Sisters sharing their divorce stories

[Sumaaya]

There's a current trend where sisters share their divorce story on YouTube, what are you honest opinions and if you had a YouTube channel, would you share yours?

 

[Karim]

There's a reason why Allah SWT gave men the right of divorce and not women. Granting women the power of divorce will increase the divorce rate based on statistics women often ask for divorce, all these ladies sobbing about their divorces chances are they initiated the divorce.

 

[Octavian]

interesting watch

 

[Sloane Ranger]

There's a current trend where sisters share their divorce story on YouTube, what are you honest opinions and if you had a YouTube channel, would you share yours?

It depends on how you look at it. I don't have much experience talking to guys but hearing of stories of women that have had relationship disasters have helped me and lots of other women know what red flags to look out for and avoid.

 

[QueenofKings]

Cringe! I wish they would stop
I believe marriage is a private thing between 2 people and it should stay that way even if it ends up in divorce.

 

[Sumaaya]

It depends on how you look at it. I don't have much experience talking to guys but hearing of stories of women that have had relationship disasters have helped me and lots of other women know what red flags to look out for and avoid.

I agree with this but I also agree with @QueenofKings. I just think you shouldn't overshare

 

[Sumaaya]

Obviously these stories are one sided but there's one thing that keeps reoccurring and it's the subject of men not being providers and maintainers

Tell me why your wife is living with you and your family? When did we adopt this shameless Asian culture? Why does your wife have to claim a council house as a single mother (your income is haraam) when you can afford to rent privately?

 

[Sumaaya]

I think the women are at fault too because ultimately you teach people how to treat you

 

[Bo$$man]

Obviously these stories are one sided but there's one thing that keeps reoccurring and it's the subject of men not being providers and maintainers

Tell me why your wife is living with you and your family? When did we adopt this shameless Asian culture? Why does your wife have to claim a council house as a single mother (your income is haraam) when you can afford to rent privately?

Somalis didn't adapt this by choice. Living in the west especially in big European cities it's very expensive renting and buying houses especially when married at younger ages. Most people live at home till they get better employment. I guess women should be aware of this when marrying younger guys. It really is dilemma for young couples.

However most Asian own at least one house each even their taxi drivers own properties, due to living at home till they buy their own place with family support. Even the ones who came in the last 20 years own multiple houses now while Somalis don't.

 

[Desert Flower]

The common theme is that they’ve overlooked red flags and then cry once reality hits. Some marry just to get out of hooyos house, honestly. The only girls I feel for are the ones who did everything and still ended up with a bad guy. A majority of couples just want a wedding.

 

[Desert Flower]

I think the women are at fault too because ultimately you teach people how to treat you

We’re a community that just doesn’t think rationally. Guurka is so important and we treat it lightly. You have to sit and ask questions and open your eyes and see who’s in front of you. Doing that will show you who he is rather than who you want him to be.

Some women are so concerned with whether he’ll like her than with if she likes him and if he’s a match for her. Get it together or else the next generation will suffer!

 

[Sloane Ranger]

The common theme is that they’ve overlooked red flags and then cry once reality hits. Some marry just to get out of hooyos house, honestly. The only girls I feel for are the ones who did everything and still ended up with a bad guy. A majority of couples just want a wedding.

Alot of guys give false promises about what he will accomplish to improve their situation. Some have no plans to change and will say whatever they need to in order to get the girl. That's why looking for potential is dangerous its always better to find the guy that has it together to avoid this disappointment.

 

[Desert Flower]

Alot of guys give false promises about what he will accomplish to improve their situation. Some have no plans to change and will say whatever they need to in order to get the girl. That's why looking for potential is dangerous its always better to find the guy that has it together to avoid this disappointment.

Sis, that’s why you observe observe observe. But u can’t do that if you’re not meeting up in person and he’s talking only on the phone and text. Listen more than you talk and you’ll see the signs. Men are easy to read ruunti. It’s just women are desperate to marry that she’s already decided she’ll marry him before doing her homework on him.

 

[Angelina]

There's a reason why Allah SWT gave men the right of divorce and not women. Granting women the power of divorce will increase the divorce rate based on statistics women often ask for divorce, all these ladies sobbing about their divorces chances are they initiated the divorce.

Nah. There was one divorced over text. One was divorced randomly because the husband didn't want to be in a marriage anymore. The reasons vary tbh.

Islamically, a woman either asks her husband for a divorce or go through khula. Considering the fact that we are Muslim, these girls are clearly not 'filling' for divorce.

 

[ReerVanCadde]

i think its fair tbh, if a guy acts differently put on a wig to cover his bald patch wears top clothes to attract a makeup wearing female then they both deserve each other?

 

[Wervelwind]

Whats the biggest reason these xalimos divorce? I dont watch their videos

 

[Abdisamad]

Obviously these stories are one sided but there's one thing that keeps reoccurring and it's the subject of men not being providers and maintainers

Tell me why your wife is living with you and your family? When did we adopt this shameless Asian culture? Why does your wife have to claim a council house as a single mother (your income is haraam) when you can afford to rent privately?

This must be a UK issue

 

[ReerVanCadde]

comeon girls, think of it from a guys perspective.
They've paid down that mehr to secure the girl of their lives and on the morning after their marriage he wakes up to a whole different girl with an acne filled visage??
This is the real cause of most divorces cause the guy is suffering from permanent ED and cant get his thingy up with that image in his mind

ya illahi

 

[ReerVanCadde]

This must be a UK issue

Agreed, us Canadians don't have this issue

 

[Sloane Ranger]

comeon girls, think of it from a guys perspective.
They've paid down that mehr to secure the girl of their lives and on the morning after their marriage he wakes up to a whole different girl with an acne filled visage??
This is the real cause of most divorces cause the guy is suffering from permanent ED and cant get his thingy up with that image in his mind

ya illahi

So makeup ?