when does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom

You don't need husband to be frank, not at this era anyways lool

 

[tariq moses]

Do you want children?

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Do you want children?

She could freeze her eggs that way she doesnt necessarily have to marry asap

 

[Waa-Aniga]

When am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lol when does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom

I used to look weird at people who shove their 2 cents while you are broke uni student to go and get married and not delay it into late 20s or 30s. But now looking back i really recommend folks to settle before 30 for sure even if you are like me with many lists. Because the pool of suitors for you as you grow older and stubbornly held on to your list is shorter to nonexistent. So I recommend if you got an offer and you are happy settle you can still have kids don't delay it further.

 

[Ladylike]

Do you want children?

If Allah wills yes. I am not jumping over hoops to have children. In the mean time I have a lot nieces and nephews that I spoil to death.

 

[Waa-Aniga]

If Allah wills yes. I am not jumping over hoops to have children. In the mean time I have a lot nieces and nephews that I spoil to death.

Don't delay sister bismilah dheh and shake the fear aside then proceed inshallah qeyr

 

[mrlog]

When am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lol when does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom

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[Sophisticate]

You will never feel desperate for a husband. That will only happen if you start to lose your shine. Never let yourself go.

But a man is worth at least financially using for a second income and children. I have some Abdis in my back pocket who are decent enough prospects and appear to be receptive to me. I still got it. As long as I have a kid before 40 I'm good, I'A.

 

[__08]

When am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lol when does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom

Not at all. Some miserable married will hate seeing you happy being single. Don’t let anyone get you down.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

When am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lol when does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom

Wait another 2 years.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

@Ladylike when you start approaching men for marriage and they just want have fun then you will know you hit the bottom rock.

Saas kuwaad you will be forever young.

 

[Peache]

When am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lol when does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom

Don’t ever let anyone make you feel bad that you ain’t married and single.

I will truly never understand why people get all hot and bothered by others personal life choices and get triggered, especially when a woman doesn’t follow the status quo.

I see so many channels on YouTube mocking women who are in a certain age bracket that don’t have kids or marriage and it’s like … why do you care what someone else does with their life ?
And trust me it won’t stop, once you get married it’s .. where the children at ? Once you got a kid, when the rest coming ? Then it’s… why do you have so many kids ?

I have one kid and due to what I’ve seen and experienced after my divorce ( and my own personal choice )… I wouldn’t want to get married again. I too enjoy my solitude.

Whereas I know divorced women with multiple kids, each from a different husband cause they couldn’t stay single and always get remarried over and over.
Everyone is allowed to do what they want, just know what to expect from the choices we make.

 

[Abdisamad]

You will never feel desperate for a husband. That will only happen if you start to lose your shine. Never let yourself go.

But a man is worth at least financially using for a second income and children. I have some Abdis in my back pocket who are decent enough prospects and appear to be receptive to me. I still got it. As long as I have a kid before 40 I'm good, I'A.

Hit me up when you get at 50, then you and our two cats can travel the world together

 

[Taij4an]

I don't desire to get married either but I ain't 31 so idk. I don't think u need to desire getting married, but u should get married anyway even if u dont rly care

 

[Taij4an]

have one kid and due to what I’ve seen and experienced after my divorce ( and my own personal choice )… I wouldn’t want to get married again. I too enjoy my solitude.

I understand u enjoy your solitude but the only experience you have had with marriage is a negative and toxic one, so in your mind you would even project that experience to a potentially good marriage that may be awaiting you and deny it due to your past traumas, u should still keep open minded

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

I don't desire to get married either but I ain't 31 so idk. I don't think u need to desire getting married, but u should get married anyway even if u dont rly care

Every xalimo passed through that stage.
So long as you are not parting and doing zina then there is no problem.

The problem is a woman or a man that has seen alot of partners before marriage will never settle it always ends up in divorce.

 

[Peache]

When am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lol when does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom

If you do get married .. make sure he benefits you emotionally, spiritually ( alot of broken people out here ), religiously, and of course finically.
Other than that, enjoy being alone and don’t let no one tell you different! Go and travel and have fun.

 

[Peache]

I understand u enjoy your solitude but the only experience you have had with marriage is a negative and toxic one, so in your mind you would even project that experience to a potentially good marriage that may be awaiting you and deny it due to your past traumas, u should still keep open minded

I didn’t say from my husband. I have had mutiple married men step to me and bother me and have had so many men ask me to be a second or third wife. I’ve seen so many husbands out here cheat on their wives.

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

I didn’t say from my husband. I have had mutiple married men step to me and bother me and have had so many men ask me to be a second or third wife. I’ve seen so many husbands out here cheat on their wives.

Also add so many wives cheating on their husbands.