Sister might be marrying madhibaan

NotMyL

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No one cares about this anymore, people are marrying outside their race qabil isn’t a problem at least not here in the west, haven’t heard anyone turning marriage proposal down because of a qabil.
 

Baarisiyomoos

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So I decided to ask my mom about this and I said what would you do if I married a Madhibaan guy and she said “SubhanAllah samada way furantahay” :damn::damn: she said don’t bring no madhibaan guy home cause I’d be the outcast of the family and no one will talk to me again or include our kids in anything. I was so shocked. Also she said one lady, her son married a madhibaan woman and she refused to meet her own grandchildren for that reason only.
 

Aurelian

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So I decided to ask my mom about this and I said what would you do if I married a Madhibaan guy and she said “SubhanAllah samada way furantahay” :damn::damn: she said don’t bring no madhibaan guy home cause I’d be the outcast of the family and no one will talk to me again or include our kids in anything. I was so shocked. Also she said one lady, her son married a madhibaan woman and she refused to meet her own grandchildren for that reason only.
Wallahi we are sick nation. At that point, I'll not talk to any of my family again
 

digaagjecel

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Not a single person in the west has asked me for my qabil. The only way I learned about mine was I heard my dad talking about it. Before that I didn’t even know what it was. Majority of you guys are over exaggerating, Somali parents are looking to get their children married off as soon as possible. Qabil is the last thing on their mind especially when they’re living in public housing.
 
Do you think any Somali family will let you marry their daughter once they find out that your sister married a madhiban? Boy ain’t no way.

Thats why I respect south Asian, Arabs, Turkish people. If their daughters dishonour them, then they honour kill them.

You need deen, intensive dua, Quran Saar and Ruqya. May Allah cure you of your sickness.

You come across as a psychopath of some sort. Get yourself cross examined.
 
My sister might be getting married soon to a madibaan and I personally don’t have anything against and my mom knows about it but my dad will freak out when he finds out. It makes me kinda sad because it’s supposed to be a joyous time and event but I feel like it’s gonna be overshadowed by qabil. Any advice people or insight ?


Damn is that really the only reason?

I would personally not care about a nigga race or clan. However, you should probably try to get your father on board.
 

Cerberus

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My sister might be getting married soon to a madibaan and I personally don’t have anything against and my mom knows about it but my dad will freak out when he finds out. It makes me kinda sad because it’s supposed to be a joyous time and event but I feel like it’s gonna be overshadowed by qabil. Any advice people or insight ?
Man i thought you were gwan introduce your sister to me since we go back yo Cali since the 90s my homie. We were in Cali when Pac was alive. I'm joking anyways Madhibaan dad Madhibaan so who cares? Why your father gonna go wild? He sure won't give girl away religiously if he finds out he's Madhibaan? This is why Qabil is bad altogether. It's a Primitive thing.
 

Apollo

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I would be more disappointed if one of my sisters married a partially foreign admixed Somali from my own clan than a pure Somali native Madhibaan, lmao, but that's just me.
 
My sister might be getting married soon to a madibaan and I personally don’t have anything against and my mom knows about it but my dad will freak out when he finds out. It makes me kinda sad because it’s supposed to be a joyous time and event but I feel like it’s gonna be overshadowed by qabil. Any advice people or insight ?

Whats your qabil? The new generation are mixing even in somaliland i heard young teens marrying gabooye, but its actually females who are marrying gabooyaha, but never have i seen or heard of an isaaq male marrying gabooye female.

When i was young, like 13 back in hargeisa i had a crush with a madhiban girl, honestly they are gorgeous, she looked like south arabian yemani or socorati people. I told couple of my close friends and i was told she is gabooye avoid her and since than i learnt the stigma of marrying a gobooye. I was told if you are seen flirting or marrying a gabooye girl than you ashamed sacad muuse and that i will be disowned from the clan and my family will also see me as a dead person to them.

i noticed some madhiban and afar people are look alike alot, or maybe its just me.
 

mr steal your naag

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My sister might be getting married soon to a madibaan and I personally don’t have anything against and my mom knows about it but my dad will freak out when he finds out. It makes me kinda sad because it’s supposed to be a joyous time and event but I feel like it’s gonna be overshadowed by qabil. Any advice people or insight ?
She should not care if she lives in the west. Somalis need to understand that nobody cares about the qabil dynamics in the west. :sass1:
 

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